about

Hey whattsupp, my names Erin, but i sign E whenever I answer a question. I'm a sophmore in high school. I used to run, but strained my back and now i'm done. I love track so if you need any help in that I'm your girl! I'm love giving advice and helping people with their problems. I've been through so much in 15 years, that I can pretty much help anyone. Feel free to ask me anything I'd rather tell you that i don't know than give you a bad or wrong answer.
I love clothes so i'm best at answering questions about style or fashion. When I grow up I want to be either an actress or a fashion desighner. So these are my best subjects! Butt, I can help in pretty much all of them :). Please feel free to ask me anything, I'll ALWAYS answer to the best of my ability, and come on here as often as possible!

-E!

advice

I'm looking for a very unique, well put together cute myspace layout. Do yu know any sites I can get some at? Ill rate hiiigh!

I love whateverlife.com its really cute.

Also, try looking for layout designers that have a myspace, and use that for advertising.. they are reallyy cute

hope i helped!

-E

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At the end of the show, Grace and Jack are hand in hand and they go to her locker. Then she pops a pill and Jack hands her the bottle of water to drink it down.

Does that mean she had sex with Jack after all?

And can anyone tell me what happened between the mom and that architect guy with curly hair? I missed that part..

They are implying that she will later, and in the preveiw for the next season it shows her on the bed and jack going on top of her. Like sex is starting, so yes I think they will have sex.

With the mom and the architect guy, they are pretty much dating. I know in real life Molly Ringwald is pregnent with twins, so they are going to tie it into the show and probably say it is the architect guys babies(controversey!!). If they make it George's it would cange the whole show.. and not in a good way.

Hope i helped, and sorry for the late responce!!

-E

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Hello, first I'd like to give some background info that might help you: I'm a 19 yr. old female, about 5'6", 143lbs (according to my scale), a big tea/coffee drinker, and i tend to eat late a lot. I just finished my freshman year of college and I literally gained 15 pounds! It's now summer and I was just wondering how I could lose weight before school starts or maybe even after a month (wishful thinking)! Could you please tell me how to work out, change my habits, and what/what not to eat?

Additional info: I might not have a lot of time to exercise due to work, but I could do simple things like jogging or crunches, but a gym membership is out of the question.

Thank you all in advance.

Don't eat within 2 hours of going to bed. Tea is good for you. Coffe is not. Try Sweet Tea a good source of water with flavor. Deffinetly do at least 20minutes of cardio a day at the absolote least. maybe to do 20min of jogging and crunches going up by 3 starting at 20, when you get to a number thats too high, just stick at 100 and go up by one


hope i helped
-E

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does anyone know where i can get free diet pills? please give website. i dont really care what type they are. just nething free of shipping and handling as well.

You are not going to find diet pills that work.. let alone free, unless they are unknown if they work and you would be tested on. Either way, it's not a good idea. Also, they don't work.

-E

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am not going to tell her oof. becuase i dont wanna be enemies with his parents .

Exactly.

-E

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the reason he dont want me to go to his house is because he thinks am gonna tell his sister off. he thinks am gonna insult her because my x new gurlfriend is friend wit his sister. so he is scared because then his dad comes in and will ask whats happening.[and is true the part of him saying hi to that gurl i didnt like .]

I'm confused. Someonw you don't like is friends with his sister? She can be friends with whoever she wants. Tell him that it is not your disition to pick her friends, therefore you wouldn't 'tell her off'. I don't understand the rest of the question.

-E

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today he said hi to a gilr i dont like! which got me mad .and also today i wanted to go inside his house and he didnt let me , he was just sying go back to the house,i got a little bit mad because sometimes i think his new girl is in there. i ask him and he just says no go home.

I think he wants to keep you dangling, leave him. He is using you right now. Also, he CAN TALK TO OTHER GIRLS, esspecially now, since YOU ARE NOT TOGETHER! If he's telling you to go home, why do you want him in your life?
MOVE ON!!
It will help you so much, maybe focus on school for this last week, or just hang out iwth your girlfriends for a little bit.

-E

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he supposeby has a new girlfriend and i told him if he loved her and he said are yu crasy! and then he started kissing me. and on myspace he starts requesting girls now.i dont really worry about that because we broke up but i still get jealous.nd he knows it too :(

I think he is giving you signs that he wants to get back together with you. He wouldn't have kissed you. Also, its myspace... what, you want him to not have friends who are girls? Now here, you are wrong.

