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Q: can people please tell me if this poem is bad or good?
it's about fear and denial, not too long

http://storywrite.com/story/65235

I like it, its very nice. Did you write it?

Q: I'm looking for some quotes from characters on shows. What are the funniest shows?

The Simpsons is hilarious.

Q: ok i know for the PC version of Sims theres a cheat code: motherload, and you use it to get more money. is there a cheat code like tht for the Sims 2 Pets for PSP?

thankx!

Yup! :) They have a cheat for 10,000 and a couple other codes. I got it from this website -- http://www.gamefaqs.com/portable/psp/code/934391.html

Q: this will probably be long and im sry but bear with me. so i [16/f] have the sweetest boyfriend ever [17/m]. we have been together 7 months on valentines day. i love him so much, hes my first love and vice versa, but im so afraid im gonna get bored of him. why you ask? he never wants to do anything! all summer, my cousin, her bf, and us hung out at six flags pretty much at least once a week sometimes twice, and it was soo much fun. other than that weve been to the movies ONE time. and the rest of the time we sit at his house. ive suggested going to the movies, but he never wants to, and ive suggested going to dinner, and even my mom has offered to pay for our dinner, but he doesnt want to do that either bc 1- he "feels bad" if my mom or i pays [especially during the time he was unemployed], and 2- he considers the things my mom and i eat [longhorn, chili's, cracker barrel, etc] "fancy", and all he ever wants is burger king and crap. my mom mentions all the time how i have a boring boyfriend, and even he says that he doesnt want me to get bored of him, and the other night he said he knows id like to go out and do stuff and im probably used to that from previous boyfriends, and he said he'd start doing stuff with me, and said we could go to the movies saturday [yesterday]. so during the week i mentioned some things we could see and all he'd ever say is "i dont care" or "i dunno". yesterday rolls around and i said "do you still wanna go to the movies" and he was like "i dunno". i mentioned it probably 3 times and he kept giving the impression that no he didnt want to so i was just like forget it and let it go. it drives me insane because we never do anything. we sit at his house eating or watching tv or making out. i mean sure "chill" time is great but we go to different schools and i only see him maybe 1-3 times a week and thats all we ever do. and im afraid i will become bored enough to the point that i break up with him, and i dont wanna do that because i really do love him. but in 7 months, weve been on 1 date. he didnt even come to my birthday dinner [at longhorn]. the main reason was because when we all first got there he was on his way back from the store or something with his brother. but even when some of my family offered to LEAVE the restaurant and pick him up, he kept beating around the bush about it and in the end didnt come. and my whole family was like wtf? according to him hes gotten "accustimed" [whoah i spelled that wrong] to not eating out at "fancy" places and now doesnt prefer it. about the movies, who knows. and theres nothing else to do in this town. ughh, help? neither of us drives btw.. i have a license but no car, and he has neither.

Okay, it sounds like your boyfriend is pretty lazy. I dont really understand why he never wants to go anywhere, but in my opinion, if he doesnt want to be with you, he's not much of a boyfriend...or, it could be he's just nervous about dating because he doesn't know what to do and is afraid he will do it wrong.

Q: is it possible for your feet to shrink lol? because im in 10th grade 16/f and my feet have not grown since i was in 5th in fact they have apparently shrunk seeing as i used to wear an 8.5 and now i wear an 8...? but ive grown like 3-4 inches taller since then so the growth spirt is already over and done. haha idk is that just weird?

No they cant sorry :( Although sometimes hoes can run different sizes, by the type of shoe, so that could be why.

Q: well i really am tired with my hair color because in some lighting it just looks green and sometimes it doesn't match my skin tone, so what color would look good?

http://a820.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/11/l_24de6501d2c4ebce80e620adcbf16e6b.png

I would get a light, soft, brown.
Just a tad lighter than this color -
http://www.imdb.com/gallery/granitz/5054/Events/5054/HilaryDuff_Wargo_9918688_400.jpg.html?path=pgallery&path_key=Duff,%20Hilary

Q: is it true she is dead?

Yes... its so unfortunate :( They are doing the autopsy to find out how on Friday. (tomorrow) R.I.P. Anna!

Q: For my fourteeth birthday my parents have decided that I can get a cartilage piercing. I was really excited and told my friends. One of them got this pained look on her face and said that when her sister got her cartilage pierced, she fainted because it hurt so bad. My other friend told me her piercing didn't hurt one bit. Now I'm confused. On a scale of 1 to 10 how much does it hurt?

It barely hurts, its just like a 2-3 out of 10. It could have been that your friends sister's cartilage was pierced incorrectly or something. But you should get it pierced, because it will look fantastic and it doesnt really hurt. Just a small sting when it happens, and then after that its a little sore.

Q: has anybody used any of th v.s's hair care or makeup products...if so how satisfied were you.

I have the makeup products. Its worth getting, you will be really happy with them. (:

Q: ok so im gonna get my cartilage pierced at Claires tomorro for my birthday..They pierces it with a gun and i heard that bad..but how bad is it what will happen if its done with a gun??

No, its not bad at all, you actually feel the pain a lot less and it goes by faster with the gun. Good luck and happy birthday

Q: idk,
lately it seems like all guys are jerks. atleast all the "decent ones", and the ones you REALLY like, are way out of your league.

