Ok, so i have this problem. I always dress in black or dark colors and i've been doin this all my life. Some of my friends are starting to get pissed that i'm always dark. they're embarrassed when we go out in public just because of me. They yelled at me but i just told them to piss off. this can become a problem. Should i just keep telling them to shut the hell up and put up with it or try to deal it out with them?
advice is nice...
i don't care if it sucks like hell, just give me advice...
Friends should be friends wether your gay,pregnant,black,asian,have big feet, or dress diffrently. If they dont like you for you, then move on friends are every where waiting to happen.Plus if you've been dressing like that for a long time they should have already seen, thats just who you are. Tell them to bite your butt.
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I'm a 19 year old female thats having problems with my boyfriend. He thinks that things between us have started to slow down. He also said that its all one sided and that he has to try and see me. The problem is he's worked non stop all week for the last 3 weeks. His mom and dad hate me so trying to see him at his house is a no go area at the moment. When we do see each other its breif mainly in the morning before he goes to work, where i have to get up at 7 just to see him or in our local which is 4 times a week. I feel low enough at the moment how do we set things back on track?
Okay its hard to realize, but hes basically tryin to get you to break up with him, let him know that hes losing something great and that even though you care about him your not gonna let him make you feel like crap, tellin you "you never try to see me, its all one sided" and walk all over you.Drop him girl!
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I have this guy friend that i used to like. He's nice and all and we talk on email a lot. Then he said that my best friend (basically my "sister") and her (really cool) guy cousin sucked at hockey, were wimps, adn were on steriods because they talk funny. I was about to cuss him out but then i maintained control because they are two of my best friends. I really got pissed when he said that her guy cousin was on steriods. REALLY pissed. What should i do to this kid to teach him a lesson?
The guy that said, your bestfriend and her cousin were on steriods, is immature, come on "their on steriods cause they talk funny" give me a break You shouldnt even let him bother you sayin that, its just stupid. And I wouldnt think twice about it, I'd just be like okay whatever.
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Where do I start? My mother divorced my step-father about two years ago. After she became involved with his best friend, the situation turned nasty. Currently, they are not on speaking terms.
About eighteen months ago, my mother also suffered a massive stroke, causing temporary brain damage as well as temporary paralysis. Her doctors call her recovery "miraculous," but she is less than thrilled. She tires easily, has trouble with stairs, and sometimes can not complete her own sentences.
A few months ago she left her boyfriend, and was forced to move in to her mother's house, where I also currently live. (I am twenty-two.)
She has regrets concerning the divorce, concerning her ex-boyfriend, and hates living in her mother's house. (They both have very strong personalities, and tend to clash often.) Her self-esteem is at an all time low, she feels like a child or invalid since her stroke. (She is also pre-menopause, and therefore extremely emotional.)
I have tried to provide as much emotional support as possible. I have told her that I believe she will fully recover, but that she has to work at it (something she keeps making excuses not to do.) I try to spend time with her, I try to listen and understand her problems. I try to boost her self-esteem.
I want her to be healthy. I want her to be happy. I want to be a loving and patient daughter. But my patience is wearing thin...
I find it harder and harder every day to spend time with her. I find it harder and harder every day to listen and understand. I feel guilty, as if what I am feeling is wrong...
I know that ultimately, only she can heal herself and make herself happy. I know that the relationship between her and my grandmother can only improve when they both a make an effort to listen and understand each other. But I still feel responsible for their happiness in some way. Like I should be contributing to it.
But I'm tired of contributing. I feel more like...Well, more like they are all making terrible messes, and I'm always the one that has to clean them up. I'm the one that has to play peace-maker and dry their tears.
And I am so tired...Is it wrong for me to feel this way? Am I really just an angry, selfish, immature twenty-something, as I have been suspecting all along? Is there something I could be doing to help that I haven't done all ready?
I don't mean to whine so, I just wanted to know...Honestly, is it natural to feel this way?
Okay, I've never been in half the situation your in, but I do know that your mom is the only person who can work to make herself recovery. No one can make, and your grandmother is probably stressed for a lot of the same reasons you are, haveing to help take care of your mom. Your mom shouldnt feel like shes helpless, shes not if she is breathing this air and can at least speak to a certain point after having a massive stroke, she should be thanking the lord, for blessing her. Everything happens for a reason, some things happen to pull people together some happen to pull them apart. Maybe you should all try seeing it from a different persepective, work together ALL of you not just you working to help them, tell them how you feel, even thought your mom is going through a hard time,doesnt mean you should take things out on your self, its not your fault, life just happens. I know its hard. But in the end God will take care of you and your family.
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My ex-boyfriend and I both told each other we loved each other. He doesn't want to get back together because he has issues that doesn't seem to go away. It's along the same reasons we broke up. Should I wait until he gets over them or just get over him? I really love him, and he seems to care about me.
Any guy with issues, to where he lets it interfer with you twos relationship, is not worth waiting on, if he loved you he'd want to be with you right now. No waiting or wanting to talk things over or giving him space.Just block him out, go hangout with the girls, do stuff that wont remind you of him... I know it seems hard but you can do it. Girls can do anything when we set our minds to it!
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Is there any way that you can have a pretty background on a xanga site without having to pay? I know there is a way, but i just don't know how to do it! Thanks!
Dang I wish I could remember I use to build sites and stuff. And had all these codes, check back with me if you want.
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My parents are in a very strict religon.
I dont want to be in this religon and I've told them so, and I don't go to their church.
But everytime I do something against the church rules, (even though I dont go)
they still go, "Your going to hell" "Your a sinner" bla and so forth.
I dont like this and it hurts my feelings. They even say I'm full of the devil and qoute scriptures at me. What do I do? its totally getting on my nerves and just because I dont go to their church doesnt mean I'm a rebellious brat like they think I am.
HELP!
Dont worry bout them..be yourself, as long as its nothing bad..like drugs or anything. Dont worry your parents are just being pushovers.
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ok theres a birthday party tonight.. this one kid (john) likes me alot.. hes nice and really cute but he can be obnoxious and makes up stuff alot.. theres this other kid(tom) who i like as a good friend.. and he doesnt like john and him finding out that i hooked up with john will make him mad.. i might like tom more than a friend.. and john wants to do something tonight with me (make out).. ive never kissed a guy before.. and i dont know which one i want to kiss.. and i dont know how to kiss! please help!
First, you got so much to learn in your life. Kissin is just something you learn over a lil practice, just go with the flow. But dont let nothin serious go on with you and the guy who is obnoxious. Just have fun.
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There is this woman at work who really is being rude to me.
The managers all like her, and I tried telling one of them that she was really being rude, and they all jumped on me.
what do I do? Should I just ignore her? obviously I can't go to any of the managers because of the extreme favoritism. help!
Evidentally this girl has got a serious problem with her self, or she just knows she can get away with just bein mean to you. Just suck it up, dont let her know she bothers you, sooner or later she will knock it off. Dont quit because thats exactly what she thinks you'll do once you've had enough of her bitchyness.
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how can you tell that a guy wants to kiss you? thanks
He'll get close to you (by putting his arm around you), or he'll get right in your face. Sometimes guys even joke like, "Ha I know you wanna kiss me." Best thing is just go for it what you got to lose ?
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