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lorelei's Picture Hi, I'm Lorelei. I live with my mother, my older sister and my grandmother.
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Shopping always seems to be better away from home too.
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Okay, I'm just kind of curious as to what people will advise me to do about this...
My boyfriend and I have sex - don't get me wrong, he's not bad at it, lol - but I can't seem to orgasm. I mean, we've tried a few interesting positions (lol), and I'll come close and stay there for awhile, but the feeling sort of dies.
I know I'm capable of orgasming, as I can get myself off *cough*, so that's not the problem.
Originally, I thought it was just that I needed to mentally loosen up, but I managed to do that and discovered that wasn't the problem.
I'm sixteen, and a girl, by the way, if that matters. He's the first guy I've had sex with. I don't want to hear "you're too young to be having sex," because age is a state of mind, not being, and I AM old enough for it. Besides, that's not my question.
Anyone have any tips I can give him, or even anything I can do?
Thanks in advance. =)

I'll tell you what worked for me.

Vibrators. :]

Sometimes, during sex, not enough attention is paid to the clitoris. We all know how precious the clitoris is.
Try using a bullet or egg the next time you have sex. You can get one for a pretty reasonable price at http://www.adameve.com

Or if you'd rather not spend the money, maybe try positions where your clitoris is stimulated too. Or ask him to play with it a little during intercourse.

Hope that's helpful. Good luck!

P.S. - I don't let guys give me oral, either. Rock on. :P


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(5) Hmm...point taken. I'll have to try positions, though...flat broke. >.

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