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okay well i've always told myself that i'm going to wait until marriage before i have sex... but now that i'm older and in highschool i've faced reality. and i'm not gonna kid myself. if i'm ready to have sex, i'm going to. of course i'm gonna wait for the guy i love, but still. everyone always says "wait til marriage" but in reality WHO REALLY DOES? and even if i have sex with a guy and we break up and regret it, that doesnt mean i'm gonna be depressed for the rest of my life would it? so whats the big deal? who agrees.

I totaly agree w/ you. I never told myself i was going to wait till marriage...but i did tell myself I was going to wait till LOVE. I lost my virginity when i was 16 to my boyfriend and almost 2.5 years later...we're still together and as happy as ever. Even if we would have broken up shortly after having sex...i would have been heartbroken but i wouldn't have regretted it one bit.

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