my name is emiLy mostly remixed as emMa ,eM, or eMmy.. i love gymnastics, cheering,soccer,basketball , football & baseball ( but i dont play those 2 lOL), hanging with my friends, and of course giving advice ..you can ask me anything =).. X0OX
my life is ever so messed up, i know you think that I`m head-over-heels in love with you but its just a crush..a crush thats crushing me.♥
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My teacher put us in groups and she put me with all ppl i basically hate! and i don't think we'll get anything accomplished cuz none of like each other! what should i do? thanks! (link)
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Tell your teacher your having problems with the people in your group. Tell her your having trouble concentrating and dont think you`ll get enough done and it will affect your grade. Im sure she will understnad
Rate me. xo emily
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Ok, heres the deal...I have liked a certain someone for a year now. We dated before and blah blah but I still like him a LOT and I have been getting the vibe that he likes me too. Well, our school is holding a Sadie Hawkins dance for Vday. And I want to ask him. But everytime I think about it my heart races and I get all nervous and stuff. How should I ask him? Thanks in advance. (link)
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I think you should write him a note, or you could call him , or talk to him on the computer. and if your really brave ask him in person. I personally think i would write a note or talk on the comp.
i hope i gave you a couple ideas. Rate me
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dear emily,
my brother is totally into sports,and i love going to him games and i totally get along with all of this team mates.. most of them are in 6th grgadee and some of them are in 7th gradee.. but heres my problem , i ithnk i might have a crush on one of them . but i also like this kid who is in my graded. and im not sore if my brother team-mate is in my grade.. // im in 7th \\ .. bur it that rong liking him ? and the other kid in my grade. he might like him , i think he dose a little . should i like both of them ? should i only like the kid whos in myy grade ? of should i like the team mate? please help me
signed .. :
O0H S0O C0ONFUSED (link)
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first off, it doesnt matter what grade he is in the 6th 7th or 8th , any younger or older .. is what i think is a larger difference but it doesnt really matter. I think you should follow your heart it is okay to like both of them. You should tell them or have some of your friends drop hints to them about u like him or ask him who he likes. This way you can find out if they both like you or one of them likes you. You should also start talking and hanging out with them more. Once you start to be with them more and get to know them better your feelings may change and everything will become clearer. Ican`t answer wether or not u should like one or the other because i amnot you .. You should follow your heart and everything will end up how it was ment to be.. I hope I helped.. good luck with it!!.. Rate me!
xo eMma *
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i kinda like sum1 nd im not sure if i shuld ask them out bcuz they will prob. say no ...wat shuld i do? (link)
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I think you should tell them you like them. Iwould go right out and ask them out. It could make them uncomfortable because it comes from no where. SO i think you should let her know and see where it goes from there =).. Did i help? Rate me!!
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Ok .. ii think ii [LIKE ] this boy* but then again ii stiLl think ii LOVE this other boy .. but ii no ii have no change wyd the one ii LOVE* and ii dont think the one ii [like] .. likes me back .. and ii dont wanna LOVE the one ii LOVE cause he loves someone esle .. but iima pretty sure im ova him .. but then again feeling keep cuming bak =/ .. and you told me b-4 time will find me someone kneww .. but ii dont think sOo .. and ii dont wanna LIKE the one ii LIKE .. cause ii dont like to like ppl who dont like me .. and see them like someone else .. Rrr .. love fuckin sux .. wat can ii do to stop LOVING the one ii LOVE iif ii even rly love them .. cause ii dont no nemore and stop LIKING the one ii LIKE * ..?
Ox please help me Emma * =( Ox (link)
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That stinks that the one you love loves someone else.. my only advice is to follow your heart.. you cant change the feelings you have. If it is meant to be it will happen. Dont worry everything will turn out fine. And yes love sucks. I hope i helped .. Rate me!!
xo emiLy *
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what up emily my little sister i knew sense u was like a baby same wit your sister im bored so um what do i do if this gang of girls want to jump me should i let them beat me up or fight bak or should i call u n alicia to back me up hah?
JordaN (link)
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lOl . of course jordan we`ll back u up.. luv ya lyke a bro
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i like this kid and i;m not sure if he likes me how do i figure ut out? (link)
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I think you should talk to him. Whenever I like someone and we tlak and teh conversation kind of dies down .. i say " So who do you like? " and they answer or say idNo (( sometimes because they are shy )) and then they say u.. and if i like them i tell them.. and useally if they like you they will tell you. or he will try to flirt will you for example he will prob. smile at you or joke with you and sometimes he will be mild about it and just talk to you. They stare sometimes.. just little things. when you talk to him his cheeks may get a little red or sometimes his firneds will say something or just say their name and make a face at them while you talk to him he will get red or smile if he likes you most of the time.. i hope i helped. sorry its long! rate me!
