I'm almost 15 years old, and I'm female. I've always been very open about myself. Recently i found myself attracted to both boys AND girls, and I want to be open about it. My parents are very supportive, but how do i make the bashers at school leave me alone, if and when i DO come out to them? I want to show GAY PRIDE!
Well, I have a friend who is bi and a lot of gay and lesbian friends, it's really a common thing tho some people don't see it all that much. A lot of people hate me and my friends cuz they are bi and gay and i don't care. If and when you tell people about yourself you need to realize, people WILL in fact hate you, whether it's right or wrong they will and before you do tell people you need to make sure you'll be able to accept it. All i can say to deal with those people is to keep your head held high and go on with your life. Eventually, they'll go on with theirs. And if they don't, there's always teachers, principals, adult figures in general, If you ever feel even the slightest bit unsafe in your school you go to an adult figure and talk about it. You should always feel safe in school..ALWAYS! I'm glad you wanna tell people about it but you need to make sure you'll be ready for the reactions of people. If you lose friends over it, they were NOT good friends, and hey you probably will i'm like the only friend of my friends who are gay because their other friends sucked. Always be proud of who you are no matter how many people might dislike who you are. Good luck hope i helped. :)
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Thanks. You really made me feel better.
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