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Q: Well see this one day i ahd my friend call my boyfriend up (i know not the best idea) and i had her ask him this one question on a scale from 1-10 1 being you hate her and 10 being you love her and he rated me a five thats like he thinks im ok well i donno if i should dump him or not i mean we have only been dating like 2 weeks and gone out on one date but only in a group of friends should i give him time or push him away?


Lots Of LOve,
Very Confused Girl
That was a stupid question. Why would you ask someone to rate their feelings for you? If he'd said "10", would you start planning the wedding, is that why you asked him that?

If you like him, date him. If you don't, don't. Don't force him to rank his feelings. Heck, you're the one asking advice on the internet, you obviously don't have your feelings figured out or you wouldn't be here, so how can you expect this guy to?

You dont need to be sucj an arrogant follish dickhead i mean the reason i asked him was to see where i stand in his life if he is dating me because he likes me or to get head thats why

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