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I've been really good friends with this one girl for nearly my entire life (I'm a girl too btw) and I've always considered her my best friend; however, she's never been very nice to me. She's not a very nice person at all actually. We may have had laughs and great memories together, but as long as I've known her she's always done incredibly bitchy things to me. She would give me something for my birthday and then take it back and give it to her bf. She's stolen the guy I liked right infront of me (and whenever I'm around she calls him on her cell just to make me jealous), she invites all of my best friends to her parties so they won't come to mine telling them that if they go to mine instead of hers that she won't be friends with them anymore... she constantly complains about how stupid I am... and other things like that too. I know that she's not a good friend, and I admit that I don't like her at all anymore! but she thinks that I'm her best friend... and it makes me sad to look back at all the things that we've gone through together. I can't just stop being friends with her can I? We've been "best friends" for over 11 years now! I don't know what I should do. If I told her that I don't like the way she acts I have the feeling that she'll punch me in the face because she's done that before... what should I do?
Well I don't mean to be rude, but my goodness she sounds like a bitch. However, this is a long time friendship and if it's important to you then you should let her know that you're not going to take her crap anymore. And that she has no right to treat you the way she does and her actions don't make her a good friend. Also there might be something bothering her, she might have some family problems, perhaps she needs to feel that she's better than you and compete with you to make herself feel good.She might not mean to make you feel bad, she just does it because of how she's been treated by family members or frineds.. But you don't deserve to have that kind of friend around and talking it out with her first would be a good idea, letting her know what she's doing and how it's making you feel, and if that doesn't work, than it's definatly best if you drop her as a friend. 11 years is a long time babe but nobody deserves to be treated like crap by someone who is suppose to be their "best friend". If she can't change her rude ways then you have other friends it sounds like, and you'd be better off with them.
(Rating: 5) thankyou