-E

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thank you :)
today he told me that he has another girl and i got mad,and the he told me he is just playing around. he likes to se me mad.
but i think the reason he is doing all this is because i use to treat him bad.:(
but hey at least am saying sorry :'(

Yes, well i suggest saying something along the lines of, "I'm really sorry for the way I treated you in our relationship. However, that does not make it right for you to do the samething to me. Anyway, I really want another chance with you, and I understand if you don't, but I promise, that you won't regreat it."

-E

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i hope that he gives me another chance. because he is the only person in my life that i truly lovee!
he said he loves me with all his heart but i will just wait :(
my heart is hurting too much :'(

Aw, well i hope you feel better, and all works out.

Remember, I will will always be here giving advise, so just leave a message, if you need any help!!

-E

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today he told me that we cant be together. i told him that i need him and i stated crying nd he he told me not to be crying over him. he told me that he was confused and to give him time. i hope that he goes back out with me :(

You don't need him. Your young. Just give him time, but understand that rejection is a part of life. Just don't wait to long, because, you'll miss oppertunities if you do.


-E

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f/16
hi I have been going to this college pool for like 3 years. I take lessons there and i just go and chill when im bored...
well theres this life guard named Robert..He is near perfect and well he used to teach me how to swim.He is really nice and trys to talk to me but im just to danm shy and quiet when im around him.
I don't have a nice body and i look like a hot mess when in the water...
How can i become friends with him and the other life guards without trying to hard to get their attention..They are all like 19 and i really want to have something with Robert..if not a realationship..i would love a friend ship.
How can i talk to him. How can i invite him to hang out with me outside the pool.
What are some cool lines for me to tell him. So i can like text him.. I dont want anything simple like."hey can i have your number" and please dont say just go for it because..if i could it would already have been done..How can i talk to him
p.s
I went to the pool on wensday and he said hi to my sister but i kept walking because he got me nervous... He ended up saying hi to me before we left..but it was just a wave..oh gosh..I LOVE HIM

help please
sorry for any misspelled words.kinda in a rush

You need to get comfertable around him first, BEFORE you can ask him to hang out. Ask your sister to start a conversation with him and include you. Then when he says hi, Say HEY!! Say HI!!, SAY SOMETHING!!!!! haha, honestly, its just a guy, be confident. Also, look into getting a job there, then you can hang out with all the lifegaurds. I know you said your a mess in the water, is that implying you can't swim? Well if you can swim, then ask for a job, ask him if its hard to be a lifeguard. I don't really know any 'cool' lines to ask for their phone numbers, but I just though I should tell you the first part!
Good luck, and hope I helped!!

-E

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I think i am pregnant and i have only been with this guy for 2 months. We havn't even said I love you to each other. He means the world to me and I can see us together for a long time and so can he but I think I am pregnant and I told him he said it was a good thing and that he would be there for me and the baby, but I am only 16 and he is 17. I dont want his life to go down the drains because of me he had a life planed out and now I screw it up like this. On top of all that I jsut made a huge mistake. I took off my birth controle 2 weeks ago just incase I was pregnant and we had sex again with out a condom. I dont know what to do I am head over heals for him but dont want to rune his life like this.

Ruin his life? Are you aware, that If you decide to keep the baby, you are the only one who is actually tied down. He is at fault here two you know, and on top of it, you screwed up your life. You really want to be a teen mom, who can't go out and hang out with friends, needs to get a job, and is going to have to live pay check to pay check. I think you need to go and get a test, see what that says, regardless of positive/negative, go to the DOCTOR! You need an expert to look at you and say what he thinks. However, you should have used a brain, and not had sex. I'm sorry for being blunt, but did you think this trough?

-E

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i love too muchhh. and sometimes when we argue he kisses me and i dont even know what to do. i think he wants to get back with me.

Ask him flat out, say something along the lines, that you don't want to put your self out there and get hurt. See what he says, that will answer your question.

