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I'm 25/Female and stuck! I'm in a serious relationship, but still haven't completely gotten over my first relationship back in high school. That guy and I don't talk anymore, but he constantly visits my website, so I know he's at least thinking of me too. My question is, is it a bad idea to make contact with him, or am I setting myself for more trouble by just being silent? I guess it depends if you're practical or whimsical, and I'm a little of both.
I wouldn't get into contact with him unless you feel completely comfortable talking to him in front of your boyfriend. It could possibly be that your ex is kind of your "go to" guy whenever you start feeling unhappy in a relationship. If you ever really want to be with a person, don't start sneaking behind your current boyfriend's back because if you and the guy you're cheating with do get together, he's always going to know in the back of his mind you're a cheat. Plus, rebound relationships are always hellfire painful in the long run.
If it's meant to be, it's meant to be and will be at the right time. He is just checking in to let you know where he is if you need to reach him, and it ain't bad having a decent guy in your back pocket.
(Rating: 5) you were completely right, and this situation changed my entire life. I am just now coming back to this site after all this time and I wanted to thank you!