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Ok, over the past few weeks a lot has been going on. I'm fixing to make some big transactions and I'm going to have to leave a lot of my close friends behined to move to a different location. Something that's always been very hard for me, is dealing with CHANGE. I know it's like that for a lot of people, nobody really likes change yeah yeah. But I always get extremely depressed when I have to change things in big ways, especially if I love the way my life is going. I just feel like everything is going to fall apart. So, I guess what my question is, is has anyone ever had a hard time with change, and overcame it.. if yes, then how so.. I mean if there even is an awnser.
Thanks.

I think the bigest chages in my life recently have been the death of my two remaining grandparents. To be honest I don't quite know how I delt with it, maybe I'm still dealing with it, but I know that after a while the upset that was caused becomes slightly more bearable. You never really forget what it was like, but things get easier.

I think the best things you can do are to try and keep in contact with your old mates, by phone e-mail, snail mail ect, as well as joining some local clubs [in the new location] and maybe inviting your new neighbours round for a housewarming or somthing.

I wish you the best of luck :)

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