-E

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she didnt mentioned it. but am just going to drop it. right now my heart is totally broken,my tears are just falling down and i cant help it.
today my ex called me to go to his house and i said yes ok. he told me to wait for him on the back of his house i whent and i didnt see him there. i came back home and he send me a message that said "ohh so you didnt came i see how it is"
i told him i did whent and he just doesnt believe me.
he told me "put a skirt on and come to my house again" i told him i waesnt going to put a skirt on because my mom is going to be asking me why am i changing to go to his house. so he just said ok.
then he came to the back of my house and started playing basketball and he stayed there from 5 until 8:15..nd before he started playing basketball i saw him and i whent back to my house.there was no point of that . and it reallt hurts me because i love himmm soo much and i just cant believe all this is over. my heart hurts i feel like dying,speacially that i have nobody to talk to;not even to express my feelings :'(

Alright, now i'm confused.. So pretty much, i don't recall if i answerd your question and now your saying this but i'll try to understand this..
Leve him, he has the nerve to tell you to wear a skirt. this means one thing, booty call. you diserve better.

-E

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i have bn dating my cousin for 1 year and a month and i luv him i guess i should have not asked for advise but we love each other we are already planing our feauture and im actually really excited

i am the happiest girl ever even though i am dating my own cousin

i know 4 a fact that 4 nothing in this world would he give me up or 4 any1 thats the main reason y I love him

neways we are happy and we are old enough too no what we r doing im 17 and he is 19

i no that ya have gone thew thinking about dating like me but you dont have the nerves to admit it but it ok

so if you want advise 4rm me do what you think is right even though pe0ple w0nt except you 4 who you are!

love ya
;!

First, you should use correct English, so people can actually read your 'question'. Wait.. what is your question? I personally would NEVER date my cousin.. thats gross. Also, like the first person said, your kids are likely to get diseases. But good luck.

-E

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My name is Miranda and i am 16 years old and in 11th grade and i am currently taking some college classes to get ahead. My younger sister skipped my current teachers class alot and i am pretty sure my teacher hates me for it. Because lately everytime i ask for help she just ignores me and moves on to the next lesson and also every paper i type she gives me a zero because she says i plagerized it or that the websites i used don't exist. i am to my breaking point and if i fail the class i will get black listed and not be able to get into any college. I need advice on what to do. HELP ME PLEASE.

Depending on where you go, 1 F isn't going to kill you. BUt anyway, this is not right. I would talk to her before or after class. Tell her that you would like to personally sit down with her and search the websites, to prove they exist. Tell her that these grades are not fair, and that you would like to meet up after school to discuss, extra credit/ her thinking behind her grades. Lastly, make it clear that you can/will go to the principl/guidence counsler if she continues with this behavior. BE NICE, or she'll hate you even more. Personally, you should not have let it get this far, after the first paper you should have said something. Now school is almost over, and now your doing something about it?

-E

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thats true. omg am soo full of questions today am sorrryyyy :(
ok so me and my boyfriend broke up and my best friend asked me why and i told her i dint know.
the next day she asked me again and i said "uhmm idk because we felt like it"
then this morning she pulled my boyfriend over and started questioning him..i got soo mad that i waited until she left and confronted him and asked him what she asked. and what she asked him was why we broke up.. and what happened. my friend is kinda happy
i dont know why she is questioning soo much . maybe she likes my ex.
what do you think?

First of all, don't worry about how many questions you ask, i love answering and helping!!

Alright!, soo I would talk to your friend. Just be like I don't know why we broke up, please don't bring it up aroungd him. It makes you look bad, like you can't handle situations, so you just send your friend. Ask her flat out if she likes him, don't say wether your going to be mad or not but just ask. She'll probalbly say no. And if you won't get mad at her if she does, then just be like ohh... cuz you know i don't care if you do. HOWEVERR, if you will be mad DO NOT say this just be like ohh..okay! and move on. Tell me how that works out. I honestly have no idea if she likes him or not. I think she might have a crush, and tlaking to him would make it turn into more..but at this point i think its nothing.

-E

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actually yeah thats true. am gonna try because she is not the only one that looks at me. like this girl today looked at me and started to say something. just because i was joking around with my friend.

Alright, tell me how that works. Also, it could just be a coinsidence that they were looking that way, but I don't know

hope i helped

-E

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am sorry. am kinda scared of that girl because she is chubby and way taller then me. she takes evrything too serious and i dont want to get involved in drama. today she passed by us and stared again. am just like "omg this girl" but i just looked away and acted like if she waesnt there.

Honestly, you need to let it go. If your scared, then you can't do anything

-E

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