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i liked this one guy for like 2 years or so and i think he likes me but i didn't talk 2 him for like 3 months and then i saw him at the fair and started talkin 2 him again and i think i like him again cuz when i wasn't talkin 2 him i didn't like him nemore. but i talk 2 him online and sometimes i think i am talkin 2 him and it is one of his friends and they tell me not 2 talk 2 him and stuff and tells me he is gay but when i talk 2 him and i know it is him it seems like he likes me. could he like me and what should i do about his friends say that stuff cuz it gets annoyin and sometimes hurts what they say??? HELP !!!!
You should talk to him and tell him what is going on so that way he knows what you are going through and maybe will talk you his friends and get them to knock it off.
Well I already asked a question on my depression. But yeah... I'm scared to tell my parents' about it. It doesnt seem like they would take it seriously or do much about it. I'm so scared. I don't feel very comfortable telling my parents either. Its so severe though I feel I really need help. I cry at night and I can't get to sleep, I'm so insecure about myself (looks and everything else about me), I don't like kids my age so I don't have many friends (and the few that I have are older which sucks because I can't be with them much). Basically I just hate life in general and I never feel like doing anything... all I do is sit arounf the house all day. And my depression is not like i just get it sometimes... I'm like going through it (a year and a half almost ago is when my really trajic depression started). I don't know what to do... help? Thanks so much
I know how that feels I have been there. It's hard soemtimes because you want to get out of it and you don't know what you should do. Well I think that you should try and go out once in a while so that way you are at least getting out of the house. Then try to stay in touch with your friends over the phone. So that way you know what is going on with them. You can also bring up getting together once in a while when they are not busy so that is another thing that yu could do. Hopefully after getting together with your friends once in a while will get you out of being depressed. If you have any more questions or problem don't be afraid to ask.
How can i make my ex like me again, they told me they loved me once and now they basically ignore me. What can i do?
First of all who broke up with who? Because if you broke up with them and they ignore you then that should tell you that they don't want to even be friends with you since you broke up with them cause that would still be on their mind. But if they broke up with you they could be ignoring you because they want to be friends with you and they don't know how to go about it because you just broke up. So you should give it some time and then something should happen.
ok....my friend right now is suppose to help me hook up w/ this guy from our school...so far everything is good... he says im very attractive and he asked for my sn so i could talk to him some more and get to knw me. This always happens that when i finally get what i would like something goes wrong, like i get unsatisfied or he just says "i don't wanna gf right now" what can i do or say to make this time diffrent... anything i should do to catch his eye?
Maybe it is not you maybe is just wants to be friends. Some guys are like that they don't want a girlfriend they would just like to have someone to talk to.
Ever since my boyfriend and I have engaged in sexual intercourse, I feel as if I am "obligated" to do it every time we are together. Sometimes I just want a romantic day without any sex, but it always ends up happening. Is there anything I can do to stop him from always having it on his mind...haha (nevermind) ... or at least from this constant streak of sexersize. =)
Guys will always have it on their mind. But just because they do doesn't mean that you should have to give it to him all the time. If he cares about you in any way he should respect the fact that you don't want to do it all the time.
I know every guy wants a girlfriend, especially in high school, and so do I, but theres one problem, every girl I want to go with never seems interested in anything more than friendship, at least no one that I know of. How do I make myself more appealing to women but not look like I try to hard, or how do I find out if a friend already has feelings for me.
First think about what kind of a girl you would like to have as a girlfriend.Then if you are not yet friends with her become friends with her and then start to do some nice things for her that you wouldn't do for the others that way she will feel like you want to be more then friends and then when the time is right ask her out. You never know she might surprise you and say yes.
ok so im 15 and
this kid who is
like 17 or so
wants to hang out
wit me and im all
for it but im wondering
what we should talk about
or w/e..if neone has ne
ideas please help
Just talk about normal things that you would talk about with anyone else.
