THE STORY:
me and my bf were going out for not even a month but then someone tells me he put his arm around another girl in a flirty way?? so i get mad but get over it .. but then a few weeks after i was hanging out with my bestfriend and we drove over to this guys house and my ex bf was there ((who i have always still liked)) and we were just flirting and what not but at the end of the night for the last 5 min. we made out on the bed and he fingered me and told me all the right things i wanted to hear like i shouldnt be with my bf and he cheated on me.. but then the next day i kinda felt back so i went over to my bfs house and we just hung out of a while but he knew somthing was wrong but i didnt want to talk about it, then after i left me and my bestfriend drove to this other guys house where i knew my ex would be and then i told him that i felt bad and i didnt want to cheat on my bf and he said ok .. but then he made a move and i had to go with it, and we started making out, he fingered me, i have him a hand job, then we had sex. and after that i felt bad for cheating but i wasnt about to tell my bf because i loved him soo much it would hurt me to hurt him but i told my friend and he said i better tell my bf or he will .. so i told my bf, but all i said was we made out and then he was mad and i was never allowed to talk to my ex evver again, but then my ex got mad and everyone was fighting .. then a week after i was talking to my bf and i told him he didnt own me, then he broke up with me.. then 5 min. after asked me back out but i said no .. then later that night he asked again and i said no, but now i wish i would of said yess but now i dont know what to do...
THE QUESTION:
do i tell him thati still like him and want another chance?? just see what happens?? tell him what all happend when i cheated on him?? do i not deserve another chance?? is it all my falt??
do you like your ex?? it seems like you do! well, you need to tell him the truth cause thats the only way you can have a real relationship with him!! i dont think its your fault...it seems like you just wanted your boyfriend to treat you like your ex so you went to him! but if he gives you another chance...dont cheat cause that might be your last chance!!
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alright well a lot of people say that they take pics from there disposible camera... well how do they git them on there computer? just wondern
they scan them!! or they get the pictures developed onto a cd!
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I feel so weird, tryna talk to someone i dont even know, but it's come down to it. I firgured it was wortha shot to ask. Okay mean this guy have been dating and everything has been sooo great but fact is we just all the sudden started arguin abou tthe littlest stuff i mean we have never argued before and now all the sudden we are. Im scared i love him alot but what does this mean? ..
well...are you 2 always together?? cuz if so you start noticing all the little things and argue more! just talk to him! focus on the things that really matter...not the little things cause its really not worth it!
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okay well i loose my virginity just 2 weeks ago with a guy i didnt go with an then tonite i did it with another guy i didnt go with .. is that considered a slut?
also i heard sex makes your hair shiney ?
well..i dont think its a slut..but its not safe!! i guess just be careful with who u have sex with or wait till u have a boyfriend!!
and about making the hair shiney...lol ive never heard about that one!
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I'm 16 & i admit, im currently head over heels with my best guy friend. He's loyal, truthful, funny, sweet, intelligent, gives me attention, flirts with me, & he's luckily single (actually-- neither of us have ever had a significant other.. which would suprise lots of people because -not to sound concieted- we're well liked & just plain good people.. and he for one is a GOOD catch) Anyways, we're kind of stuck in a rut. I am almost positive that he likes me, and i definately like him. Maybe like isnt even the word.. cause its stronger than that. But neither of us will make the first move. I know for a fact that both of us have gone through a situation where we do try to make the first move with another person & it ends up in crap. So im afraid we're both too scared to take the initiative. I'm trying to ease my way into it.. taking baby steps & making subtle comments & trying to make him comfortable to make the first move himself. Any of you ever been in a situation like this?? Please help me.. i dont want to lose him & regret not taking my chance!! :o\
tell him exactly how you feel!! thats the only way it will get somewhere...after you tell him then he should feel more comfortable about making the first move! but if not..(and you find out that he does like u) then just step up and make the 1st move cause maybe he's just too shy! =)
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WHat do guys want in a girl?
big boobs and a nice ass.. lol j/k...it really just depends on the guy!! everyone is different!
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is it ok to date online
not my type of thing...
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is cybbering illgel
no..but it is kinda weird..
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what a good thing to say while cybering
lol..not my type of thing
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my two friends, "ally" and "laurie" are in a fight. i am REALLY good friends with both, and so i get together with each and equal amount. the only problem is that whenever i'm doing something with ally, she disses laurie, and whenever i'm doing something with laurie she disses ally. i obviously don't talk about either of them behind there backs, but i don't know what to do to get them to stop. plz help.
i was just in that exact position!! i ended up having to tell them both that i dont like it when they talked about eachother...and that they need to work it out with eachother instead of bringing me into it. i also let them know that i didnt talk about them...it worked for me!!
