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Q: Hey. I need some advice and you seem like you like helping people out so here i go:
I'm a sophomore and ever since last year, I have liked this guy in my high school and he has liked me back. However, this guy is a player. He goes out with many girls at the same time. He gets over all of them, yet he's never been able to get over me. He always asks me out and I always refuse him. Who would want to go out with a player and get hurt? He promises me that he'll change. Sadly, I caught him making out with another girl the day after. I was devastated. I sent him a letter that told him how I felt. In it I told him how stupid I felt for liking and caring so much about him for such a long time. I also told him I was sick of lies and false promises. I ended it by saying "don't write back or talk to me anymore...leave me alone, you've hurt me enough." That day I came home and started crying. I should feel better now that it's over, but I don't. The thought that he'll never talk to me again makes me sad. Even though he's broken my heart and played me from the very start, I can't help but keep liking him. Should I talk to him again? Should I keep trying to make "us" work out? Please let me know your honest answer.
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It really truly sounds like you like this guy a lot and if so, I definitely think you should talk to him again and try to make the relationship work. Try to give him encouragement about changing but don't nag at him, otherwise, he won't listen to you. If he continues to not change the way he's acting then you'll know for sure that he's not the right person for you. It's going to be hard to trust him for a while and maybe for a long time but just try to make it work. I hope this helps and good luck!
Crystal
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Thanks for your help. Ii'm going to give things one last shot.
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bio
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My name is Crystal and I'm 22. I live in Oregon. I'm married to a wonderful person. We have been married for 2 years. Some of the things I enjoy doing are spending time with my bestfriend, Christine and her fiance, Aj. I also love spending time with my husband, Brent. I love to go walking and go swimming and also love to read but talking is my main thing. If you need help with something I'm here for you. I would love to give you advice. Thanks for reading!! :-D
My sister, Holly, also has her very own advice column. Check it out! Her name is HollyAnn2282 and she gives great advice. Thanks!
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Info
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: Oregon Occupation: Reservationist Age: 22 ICQ: AIM: Yahoo: MSN: crystal200021us@hotmail.com Member Since: July 22, 2004 Answers: 196 Last Update: September 2, 2004 Visitors: 10952
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