Things around the househave been so hard latley because my mom has this boyfriend named dale who treats her like crap. The only thing keeping them together is there son Mathew who is my half brother. Things just keep getting worse and worse though. its to the point where I cry myself to sleep cuz I know how much pain my mom goes through. I wish I could help but I cant. He even hit her quiet a few times before. She flips out on me when I forget to take my purse, keys, her pay check, or money everywhere I go cuz if i dont then dale would take it. He sneaks around 24/7 he snoops in MY ROOM scrouging for things. Me and my mom couldnt leave the house at the same time cuz he would lock us out if we did. What can I do to get my mind of thses things? Is there any way I can help my mom out cuz I hate seeing her like this. Dale would flip out if my mom were to go with her friends to dinner, or 6flags. why does she have to sit in the house 24/7 just because he wants her to but yet he will yell at her the whole entire time? sorry for the long entry
If things do not change for the better then you should talk to your mom about her leaving her boyfriend because if she doesn't get out of that house sometime soon something bad could happen. If you guys leave you don't have to worry about him abusing your mom anymore. But if he does try to find you or stawk you then your mom should make a complaint against him and also put a restraining order on him. That way you won't have to worry about leaving in fear anymore.
ok well heres my situation . im in high school and ive known this guy since i was in 3rd. grade , weve always been friends , we talk a lot . and i think i like him more then just a friend . well i hav , since 5th grade . and i dono if i shuld tell him cuz like im not that close of a friend to him but like i mean i wana tell him but i dono how . he's so cute!! im afriad he'll say no . im really afraid to ask . and he's since school started ( 1 week ago) and like wen i walk into class he'll b like " hey ___ sit here" or lik in class he'll smile and i'll turn to see what he's doin and he'll look away and he'll bring up lil things and like hit my chair to get my attention. whats this mean , shuld i tell him??? help!
I know how you feel I have been there. You should give him some signs that you would like to be more then friends and if that doesn't work you could either tell him face to face that you want to be more then friends or you could write him a note telling him how you feel so neither way he will no how you feel because you if you don't tell him soon you could miss you chance.
Okay...so i've liked this boy secretly since like sixth grade. (im goin into 8th) and I flirt w/ him 24/7 and he flirts w/ me too. but like he had a relationship w/ my friend sierra but they are good friends now. And she thinks i should go otu w/ him but im sooo scared he'll say no cuz im taller and like i dono. Hes really hot and he might not like me.But I dono if i should wait and see if he says anything cuz i've heard he lieks me but I just dont know....so what do i do?
I think that at first you should wait to see if anything happens. If he doesn't do anything then you should let him know that you would like to go out with him.
ill be 15 in dayz an last year i wen ta this new skool an when i tried out 4 basketball an made it this rummor got started that i had "did it" wit the coach ta make the team.. when of course i ddin
now this new year even before skool started..
there is now a rumor that i did it wit this dude i wen out wit las year named Criag when i didn an every1 belives it..
i donno what to do bc im not a hoe like that i mean he was my 1st kiss
an all these ppl belive i did it. how can i make it stop.. how can i jus get thro it
You have a couple of choices either you can ignore it since you know that it isn't true or find the person who started the rumor and find some way to get them to confess in front of some witnesses that they started the rumor and that they made it up it wasn't true.
nd shes really nice to me when its just us but if she is with another friend she is a butthead and i get madf at her all the time but then we talk on the fone or5 have a good time sumwhere and we r friends again what shuld i do i am mad at her again
I agree with Twiggy I think that you should ask your friend why she does treat you different when other people are around because you want to be her friend but if she continues to treat you like that she isn't a friend is she cause if she was she would treat you nicely in front of her other friends.
i have this guy friend who im crushin on... i wana invite him out to hang this weekend just to get to know eachother more- but the problem is that hes going to start going to our school this year, and is hanging out with all the "hoes". the thing is, im a smart kid but not excately well known but hes so nice and hes getting to know the real me so... im worried. that when he gets to my school he will totally ditch me. so does anyone have a clue what i should do?
you should invite him to hang out with you as much as possible so that way you will become good friends and when school starts you don't have to worry about him ditching you because he will remember all the times that you invited him to hang out. But if he does ditch you when school starts then he isn't worth it because no one should be friends with people like that cause if he ditches you once he will think that he can you that when ever he wants and that just isn't right.