Hey. I need some advice and you seem like you like helping people out so here i go:
I'm a sophomore and ever since last year, I have liked this guy in my high school and he has liked me back. However, this guy is a player. He goes out with many girls at the same time. He gets over all of them, yet he's never been able to get over me. He always asks me out and I always refuse him. Who would want to go out with a player and get hurt? He promises me that he'll change. Sadly, I caught him making out with another girl the day after. I was devastated. I sent him a letter that told him how I felt. In it I told him how stupid I felt for liking and caring so much about him for such a long time. I also told him I was sick of lies and false promises. I ended it by saying "don't write back or talk to me anymore...leave me alone, you've hurt me enough." That day I came home and started crying. I should feel better now that it's over, but I don't. The thought that he'll never talk to me again makes me sad. Even though he's broken my heart and played me from the very start, I can't help but keep liking him. Should I talk to him again? Should I keep trying to make "us" work out? Please let me know your honest answer.
Well, hun that's sad he's like that. I think your choices have been very good and steady all through this and it shows me that you are very smart but you can't help how you feel about people. I truly believe it's time you got over him. He hurt you once and if he hurts ya once he'll do it again. Now don't go thinking you can't change guyz cuz it is possible for a guy to change but some of them you just can't and he seems like one of them. If this is the way it's ended it seems like he's not for you and you should try getting over him, get involved go out with friends and try to go for someone else. But, if you do go out with someone don't try to find him in others cuz that's very unfair to that person. It's natural to keep liking him, but you can't forever because this isn't the way love should be. It's time to forget him. Hope i helped and good luck. :)
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Thanks for your advice, Ally. I think it is time I moved on. You helped me see that.
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