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i dont live with my dad.my dad is mad at me.I dont want anything to do with him anymore. his friend tim from highschool is his best friend. and he is afraid to stick up 4 me. heres the story.... tims daughter (chelsey) and i have known eachother for 12 years.. just recently, we got in a BAD HUGE FIGHT. bad language was involved. and i got blamed for everything that we both said. and i told my dad its not fair that i have to get punished 4 somehting we both did. so he said he was gonna do something to me. so i refused to go with him. and my mom is stickin up 4 me.she is the only one i have. and like 3 days ago i got a call from my dad. he was tellin me i got grounded and i didnt. he told me to stay off the internet. he also asked y i said i hated chelsey and didnt want to be her friend any more. and i said i hate chelsey cuz the things she does to me. and i also told him i didnt want anything to do with him and he got mad at me and called me names. he also said im never welcome in his house anymore. he told me he would get me someday and hurt my mom.. what should i do? i have no clue. i dont want anyhting to do with my dad he gets into trouble with the law and i dont want anything to do with that or him. i think he hates me and i dont trust him anymore.. what should i do? this girl chelsey has also been tryin to be my friend but i dont want to be friends with her. she is also telling everyone she hates me and all her other friends filled my hole. now i hate her. im so confused and my dad makes my life miserable!!! help me please!
~Confused~
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Well, one, your father shouldn't be threatning your family.
You could get him into serious trouble for saying something like he did. If you don't want to see him, that's fine. But don't forget that he IS your father, and that he does have rights to see you..maybe? Unless your mom has FULL custodiy your dad can do something, he can go the courts and say that your mom is not giving him time with you...ect. He can lie. If he's making threats like that, I would definatly do something about it. As for your friend Chelsea, how is she getting off so freely about everything that went on? She needs to fess up to her wrong doings too. Someone should also tell your father that FRIENDS FIGHT, the best thing he could have done is just stay out of it. But @ the same time.. you say you hate her, 12 years is A LONG TIME, do you really want to let it all go on this one fight? If you do, I'm sure there's a good reason, but try to look past all the hate you have for her and try and remember why you were friends with her for 12 years. If you can't think of a good reason, then it's probably best ya'll don't talk.
(Rating: 5) you gave me alot of info thanx and my mo has full costodity of me thank god lol and i hope my dad doesnt lie!! thanx sooo much for you advixe and i ther eis a very good reason y i dont want to be he friend anymore