Hi, this is Kate. I'm 17. My life motto is 'Live Laugh Love', I really think those are great words to live by and I'm planning to have it made into a tattoo. I'm not religious but I love learning about different religions. I write stories based on things that have happened to me because sometimes I have days where I just think 'wow that sounds like something out of a book'. I've finished 3 stories and I'm about to start my first horror story..very exciting. I believe in fairy tale love...the kissing in the rain, staring at the stars on the rooftop kind of love..Why? Because I'm in that kind of love and its been the greatest time of my life. And it didn't come easy.
I'd love to help you with whatever issues come your way. I've been in relationships where the guy was too old for me, the guy was my best friend, the guy just wanted to get some. I've been the other woman but I'm not proud of it. I've been the girl who waits years to be with the guy she wanted.
I come from the type of home where everyone seems okay and then when everyone leaves its chaos. My parents should have been divorced years ago and I can't stand to be around either of them so for now I'm going day by day, only coming home to sleep and counting down the days until I go to college in August.
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Why is it that some fellow advicenators tell young girls and boys it is okay to have sex or do other sexual acts "if they feel that they are ready" when they know that it is wrong. I believe they are just looking to get good ratings, do you agree? I'd much rather tell them the truth, that they are TOO YOUNG and have NO IDEA of potential consequences BESIDES pregnancy and get a lower rating than tell them it's okay. Am I the only one?
I suppose this can be seen as purely subjective, but is there anyone out there at or about my age (20) who thinks it's ok for 12 year olds to go around having oral sex and/or intercourse?
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i think it's rediculous and im 16 which i guess it the average age these days to be having sex. i'm not saying that i'm going to wait till marriage but im not going to be out screwing guys tomarrow. 12 year olds,13 year olds,14 year olds basically anyone under 18 is not ready for a friends with benefits relationship and i've been there, done that and i knew i couldn't handle it. 12 year olds are children! they're not even teens yet and they're doing things that are for adults. in my school, well the middle school a couple of years ago an 11year old had a baby. this year 2 17yr. olds had babies so for the ignorant CHILDREN having sex these days who think "oh we used a condom nothing is going to happen" yeah thats what the knocked up girl said and then she waddled down the aisle at graduation with a planet growing out of her.
as for the 12 year olds answering the sex questions on here...thats rediculous too because they dont have nearly enough experience to be answering questions like that. also for anyone who hasn't seen the movie Juno. its spectacular and deffinately slaps you in the face with a dose of reality when it comes to this teen sex/pregnancy crap.
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In the past year, I've grown from a 34B to a 34D. While I like to show off tasteful cleavage, I don't like to be over-exposed. I'm really worried about clothes for the spring/summer because I've always loved babydolls, but I feel over-exposed in them now. Anyone know who sells cute babydolls and bathing suits for girls with big boogs and small bodies? (link)
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delias sells bathingsuits separately so you could buy a large top and matching small bottoms and PacSun normally has cute babydolls.
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How do you get a music url for myspace? (link)
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you go into the profiles and i think theres a way to change your regular myspace to a music profile. if not then you just make a new one and copy everything from your current one to your new one.
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Thanks i appreciate that you got exactly what i was wanting. I love this song and iv never heard of this band. Its awsome thanks so much its exactly what i want (link)
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glad to help! the song is one of my favorites
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Alright here is the deal i need a song that me and my boyfriend can call ours. But i dont want it to be just another frilly love song that has really nothing to do but love. I want a song that has to do kinda with our life and our love. See iv lived a kinda bad life and iv been through hell and back and when he met me i was down in the dirt lower than you can get, and he picked me up and hes my night in shining armor. I want our song to have something to do with life being hard and thinking of the worst and then someone coming to save you. But if anyone can give me any good love songs that will be very well appreciated. Thanks
Short N Punky (link)
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All the Same- by the sick puppies. some of the lyrics are "i dont mind where you come from as long as you come to me" "i wouldn't dare to fix the twist in you" "i'll take you for who you are if you take me for everything"
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I can't seem to get my iTunes to Sync the songs into my iPod Nano. I've tried the following:
-changing the cords I've been using to connect the iPod to the iTunes
-Restart computer
-going back to the Apple menu and starting over
Still, it doesn't seem to be working!
PS: My brother and I got into a fight today and he threw a tantrum. I happened to be listenting to my iPod at the moment and he whacked my hand so that the earphones disconnected from the iPod and the iPod fell to the floor (it hurt like heck). I think that might be a possibility... Ugh, I'm going to KILL my brother if it's his fault... (link)
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dropping it could be the problem. nanos are really delicate. my friend was kneeling and dropped hers and even though it only dropped about a foot and a half it broke the screen. first try resetting it by puting it on hold and then switching it off hold and pressing on the middle and play button at the same time until the screen changes to the apple screen. if that doesnt work then you'll probably have to get a new ipod.
