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(I'm 14/f)

So, I've liked this guy for like a year...and my friend Ashley started liking him and no one seemed to care anymore that I liked him...it was all about her.

Last night when I found out that he was going to ask her out, I started crying...then he came over and asked me what was wrong...I kind of blew up at him and told him that I liked him, then walked away.

After that my other friends who were hanging out with us there told me that the guy kind of disappeared and I don't know if he askeed her out or not...

I don't want to face anyone in school on monday. If he didn't ask her out, and it was somehow my fault, Ashley might not speak to me anymore, and if he doesn't like me back, ESPECIALLY if he's going out with ashley now, I don't think I can face him...I sit next to him in two classes.

Imean...we're friends and everything, but I'm afraid that this will change our friendship that I came out and said I liked him like that...

I don't know how I'm supposed to talk to him when I see him. I'm actually considering faking sick so I don't have to go to school.

And I don't know how to approach Ashley either. Before, I was just going to let it be, let her be happy if Nathan and she got together, but when it actually happened(or was going to, at least), I couldn't be happy for her because I wasn't happy for me.

I don't know what to do.

YOUR 14!! dont worry!!

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OK, so I've started "seeing" this guy that I ADORE and this weekend he was away. Anyway i went out with friends to this bar everyone goes to, and this drunk guy basically grabbed me and starts making out with me! I told him no, but he wouldnt listen, and i kinda reciprocated for a few seconds before realising it was a mistake.

I feel really guilty, and its poss he could find out as its a bar where lots of people know each other.

I dont wanna tell him what happened, what should i do? thanks

well, your screwed! the only option you really have is to tell him, apologize and hope for the best! he'll have even sore feelings towards you if he finds out from someone else!

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I love my boyfriend so much but he is always grounded And the only time I get to see him is at school and we live in the same naiborhood too. so its so gay He gets grounded for stupid resoms to (because his step dad is a dick) We the thing is, i want to break up with him because I never get to see him we dont have any classes together or anything. but the problem is I dont know how and I would like to be friends with him after words. how can I break up with him and stay friends
14 female

ok if you want to break up with him cuz you dont get to see eachother enough, then your not in love nad go ahead and break up youll both get over it

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i know this is the dumbest question ever. but my and my boyfreind are going on being together a month. do we celebrate by the date (it was september 16th btw, which will be four weeks on tuesday) or do we celebrate it by the day of hte week? i have no idea wether i should do somehting for him on tuesday, or wait until the 16th?

you dont have to do anything, its just a stupid date. if you do that are ya gunna do somthing special o the 16th of everymonth?? that could get a lil boring and yea its pointless whoopy! a month! id understand if its like 6months or a year cuz thats quite the achivment but not a month.

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Ok. So i am 16 and a girl, and for some strange reason, i havent been able to get in the mood latly. My boy is great and all and trys hard but i cant see to turn on. y is this? and is there anything i can do? thanks.

ok i got just one thing for ya " sticks and stone may break my bones, but whips and chains excite me" try soem props;)

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ok i am 13 female and i haven't gotten my period yet! i was wondering if masturbating has something to do with it? because i masturbate about 4 times a month its just that i am scared because i havent goten my period at all yet. please help me if you can.
i rated high for good answers

consider yourslef lucky!

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how is it possible to have your period while pregnant? is it even possible at all?

its called a mis-carriage.

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Hey. I was recently thinking about becoming a model, I dont know...just for fun for a little while. Everyone says that Im really gorgeouse (spelling??) and that I should go for it while I am still young. The thing is..I have no idea where to start!!! So I guess my question is, how would I break in...are there any former or current models here that could help. I just dont really want to get screwed over by some stupid company that says they know what they are doing, but really its just a scam...I've heard the horror stories. so Any Ideas??? Easy 5's!!!

ok so heres the thing about modleing, you dont have to be pretty! the only requirement is to be tall and thin. the reason for this is becasue clothes look betetr on tall, thin people, cause they're like hangers, get it? unglyness, scars or blemishes can all be hidden one way or another! so if you want to seriously get into modeling, start looking in fashion magazines, learn make-up and hair techniques, look into model agentcies for what they're looking for, get your friends/family to take pics of you then compare those pics to models in magazines to make sure you understand how to pose. once you start doing stuff liek that and you become confident enough go to an agentcy and see if they want you.

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i was wondering whats a good eye shadow that REALLY shows up with some bright colors like pink and lime green that i can get at wallgreens or the mall.thanks!

red, always shows up and goes well with pink, blue, yellow, green(but then it looks like cxmas colours)
purple is really bright too, goes well with yellow, green, and pink

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you know how people say big feet you know what they say about big feet? well yeah i dont know what it means

it means his dick SHOULD be huge!! and go for it!!!

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i was just wondering where you can find someone to be with (as in girlfriend and boyfriend) like online or something. cuz i mean there is no one at school that im really into. i just want a good site to meet single teens ready for a relationship. btw, im 13/f. THANKS A BUNCH!!!

stupid, your 13 dont worry about dating! and dating o line nonethe less, its just not safe when your that young, datin sites are made for lonley people in thier 30 that are positive that they will die alone with lots of cats.if your really that despaerate to go date someone, join an out of school club, or to the pool, go anywhere! start hanging with new people and then MAYBE you'll find someone!just dont worry about it, usually high school romonaces go no where, your still young. keep your pants on

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I like this guy *dylan* and he used to (at least it seemed like it,) flirted with me last year and im at a different school this yr, and he keeps giving me the wrong email address, and my friend keeps telling him he better give me the right one and blah blah blah!! i don't know wut to do!!!!!!!!! please help!!!! :(





he doesnt like you. get over it

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ive never been kissed before and i have put off kissing my boyfriend. what exactaly is the right way to kiss a guy without looking like a dork?

ok, i gotta ask, how long have you been puttin this kiss off for?? you shouldnt be afriad or anything to kiss! if hes your bf then he should be fine with being your fisrt kiss. dont worry abot it just go with the flow

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ok im having trouble attracting boys, i have brown hair brown eyes and glasses, my skin is a light tan, im not sure what kind of makup and hair styles to use but what im doing now is not working. do anyof you have ideas on attracting guys? please help thanks a lot
**hailey**
oh ya im 14/f

it dosnt matter what you look like, it helps a little, but overall it dosnt matter. all that matters is your attitude! if you talk to a guy with the same intrests adn flirt a little, then you guys might hook up! once again, your look sdont matter!

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