:S

Boys dont mature as quick as girls do - have you noticed how some boys in your class act out alot and are so immature? Thats why. ;) Most likely by highschool, you will find someone. :)

Q: Does meditation make people boring?Isn't meditations way of making people happier by making them care less about things,so would it make you cold and apathetic?I've heard that it's great and improves peoples lives,but if it turns you into like a statue or something,what's the point?

Meditation doesn't make you boring, it relieves stress and makes you feel better. It calms you down.

Q: I have a ton of freckles on my face and all over my body. There not the cute little ones that cover your face, they are farly big random ones that on my face. I really wanna get rid of them, and i keep getting more its really anyoing. I know use sunscreen and stuff to prevent from getting them but they still come. Is there any way that will help get rid of them??? thanks

Hey. I know you don't want to hear this but unfortunatley you cannot get rid of them.

Your sunblock might not be strong enough. Make sure its atleast SPF 30.

Here are some other tips from tanning while preventing freckles--
Source: http://www.dry-skin-care-guide.com/outdoor-tanning-tips.html
1) Have the necessary products like sunscreen and suntan lotion that can help boost your tan while also guarding against your skin from being dehydrated. Dehydrated skin can easily lead to dry, wrinkled skin...

2) Make sure your outdoor tanning products contain broad spectrum protection and a nonacnegenic element to keep your pores clear. (Some pores may be enlarged in the process of sun tanning.)

3) Remember that in outdoor tanning you cannot control the UV intensity of the sunlight, so plan appropriately to take breaks and reapply protective lotion.

4) The sun is strongest between 10:00 AM and 4:00 PM, which produces intense rays especially during the hot summer months. Avoid such timings outdoor as far as possible.

5) Understand that medications such as prescription acne medications or birth control pills can affect your outdoor tanning results due to body sensitivity....hence, you may want to opt for self tanners, salon tanning treatments or otherwise request a switch of medications from your physicians.

Q: 13/f
lately my breasts have been so sore.
whether im in the shower or wearing a bra,they hurt really bad.
and its almost like i can feel them stretching when im not wearing a bra.
i need help?
is this normal.
btw i wear a 34c-d.
thanks a ton.

There are two reasons they could be hurting - either they are growing or your period is on your way. If you are getting any of these other symptome also, you are probably about to get a period.

-Feeling bloated and heavy.
-Experiencing cramping around lower abdomen, in the legs or sometimes in the lower back.
-Getting more pimples than usual.
-Feeling tense, irritable, sensitive, emotional, tired.
-Breast tenderness.

Source: http://www.cyh.com/HealthTopics/HealthTopicDetails.aspx?p=114&np=122&id=1957
under heading-"What are some signs that a period is due?"

Q: i'm a 16 year old paranoid female. a couple of days ago a tiny bump (the size of a zit) appeared on my right breast. i didn't think much of it, but now there are a five on my left breast as well. they definitely aren't zits. they're harder and are all on my areolas. they don't hurt to the touch, but i have no idea what they could be. i'm scared, but i don't want to blow it out of proportion if it's nothing big. somebody help, please. ): thank you.

Those should not be there, you should see a doctor. I hope everythings okay, and good luck

Q: hey this is gross but im a female 14 and I have like this pimple/boil on my crotch near the vagina but I'm thinking it's a boil because it's not nard but I don't think it's pussy but i'm scared to pop it and I'm not sure of its something bad and I dont want a doctor to see it either. I've never nad any sexual things going on so..help!

Wait about a week and see if it goes away. Sometimes you can get pimples but do not pop them. If its not gone in about a week I'm afraid you should definatly see a docter.

Q: im going to florida
and if i have my period then..
i dont wear tampons, ive tryed amillion times to put on in. never works, so i wear pads. But can i swim in a pool with my period?
because doesnt it like stop it
or will blood go everywhere
xo thanks

Okay blood will not stop in the water, but you won't realize it in the pool so do not worry about it. You can swim in a pool with your period, it will not cause any problems.

Q: Hey I have this really werid twitch in my butt(lol) and its been happening on and off sense last night. Is there anyway to help it go away. Or does it mean anything bad??? thanks

Thats completely fine, I wouldn't worry about that. It does not mean anything bad.

Q: ok i tried googling this but nothing came up. its a song and it starts out like "everywhere i go everything i see, i know you'll be right there smiling back at me."

does that seem familar to anyone? do you know what its called? thanks alott.

Ah yes thats Together Again by Janet Jackson.

When you google a song, type a part of the lyrics but put quotes around it and add lyrics at the end.. like this:

"Everywhere I go, Every smile I see, I know you are there, smilin' back at me" lyrics

Google brought up some results when I did that, so it should work when you do that next time. :) Hope I helped

Q: how do i get glue off my hands?

This happened to me once, and I soaked my hands in lukewarm water for about 5-7 minutes and then I rubbed nailpolish remover, and it worked. Hope I helped.

bio

my name is Jay and I'm only 13 years old but I've been through a lot. I might not give the best advice but I still try. I don't sugarcoat my answers but I'm not mean. you can drop a question in my inbox any time you'd like, and I'd be more than happy to answer because I love to give advice and I try my best to help people.