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there's this guy that i've been good friends with since the 2nd grade. but this year we've gotten closer (prob. cause he was dating my best friend for a while) now i seem to be feeling stronger feelings for him. more then friendship. it was a month after i started feeling this way when i told him how i felt. he gave me the "i'd like us to be friends" line. of course, i broke out in tears. and for about two weeks, i cried myself to sleep every night. we still talk normally but idk, i guess i really thought he might actually feel the same. i'm 14/f and i'd like to know what i should do. should i get over him? should i try some things to attract him? -- if so, what? idk...please help me. i'll rate quick!
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Ok, the first thing you shouldn't do is push him to have feelings for you. Don't try to attract him. For the most part that will do one of either two things, push him away, or make him date you just to shut you up. The a guy, who has a friend that likes him, wants to know that even though you like him, that you are willing to be just friends. I mean a guy wants to know that the person likes him so much that she would be friends just to be around him. And most of the times that helps him to develop feelings for you. And being a guy I would know that for the most part that works. We don't like girls that try to hard to get us to like them. So, just be his friend and let him know from time to time, not too much, but every now and then, that you like him. And he might develop feelings for you. If not then you two might not be ment for each other. Hope I helped.
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Rating: 5
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thanks...i guess i really needed a guy's opinion on it.
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