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hey! thanks for looking at my advice site! don't be afraid to ask me anything - worst comes to worse i'll just straight up tell you that i don't know the answer (but i'll try to give you advice neway haha)...remember: a different perspective is always helpful :~D !advice
Well you see I really honestly don't care for her as a friend anymore. As, I said in the previous question, we are no longer friends, and we will never be again, because i know she will never change. Her parents know and have put her into rehabs. She just comes home and does the same shit, and lies and covers it up. I know my sister is not dumb and wont do that shit, and I'm glad of that. I think she is a bitch. She gets on my damn nerves now. I used to feel sorry for her and want to help her, but you cant help someone who doesnt want to be helped. she would tell me she wanted to stop and then like minutes go get high. I know that she really doesnt want to stop. I think its a shame that something is thought was just "all in fun" is now taking over her life. But, i can no,longer feel any sorrow for her, I think she is just stupid. I don't wanna be her friend. And despite the things she did, and the fact that I no longer like her, I had no problem with my sister hanging with her. I am not the jealous type. But, I just never thought that she would basically encourage my sister to do drugs when she knows that its wrong. I'm just glad that my sister is smart enough to say no. I wanna call her up and tell her " You fuckin little junky, If I ever find out that you are doing drugs around my sister or offering her drugs ever again, so help me god you won't have to worry about the drugs killing you"... thats just how mad I am. Now that you know more about how I feel, what do you think I should say?
i dunno if calling her up and telling her off is the best idea - from what you've told me, i don't think it's going to do any good or get any reaction from the girl, i mean it's totally acceptable that you're majorly pissed, but i don't think that telling the girl off will give you the satisfaction that you want it to...however, if you ever meet the girl in person and she rubs you the wrong way, then i think that would be the ideal time to blow up on her!
one more thing, what does your sister see in this girl to want to hang out with her?
(Rating: 5) thanks. I guess she chills with her cuz we have all been friends for so long, and also cuz she wants to help her. She's not dumb, she knows that just cuz other people are doing wrong things around her doesnt mean she has to.