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hey [you give rly rly goood advice..sryy i juss hadda tell you =)] well there is a dance comin up its a Valentines Dance and i wanna go but i dont wanna be standing alone when a WHOLE BUNCH of slow songs come on. I mean i wanna go and have a good time with my friend but they all have boyfriends and are going to dance with them. and i dont wanna be standing there all alone watching every couple on the dance floor. And it`s a Valentines Dance and last years there was more slow songs than fast 1's. should i go and be standing there or ?? thanksz for the effort.
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first off , thanx a bunch =) .. okay now onto answering your question .. I understand where you are coming from. I have felt that way in the past. I think you should go. If you dont want to be standing alone bring another friend. Im sure you wont be the only one not dancing. I bet someone will ask you and if they dont maybe they are shy. and you can go up to them and ask them to dance , even if you dont like them you can dance as friends =).. thats what i am going to do because there is a valentines day dance coming up at my school too. I hope you have fun if you go! Im sure there will be asecret admirer hoping your going so they can ask you to dance! .. Rate me if you liked my advice ..
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dear emily wats good ma just chillin here watchin lil cabbage patch kid on espn hahah, but yo i gut these two girls they mad fine u kno wat im sayin i want them both and they both said i can go out wit both of them but i dont think that be rite cuz it aint a real relationship but yo who cares i aint good frends wit them but yo i need ya advice wats good girl wat should i do? (link)
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No it wouldnt be right to go out with both of them at the same time!.. I think that you should hang out with both of them and get to know them more before u answer to going out with them. After you hang out with them maybe you will start to like one of them alittle more. And your desision will be easier. If you go out with both of them its just wrong even if they say its okay dont do that... Follow your heart =).. did i help you? Rate me
xo emMa *
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im gay wat do i do (link)
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ok so your gay. I think you should tell your friends if they dont understand and sstill like you for who you are they arent worth being friends with anyway. If you arent comfortable telling any one right now just wait till you are. The only advice i can give you for this one is yo just be true to yourself , and dont change who you are if your friends dont understand. Because if they dont they arent worth being friends with them anyway * Did I help ? Rate me =)
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ok sO i've bEen gOin Out wIth my bOyfriEnd fOr 8 daYsz nD wE havn'T cHilLed oNce nD i've bEen cHilLen wIth my fRiends nd thIer bOyfriends more than with him he's really nice nd i like him alotand eveyone says we look really cute together but i dont kno if this is goin to happen everyweek i'm not and obsesive girl that needs to be with him everysecond of my life but i styl wanna do someythign with him..wat should i do dump him or not? hope u can answer it--thanx--Tina (link)
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Well , if you aren`t chilling as much as you like. Invite him places or tell him you want to be with him more. If the feelings change because you arent together alot , maybe you should talk to him or maybe if the feeling are gone dump him. It will just be harder the more you hang on and it will hurt both of you more. And i totally understand where you are coming from saying you want to be with him more. So as you said, you and your friends chill with their boyfriends if your guy is friends with them too , invite him along. Im sure he would love to go! I wouldnt say dump him just yet maybe he is shy you`ve only been going out about a week. Give it a little more time. Rate me if I helped!
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this kid keeps saying mean things about me i told them to stop but they wont and i have no idea what to do! (link)
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If they are your friends.. talk to them and tell them how you feel. They shouldn`t be saying mean things to you. If they aren`t your friends and you dont normally talk to them block them or ignore them. They are prob jealous or like you. Just ignore them , if they keep saying stuff tell your friends maybe they can help. Hope i helped. Rate me*
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hey .. well there is a dance coming up and i like this guy and i told him and he said he "dont kno who he likes" and i was like o kool i kinda wanna dance with him there but idk should i ask him if he might wanna dance with me there? or something? i need help! (link)
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Well he knows you like him.. and if hes goign to the dance you should deffinitly ask!.. even if he doesnt have feelings for you romantically im sure he would dance with you anyway as friends.. i think you shouldnt hold back your feeling.. and if he isnt sure who he likes.. let him get to know you better hang out wiht him more.. maybe his feeling will change..but to answer your question i say go for it.. ask him to dance! im sure he`ll be lucky and happy if u asked him to dance! =).. Rate me please.. but only if you liked my advice..!! i hope i helped you!
