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Q: I'm 21 years old and in a six month relationship with a boy I adore. The problem is the sex, it's fantastic, but there is suddenly way too much of it. It seems like all he wants to do, and he can last and last. It's just not the way I want to spend *all* of my time with him. (I also wanna sleep sometimes.)
I find myself avoiding him even when he is around just cause I don't want his hands on me every second...
Anyways, I feel really guilty about rejecting him but I'm just sick of sex! Anyone have any ideas how I can approach this without making him feel unsatasfied?
Tell him you want to cut down on the sexual activity for a little while. The honester you are, the more he will respect you. Also, some guys think its "sexy or hott" when a girl plays hard to get.

xO' alison

Q: what are sum good quote websites?
www.firehottquotes.com
that site has just about every category of quotes you could imagine =)

Q: your gay. there now THATS negative. eat my shit.
You are extremely immature.

Q: i need help to see if this guy is interested..

1. k well ill get up and sharpen my pencil during class and he will look up and stare until i look at him

2. he ALWAYS looks at me

yeah, this is pretty much gay but i just wanna know considering this kid is like so great.
please dont use the word "gay" as a negative adjective.

Q: Ok well i am in school and i just started a week or so aago and already i dont think my teachers like me well i dont knwo bt i heard they didnt liek anyone and were REaLly mean! what should i do that can get and keep me on their GOOD sides and no where near the bad??
Been there! You MIGHT have what I have. It is called hyperhydrosis. Hyperhydrosis means that you have overactive sweatglands. Go to your dermatologist and he might prescribe you something called Aluminum Chloride. It's awesome. I used to use but I moved onto a heavier thing. Its a pill that dries out your whole body. It doesnt hurt or anything. Your mouth just gets dry in the morning lol. But if it's not that, Ban and Certain Dry work good for most. Good luck. Anymore questions? IM me at gre3neyedxgirlx3 xO ali

Q: I have reallllyyy bad eczema and Im looking for something to try to stop it and heal it. And then I need something to take the scars away because i feel so self conceious about my skin, I never wear short sleeve shirts and shirts all i wear is long sleeve/sweaters and pants, even in the summer. I have tried to get over this but It makes it hard since not very many people understand and they ask alot, I can handle telling them but they dont usually understand. And i feel uncomfortable going out with short sleeve shirts on, and its getting harder to find clothes that have long sleeves. So if anybody knows anything to help it go away, I would love the help! Thanks!
I had really bad eczema. Use Criso. I know it sounds stupid, but use it. It works. As for the scars, look in any CVS or local drugstore.

xO' alison

Q: Does anyone have any sad slow love songs similar to "All My Life" by KC and JoJo and "Have You Ever?" by Brandy??Please help me I'm going through a bad time right now and it would help me very much! I'll rate 5's thank you!
all i do - B5
there you'll be - faith hill
ill be missin you - faith evans nd pdiddy
butterfly kisses - bob dylan
take another piece of my heart - janis joplin
because of you - kelly clarkson
becuase you loved me - celine dion
want more? leave me one in my inbox

xO'alison

Q: does anyone know any sad and depresing songs i can listen to. break up songs, madning songs, or sad songs. ill rate 5s.
figher - christina aguleria
FURB- frankee
foolish - ashanti
broken - seether ft amy lee
photograph - nickelback
scars - papa roach
shake it off - mariah carey

many more upon request
-please rate

xO' alison

Q: Okay! Im 13 and have the oddest fear. I go to bed at like 1 30 AM and than ill go to the bathroom at like 2 and ill go to the bathroom and than go to leave but ill be too scared. So ill end up sleeping in the bathtub!! Its cuz im afraid someones in the house but no one ever is. Is there a way to get over the fear?
turn all the lights on... or .. bring a flashlight