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i know what my valentines day is going to be like. my ex is going to be withh his new girllfriend. they go to the same school. we broke up a month ago. we were together 5 months. im not going to see them on valentines day, but im going to know that theyre together. ill be thinking about him all day. him and her. im not over him at all as you can tell. does anyone have any stories about how bad their valentines dayss gonna be cause i need some support. make me see that im not alonee here. thanks (link)
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my story sounds a lot like yours. 2 years ago i went out with a guy. he was my first true love. we went out for 4 and a half months. he asked me out on valentines day(2yrs ago). it took a year until i stopped thinking about him everyday. he's been with his "new" girlfriend for 2 years now. and less than an hour ago i found his myspace and saw his face for the first time since we broke up and i can't remember why i broke up with him and for the first time, i really really miss him. so yeah i'll be alone on valentines day thinking of the day he asked me out and the guy i gave up.
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i have pretty long hair and i was trying to find something new to do with it.
i was considering getting it permed but i don't want tight curls. is there a way to get a perm that looks similar to regina spektor's hair style? sort of a loose perm...? thanks (link)
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some girl in my school just got her hair permed with loose curls and it looks really cute so its possible. just talk to your hair stylist and ask her what would work.
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I am 5'8", and every time I wear pumps, I look humongous. Please give me some LINKS [not websites, but actual links & stores] to shoes that have a small heel. [1-2 inches]. Thank you in advance.
If you can't find any, PLEASE do not say "umm just go to wetseal.com". Like I said above, I need actual links. (link)
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im not sure what your price range is but i'll paste some links from Nordstrom for you. not really sure of what your style is either. also if you wanted to search for yourself on their site you can look for shoes by heel height. (flat, low, medium, high)
these are flip flop wedges:
http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/2966288/0~2376778~2372808~2377035~2379515?mediumthumbnail=Y&origin=category&searchtype=&pbo=2379515&P=2
2inches wedges:
http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/2975935/0~2376778~2372808~2377035~2379515?mediumthumbnail=Y&origin=category&searchtype=&pbo=2379515&P=2
these are 3inch...maybe a little high:
http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/2959807/0~2376778~2372808~2377035~2379515?mediumthumbnail=Y&origin=category&searchtype=&pbo=2379515&P=3
2inch wedge:
http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/2958429/0~2376778~2372808~2377035~2379515?mediumthumbnail=Y&origin=category&searchtype=&pbo=2379515&P=5
2" i think these are cute:
http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/2958429/0~2376778~2372808~2377035~2379515?mediumthumbnail=Y&origin=category&searchtype=&pbo=2379515&P=5
1" :
http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/2958421/0~2376778~2372808~2377035~2379515?mediumthumbnail=Y&origin=category&searchtype=&pbo=2379515&P=8
2" :
http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/2955410/0~2376778~2372808~2377035~2379515?mediumthumbnail=Y&origin=category&searchtype=&pbo=2379515&P=9
i like these 1.5" :
http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/2938310/0~2376778~2372808~2377035~2379515?mediumthumbnail=Y&origin=category&searchtype=&pbo=2379515&P=9
1.5" mary janes:
http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/2957585/0~2376778~2372808~2377035~2379515?mediumthumbnail=Y&origin=category&searchtype=&pbo=2379515&P=10
red dressy shoes 2.5" :
http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/2940635/0~2376778~2372808~2377035~2379515?mediumthumbnail=Y&origin=category&searchtype=&pbo=2379515&P=20
2.25" pumps, very cute:
http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/2951878/0~2376778~2372808~2377035~2379515?mediumthumbnail=Y&origin=category&searchtype=&pbo=2379515&P=21
if you're into CROCS, i found crocs wedges:
http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/2942148/0~2376778~2372808~2377035~2379515?mediumthumbnail=Y&origin=category&searchtype=&pbo=2379515&P=26
2" :
http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/2927181/0~2376778~2372808~2377035~2379515?mediumthumbnail=Y&origin=category&searchtype=&pbo=2379515&P=28
sandals:
http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/2897000/0~2376778~2372808~2377035~2379515?mediumthumbnail=Y&origin=category&searchtype=&pbo=2379515&P=30
ok so i went through 30 pages of shoes and thats what i found. i'm 16/f 5'7.5" so i know the feeling of towering over everyone. there's some girls in my school who come up to about 2 inches above my hip! so yeah i hope this helped you! let me know.
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6 months along :]
its a girl.
me and my boyfriend have some names pciked out.
but arent sure what to name her.
just lemme know what you think.
Riley James Court.
Brooklyn ray Court.
Elizabeth lynn Court.
Courtney may Court.
^6what one do you like the best.
or give me some suggestions. (link)
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i like Rhiley May. not one of your choices but its always been a favorite name combo for me. i also like the name Ryan or Shey for a girl but i dont know what to have for a middle name with those names.
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a model, how'd you become one?
how'd you find a photographer? and all that good stuff?
how're guy models supposed to be? (link)
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sorry! i'm not a model, everyone just told me i could be one and i have the body for it,thats why its my advicenators name. sorry, but most modeling agencies are in cities. not sure where you live but new york city deffinately has its fair share of agencies and photographers.