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ive been goin out wit this gui for almost 2 months .. and i wanna get him sumthin for valentines dai .. whta do i get him? (link)
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aww.. i hope you two last long =).. but i think some good ideas for boys gifts depend on what he likes.. but you could get him a hat or his favorite candys with alittle something.. you should get him a cute card to go with it.. =).. if he likes sports you could get him something that has to do with his favorite sport or favorite team.. anything im sure he wont care and will love anything u give him as long as its from the heart
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Heyy emmma .. well this girl she says im her bestfriend nd then around ppl she usually makes fun of me sayin m ugly nd shit she also calls me aunt nd a hoe nd sayas sshe always wants to fight me but i dont wanna fight her but she rly hurts my feelinmgs should i stay her friend or juss move on nd forget bout her .. bnut wat if she gets mad nd beats me up? (link)
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o my gosh do not take this.. it seems the things she is saying are really mean and would hurt my feeling.. you should talk to your " friend " and tell her how you feel.. if she doesnt stop.. just try to hang out with ehr less and talk to her less.. and dont make it a big deal just kinda let her go a little at a time and she`ll jsut think ur drifting apart.. because that happens to freinds all the time.. i hope i helped you! rate me =)
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hey, what do i do wen theres this girl that talk shit about your friend just because she stole her colors on her profile..but then when people leave comments on her guest book about how they think ..she deletes them all cuz she doesnt want any1 to noe how many people hate on her nd she trys to call people ugly n stuck up n snobby...but it sounds like shes describing herself?! = / ..pretty stupid if u ask me..but this girl needs to get her facts straight n stop talkin shit bout people like she suttin big & needsz to learn how to get a life.. and she needs to learn that people are gunna make it there buisness when its about there friend..well hope you can help me out on this one!! = ] thanx.. (link)
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well i think the girl who stole the colors needs to stop.. and i think al lher friends need to shut the fuck up =).. wow u guys really need to give it a rest
(( i know who wrote this so thats the only reson im being bitchy .. cause i dont liek them and they wont leave me alone ))
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Some of my friends tell me that I shop at expensive places. I pretty much shop at Abercrombie, American Eagle, and sometimes at Express. But there's more expensive stuff that I could get. And they say that I'm ubsessed with Abercrombie because I have lots of stuff from there. Is this true?? (link)
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that is ridiculous.. that`s your style.. dont listen to them when they critize you and say your obsessed with your style.. and dont change because they dont like that you shop at somewhat expensive store.. and u are not obsessed!..
hope i helped some..
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okay well ya know i had a boyfriend for like two days it was fun till his lil ex girlfriend called me up well you no the story umm my question is should i just stay sinlge or try to find a boyfriend
Jacky (link)
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.. aww Jacky! your my first friend to ask me a question lol!.. anyways.. i would say u need a little bit of time to get over him but dont dwell on him .. try to keep yourself busy.. or work on your singing.. to keep your mind off him .. scream all that hardcore music on your kareoke thing when he gets you so pissed or sad.. lol!!.. but i deffinitly think when ur ready to have a boyfriend.. and guy would be lucky to have you =) .. (( dont let boys bring you down gurlie!.. im always here for you!! ))
love you like a siter..
love always ` eMma *
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my friend is having her birthday party tonight, she invited a few of my other friends that arent really friends with her, but this girl didnt invite me and we are really good friends and it kind of makes me jelous of my other friends and a little mad at this girl... what should i do to feel better?? (link)
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The same thing happened to me! I felt the same way. It could be she could only have a certain amount of people ( thats what happened 2 me ).. but i was kinda madd.. and confused. So i tlaked to her the day after her party and told her i felt left out . We talked and she explained it totally made me feel better. So my advice is talk to her and see what she says? ..Did i help? Rate me =)
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What are some cool stuff to do on the weekends? me and my friends need more cool things to do.
thanks in advance. (link)
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There are tons of fun things you could do. Depending on were you live , even if tis winter you ould go to the park ( kind of baby`ish but me and friends do it sometimes just to sit on the swings and talk ) you could go bowling or go to the movies or just hang out at the mall. Also if you live near a lazer quest once in a while you could go there or to an arcade it all depends on your personality. I hope i gave you some ideas! Rate me
eMMy =)
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