xOalison ♥

Q: i have this thing called hyperhydrosis, which is when you have really really really sweaty hands and sweaty feet ALL THE TIME, and even if you wipe them off on something, they don't get dry, they just stay wet. my boyfriend keeps asking me if we want to hold hands, and i keep making up excuses and stuff because it's really embarassing that i have sweaty hands, but i don't want to keep having to make up excuses every time, because he asks a lot, and he's already starting to get really suspicious and everything. please help me think of a good excuse that i can use everytime, or tell me if you think i should just tell him about it. if you think i should just tell him about it, then tell me how i should say it.
i know this might seem like a stupid question, but please help, and i'll rate high for good answers!!!
I have it too. It sucks. Hyperhydrosis means that you have overactive sweatglands. Go to your dermatologist and he might prescribe you something called Aluminum Chloride. It's awesome. I used to use but I moved onto a heavier thing. Its a pill that dries out your whole body. It doesnt hurt or anything. Your mouth just gets dry in the morning lol. Good luck. Anymore questions? IM me at gre3neyedxgirlx3 Or leave me one in my inbox!!!

xO ali - please rate!

Q: Sorry it's so long, but I desparately need help. This is an easy 5 because there's so many things I need help with. Alright, I've asked a bunch of questions on how to get my crush to like me, and it looks like I just need to ask her out! I need some help doing that, though. First: I want a nice special way to deliver it, like they did at the end of Bye Bye Birdie. Can someone help me there? Also, someone suggested writing a poem for her, I suck at poetry, can someone give me tips? Besides, her name doesn't have any rhymes.... Then there's my parents. They've been betting on whether I'm gonna get a crush before my best friends (we're all nerds) and obviously don't know about me and my crush. How can I tell them? Note: I'm a shy person. Come to think of it, where's a good place to ask her out to? I don't really see any worthwile movies out apart from the Aristocrats, which I can't see until I'm 17. So what's a good place? Dinner? Bowling?
And finally, there's rejection. What happens if she says no? I'm a shy person, and I really don't want to have her say no... I mean, she said she liked me as a friend when I told her I liked her, and instead of getting over her, as time passed, I thought about her more. I've been devastated since, and this is the only way. Please help!!!!!!
If I were you, I would ask her when its just you 2 in a room (just in case you get rejected, it wont be as painful). You could buy her a necklace. And if she says yes, tell her "Im really glad you said yes. I also bought you this necklace, I saw it in the store and I thought it'd look beautiful on such a beautiful girl like you." Or something cutsy things like that.

IF you're really stuck for words say this:
" (her name), I really like you. I know that you said that you dont like me more than a friend. But the thing is (her name), I really like you and I would do anything to have you as my girlfriend. So this last time, will you go out with me?"

there ya go! need more help leave one in my inbox!!
xO'alison

Q: can anyone reccommend any good, upbeat country songs? kinda like what was i thinkin' by dierks bentley?
two of a kind and working on a full house (garth brooks)

Q: for those of you that have gotten them where and how much? thanks!
♥BLAiR
claires for like 10-20

Q: anyone know where i can get the code fer these boots- Jess Simpson to put on my myspace? Thanks much
http://www.hotcodez.com/MusicVideo/20812189

but it takes forever to load.

jus wait ... itll come

please rate!
xO'ali

Q: does anyone know the name and artist of the song that goes "weve got more bounce in california"
Soul Kid #1 "More Bounce".

Q: i have the hicups what should i do to get rid of them please help i really really need it and i need it bad because i have them for like fifteen hours
Inhale through your mouth, DONT EXHALE JUST YET.
keep repeating that untill you can't anymore and then slowly exhale

xO'ali

Q: i need one good song about getting over a boy? like a pop song? or like telling a boy to get out of your life
Fighter by Christina Aguleria
F.U.R.B by Frankee

xO'ali

Q: Ok.....i think that black guys are sooooooo much hotter the white guys. i'm white. i would love to go out with a black guy cuz they are over all soooooooooo much better. but if i did my parents would kill me!!!! any advice? i give 5's!!!
You should either:

1.) not tell them

2.) make them understand where you are coming from. tell them that there is absolutely nothing wrong with dark-skinned people and that they are just as nice as light-skinned people

xO'ali

Q: hey if i need to get better in golf wat do i do besides PRACTICEx4



I Rate high
Take lessons.

"no you shit head" (your response)
^ oh thats cute! what did you want to hear? Its not like I can help you over the internet.

Q: where can i get the music video code for lonestars-not a day goes by?? i need it for myspace and also for xanga... thanks for your help
http://www.hotcodez.com/MusicVideo/2157368

please rate! hope i helped!
xO'ali

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