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I work with mostly guys, and they're all really nice, but I'm a girl so I'm not sure how much they want to know about all my issues. Like today, one of them said I looked kind of down. I lied and told him I was fine, even though really I'm on my period and had cramps and my boobs were hurting and I had one tampon left that I had to hope lasted the rest of the day. Is that the sort of stuff that I should always just keep to myself, or you think I could just let it out and see what happens?
well guys probably dont want that much detail...but you can sum up what was wrong by just saying you dont feel good...you know? theres nothing wrong with that!! =)
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ok im going out with this guy i really like him but i got a hickey my mom noticed so she dont like him and wont let me see him. ive talked to her a ton..i just dont kno what to do now. please help me!!
love ya
ooh that sucks!! what you can do is have him over for dinner and let them meet and talk! once she sees how you guys are together (dont be making out or anything in front of her tho lol) she will trust you more!! thats the only thing i can come up with for that!
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i really liked this guy..n we were flirting at thiz carnival thing..he slapped my butt like 2-3 timez..n i thought it waz flirting..but he waz flirting with almost EVERY girl there..n then we started talking alot more..but then..we suddenly stopped becuz sumone waz in between me n him from hooking up..but now itz all kool between me n that person..but now me n the guy dont even talk any more!! i feel dumb..i went to one of hiz gamez..n he waz really surprised to see me..but..i think we dont have a "connection" anymore..wat shood i do?
well.. if you feel there is no connection..ask yourself if you like him!! and if you still do...then talk to him about it! you said he was flirting with everyone before, so just make sure hes not still doing that cuz you dont wanna be in a relationship like that!!!
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here it goes my friends that are mad at me keep calling me and saying that they gonna make a fool out of me and i noe they will cuz they so friggin mean well do u noe what i should do.
well first of all i wouldnt call them or consider them friends!! and let them "make a fool of you"...it justs shows how immature they really are! dont let it get to you...if they hurt you though, thats when you need to do something!! just dont do what they are doing...its stupid and immature!! =)
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well my friend really annoys me should i tell her that or what
If she annoys you...you need to tell her!! or else its just going to build up..and it will end up with u 2 fighting!! ive been in that situation b4! just sit her down and tell her whats been bothering you, just dont be mean about it...let her know that you dont want her to be mad..its just that you wanna be open and honest with her!! =)
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I am a 13 year old boy, and a friend of mine is really beginning to annoy me. She (Yes, I have a friend who is a girl. No problems there.) keeps on mooning over other guys in front of me, telling me how much she thinks that they're hot, or how good looking they are, or how totally awesome their hair is, etc. CONSTANTLY. I don't think that there has ever been a moment where she's not talking about some other guy.
Sometimes, I suddenly get this weird jealousy feeling, but I don't feel jealous, I just want her to stop talking about other guys, and have us just be friends again.
Now someone out there, help me. I don't know what exactly I should do about this situation.
thats how alot of girls are! they like to talk to their friends about guys!! maybe deep down you really do like her? thats the only reason i can see why you would be jealous!! You can try talking to her about it...just dont be mean about it!! She could also like you...Maybe!! idk...best thing to do for you right now is to talk to her! =)
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Alright well Im 16 yrs old..Soon to be 17 and I've slept with 7 different people. Is that considered a slut? I dont think Im skanky or anything, I just enjoy sex! Is that wrong? Im very open about my sexuality and people think Its wrong to be, Alot of people joke around and say that Im a nympho and shit like that..I need advice and I want people to truthfully tell me what they think. Dont be afraid to tell me the truth..Be straight up!! *Thnks*
7 ppl is kind of alot for your age...but youre gonna do what you wanna do!! Why dont you just find a serious relationship and stick to one guy? its safer and ppl wont think of you as a slut!
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This is a very personal question and i feel weird to ask this but do yalls shave your pubic hairs? Cause some guys don't like it and i was wondering if it was ok if i mowed my lawn? Please Help if you can sorry if my question bothers you :/
its really up to you...but i say mow your lawn!! if u are unsure just ask the guy what he likes!!
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i like cocaine i even went as far as 2 sniff sum powdered sugar does ne 1 else do this
no i dont do that..it is a bit weird!! but hey if thats what you like to do...then its better for you then cocaine!
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how do u put rate this advice at da bottom of peoples advice answers like it has rate this advice bad-1-2-3-4-5-good do any of u no how to put that if u do please tell me
only the person asking the question can rate the advice...
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