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Hmm.. What kind of advice can I give? Any kind you'd like. Advice on relationships (all types) Getting out of trouble(my specialty) Sarcasim is always fun.
Giving advice is something I do best, I'll awnser any question you'd like, unless they're stupid and extremely pointless ones.
About me?- I like playing basketball, I'm still in Highschool, doing things that will get me in trouble, but always being good enough to get out of it.
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I could go on, but I don't think I will.
Anyways, if you do ask me questions, try to hold back on tYpInG lyK diZ N sTuFf alright. Other than that Anything you want to know I'll do my best to help with :)
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( 16/m/tx/junior in High School )
here's the deal: i've always been kinda...um...not cool lol or w/e u wanna call it but...i kinda found myself and figured out how to dress and do my hair to where i look my best...and now im starting to get noticed...but by all the wrong people...i mean i know the ugly weird chicks have feelings to but my god...i just want a pretty girl to finally notice me in good ways, because that's NEVER NEVER NEVER been the case, i mean every once in a LONG while there'll be a pretty one, but i'm just talking in general...i'm one of the nice guys, not one of the bad boys or w/e, and i know i'm not deadly good looking but i'm sure of myself...i mean i think i look better than most...that's not arrogance talking that's just confidence...a small amount but anyways...i'm really shy and idk exactly what to do when i'm around realllly good lookin girls...i mean i can talk their heads off online but in person i freeze up and stutter and all that stuff...lol...( jeeze i sure typed alot lol sorry ) any ideas on how NOT to be so shy...and how to get noticed in good ways? instead of ways like "oh god there goes that one kid...what's his name again? he's weird..." idk i'm just tired of the nice guys never winning...it's always the jerks and the bad boy types :(
thanks...
-Kyle
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You do infact seem like a nice guy, BUT... one thing I would like to point out
"by all the wrong people, ugly weird chicks have feelings to by my god"
That's kind of harsh. Aren't you basically doing the same thing to them that some "pretty girls" are doing to you. Believe me, there's a lot more than just looks to a girl.
If you want a "pretty" girl, be a little more outgoing. It's a good thing that you're sure of yourself, and I know how the whole "you can talk on the internet but freeze up in person" thing goes, you got to learn to take the akwardness and just go with it. One of these days a pretty girl will notice you, just don't forget to do things a little more outgoing so you can BE noticed. It's NOT always the jerks and the bad boy types that win.
Something about girls is that most of them truley go for the personality rather than the looks...(MOST) So if you try and stand out a little, and maybe gain the courage to strike up a conversation with someone who you think is "pretty" (and has a personality) then just go with that. Don't be someone you're not, and eventually maybe you can get the courage up to ask her out on a date.
I hope I helped, just remember, LOOKS aren't everything, you might find someone who's not the best looking, but she'll be just right for you.
(Rating: 5) yeah ur right...lol wasn't meaning to be harsh but that did come across that way didn't it? lol oops thx tho here's a 5 :-D