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I'm Michelle. I'm turning 15 soon!!! I live in beautiful Florida. Ask me about almost anything and I'll answer it, except things about computers. I mean i kno like everything about them but i don't like talking about them. So ya.

*One day you'll come to me and ask me whats more important: you or my life. I'll say my life. then you'll walk away never knowing that you are my life.*

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[Sorry about the lengh, but I need some advice=)}About a year and a half ago, I met a guy who changed my life. When one of my best friends introduced us, I didn't really think anything of it. We hardly ever saw eachother, but talked often and had the most deep, intriguing conversations that would last for hours on end. We had a connection, somthing I had never felt before...but there, of course, was a problem...He lived an hour away. We were 14 at the time, and, me , being an only child, continued to be extremley protected by my parents when it came to dating. I saw him literally once every 6 months, and it would always be someplace public, with each one of our friends involved. A year later, and a year older, my parents agreed to take me out there for a few hours so we could finnaly be together. After that visit, we started seeing eachother more and more often, and our love grew stronger and stronger. My parents started allowing me to spend the night, and I have made so many new, interesting friends. The summer, amazing, every weekend me and him would spend together. Now that school started again, it came to realization that we have different lives, and a lot of things are going to interfere with our relationship. I am in love, and every minute i spend thinking about him...but I'm afraid that our distance, even if it is only an hour away, is going to damage our connecton. I see couples in the hallway at school, around town, and other places, and it makes me so depressed, I never take any time spent with him for granite. Some people really don't know how lucky they are to have such a great person becasue they're always with them. So I guess my question is, how do I keep this relationship strong, despite the fact that I am not around to see his actions. I mean, I trust him, and he trusts me, but all the girls I know from his town love him. He's a ladies man and I am so very jelous. I wish i could do somthing, but he always brings up how far away i am, thats why we held off going steady until the summer....please i really need some intelligent advice.

Thank you for reading this...

Hey Girl. Well this story kind of reminds me of my parents when they met. They were really far apart and didn't see each other that much but after they got out of high skool they moved in together and now they're married. So u never know wat the future might hold. I do understand where yr coming from when u say he is a ladies man and yr jealous. I would be too. It's true, It's hard to have a distant relationship but if yr love is strong enough, the bond between u guys will stay forever. O and to maybe try see wat some of his norm,al actions are, is to talk to some of his everyday friends. O has he told those girls that he has a girlfriend? cuz maybe they don't know, and think that they still have a chance with him. Ask him. Talk to him about where he thinks the relationship is going and see if that helps any bit. Well if u need n e more help, just contact me. My contacts are in my column. Good Luck and I hope it all works out!
~*Michelle*~

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