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yeahhh, how can i get the v cut that abercrombie models have? i just think it looks sexy (link)
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i LOVE the V muscles on guys. its pretty much my #1 turn on. these other people said that its an airbrush affect but i know a kid who has them and they are not airbrushed. i haven't had a conversation with him about exercise strategies but mainly just do exercises that involve lower abdominal muscles. crunches, sit ups, leg lifts. if you're in school and your school has a fitness club or a weight room then ask whoever runs that about the most effiecient ways to achieve the amazingly sexy v muscles.
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When I download movies and TV shows off iTunes, it takes forever. Like 6 hours just for a TV show. I know big files take a longer time, but why is it SO long? (link)
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it has to do with the speed of your internet. i have dial up and i bought a movie on itunes in september and im just finishing the download. but im not online every hour of every day. so yeah it depends on the type of internet connection.
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2 guys were talking to one of my girl - friends and they were talking about me and they both said "She has a nice ass! It's small, but it's nice!" and that doesent really make any sense to me...is that the same thing as "tight"? (link)
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a "tight" butt is a small but muscular butt. yes it has to do with your vagina too but the guys use it to describe butts too.
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Like I always wondred what goes on in the girls locker room...like i know the guys like are in their boxers and no shirt...but are the girls like freaken in their thongs and training bras?....like i know us guys like wanna be in there when they are getting changed and stuff...but what really happens in "THE GIRLS LOCKER ROOM" (with a voiceover announcer) (link)
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i actually just had a conversation with a guy about this yesterday and i had to crush his dreams and tell him that the locker room is quite boring. we dont go around whipping each other with towels or run around in our underwear. girls wear thongs but they change in the corner but there is the ocasional girl who forgets and turns around and then you get flashed. but thats it. and according to the guy i talked to....the guys locker room has more stuff going on.
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On the Sims 2, how do you make the stairs two differnt levels? Like a little stair case, a plat form, then the regular stairs. I cant seem to find out how to do it. && Im not one of those people who know how to make the nice outfits, I just like playing for fun, but cant seem to find out how to do that.. Thanks! =D (link)
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to make the stairs you have to have the "open for business" expansion pack. and i have no idea how to make clothes
edit: go into the "foundations" part and you use the stage style foundation which is the beige colered on and you put that down and then you go to the stair section where the stairs can be all diff. sizes. you would normally use them for a deck but anyway use that.
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im babysitting 3 boys tomorrow nite. i have no idea what to do with them!!!!
any suggestions?
-i think one will be asleep by the time i get there.
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ok i babysit triplet 4yr old boys...so yeah i have some experience with this. they're a handful but they're fun. they like educational stuff and building things so with the 3 year old you could teach him how to write his name if he's closer to 4yrs old. if he's closer to 2yrs old then colors would be better. with the five year old, he might enjoy coloring or if they have blocks, legos, a train set, whatever, you should sit on the floor with him and build something. the 9yr old might just keep to himself or watch tv. if he has homework then help him with it. if all of these entertainment ideas don't work then put on a movie. it'll keep them entertained for at least an hour.
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hey i am writing a 70 page book to my boyfriend. im writing letters to him in it and small stories but im trying to think of maybe little games or something extra to put in anyone got any ideas? sorry if this is kind of vague (link)
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put little quizzes in with questions like :
what was i wearing on our first date?
what's my favorite sweater?
what is my favorite foreign destination?
if i could go anywhere in the world where would i go?
stuff like that. make the quizzes after every story or something.
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How would a person get into being on the radio? (Like having your own show, etc)
Would you go to college? Is it hard to do? (link)
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my mom works for a radio station. the difficulty of getting in depends on how well known the station is. in a local radio station if you apply for a job there and they have an opening where they could put a radio show then they'll most likely hire you. i've been doing commercials since i was about 10 so no real experience is required. im sure if you went to college for it it'd look good at a radio station but if you do go to college for it then maybe make it your minor and major in human resources, psycology or something related to "connecting with the people".
modelkate11
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hey ive been hookin up with this kid and like im starting to like him alot...the problem is that hes my like ex hookups best friend. we both argreed for now to keep it quiet. im just afraid that im going to start falling for him and not be able to have anything with him. what should i do? (link)
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i've been in your situation and you may think that because you've had this physical connection that he'll have an emotional connection too. well let me tell you my story. the guy was my best friend and after people found out what we were doing this they completely abandoned me. not just people but my friends, my best friends that i had been friends with for at least 75 percent of my life and he denied everything because he liked someone else and didn't want that girl to find out he was the type of guy to have random hookup relationships. my guy was very flirty too. he finally got the girl he wanted and after that i found out that when i thought i was his special person, turns out he was hooking up with 2 or 3 other people besides me. so! my point is...don't fall for him, or you'll be falling hard and nobody's going to catch you. girls tend to get emotionally attached with these hook-up relationships where the guys just find it completely physical and dont attach themselves to the other person. its how it works. it sucks but we have to deal with it. if you're really falling for him then first tell him you don't want to hookup anymore. then a few days later tell him that you like him. it is possible that he could like you too but you never know until you ask him.
ya never know
good luck
modelkate11
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