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Hi! My name is Kayla.. I'm 21. Through out life, I've had quite a bit of rocky roads and difficult dilemmas. They sucked at the time, but now I've become a call for help.I do it because I enjoy it.
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I have this friend of mine...and well, he just admitted to me that he's bi. and he really likes this other friend of mine, but he doesn't know how to tell him. I really don't want him to get hurt, because I'm pretty sure that my friend that he likes isn't bi, since he told me that he likes this one other girl that's also another friend of mine. It's a whole complicated web of love thing. is there anything he can do?
Just be honest. Coming out as a bi-sexual is a big deal.. but I think anybody who has the strength to come out, also has the strength to take things as they are. It doesn't matter whether or not it's you or his friend who tell him they're not interested.. he'll feel rejection no matter what.
The best thing to do? Lay low. Maybe casually mention that you don't think your friend is interested. Either that, or you can just let him find out from your friend if in fact he ever tells him.
You shouldn't have to worry about this, or do the dirty work. It's kind of you to be concerned about your friendships-- but know that some things can't be controlled, and you have to just let whatever happens around you happen. Even if that means someone you care for will get a bit of and ouchie.
Good luck.
(Rating: 5) I really appreciate the advice you gave me here, and it really turns out that I should have stayed out of this completely. You were right, and if I had listened to you better may be some of these friendships would still be intact. Thanks again you are a wonderful advice giver person!