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ok this may sound weird but my penis is bent like crooked in the middle. not a lot but i notice it. its like off to the left side and its been like this a while and its very obvious when i get hard. is this bad?? will it make it harder or painful to have sex??

help please?! thx!

No, sex will not hurt with a crooked penis. Infact you should use that crooked to your advantage. You can manuever it around and touch places that no straight penis ever could. My man has an incredibly crooked penis and he is able to touch me in places that I never knew could be touched. I love it and will never ever be satisfied by any ordianry penis again. Embrace your kink and enjoy the gift you have been given.

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I really hope this question will not be deleted.
I got a lot of hair on my balls
I wanna get rid of them and I dont know how.
I cant shave them, I definatelly cant wax them so I just spend a lot of time trimming them every now and then.
Any other solution? How to shave balls they are very sensitive and get cut really easilly.

Look into laser hair removal. You have the internet at your fingertips. Do a search on Google or Yahoo for hair removal. You will find something useful. Although I do not mind my man's hairy balls, I do prefer them shaven. I cannot stand the hair going up my nose or licking them and getting hair in my mouth. Yuck!

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Well, this is a bit embarassing as it would be for any other guy. I feel a bit insecure about my size. I dont think Im bad at all at 6 inches, but I would like to be bigger. Is there any proven (by experience) methods to increase size? any known Pills? exersices? except of course surgery (cant afford it).

Thanks!

When I met my fiance/boyfriend, 5 years ago, he was approx 4 1/2 inches *maybe* five when he was hard. After intense oral suction sessions, sometimes 5 or more a day for the first 2 years or so, he has gotten considerably bigger. He is now over 6 inches long and I am able to give my jaw rest. I gave him my desired size. It was cool.So I would suggest either natural or artificial suction, over medications. If you are crooked, thats a plus too! That crooked kink can be aquired with excessive masturbation using the same hand over a period of about 10 years.

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ijust downloaded the newer version of ad aware professional to ad aware personal.. but wheneever i am running a scan in ad aware personal.. it randomly shuts down by itself? what can i do to make this stop

Reboot your computer.
Start tapping F8 if you don't know the correct
timing to get into the safe mode menu prompt.

When the menu comes up.
Choose 'Safe Mode' (#3)
and press enter.

Click through the message windows (after reading them)
and run adaware from there.

Essentially ad-aware is trying to run and there are too many programs that keep interrupting it.
When you are in safe mode there aren't any programs to interfere. :)

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Every now and again I'll click on something (a link, a shortcut, anything) and my computer screen will turn to just a blank blue screen with a message in white writing saying 'Driver may be at fault!' When this happens there is no way to get back to what I was doing before and the only way out is to switch off the computer. Does anyone have any idea what the problem is or how to solve it?

You most likely have a software driver (just like it says)
that is having a problem.
In your case I would first point to the video driver.
Do you know who makes it and what model it is?
Find out that information and then look for the latest driver on the manufacturer's website.
If you post your operating system and videocard
manufacturer and model I'll get that information for you.
(please at least try this on your own first)

There are a lot of forums on the net that cover computer issues just like this :)

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Sorry to all who read this if it is a bit long. There is a guy i met a few months ago at school and i found we had quite a few things in common, we hung out around school a bit and got along really well. i told one of my friends about, she isnt a close friend, but we were getting close at the time. she agreed that he was a great guy and said that it was cute. a few weeks later she decided she had a crush on him as well. Things have been so weird for me now. i cant quite shake the feeling that he'll fall for her. im not sure if he knows that she likes him, but everyone around school does, so i think he does as well. Only my closest friends know i like him..should i tell him? We have a lot in common and we could really have something i think. Its weird however becasue some days he is very flirty and funny and we talk alot, then the next day we dont talk as much and stuff. A lot of things he says make me think he probably likes me.. then other times it seems as if hes not THAT into me. i hate having to basically be "fighting" another girl for a guy, i always thought that was so silly... until i met this boy. What do i do? should i tell him how i feel? i couldnt stand the thought of telling him i like him and him liking the other girl..id be so humiliated.
16/f

You are only 16. You start getting used to humiliation now. Tell him that you want to get to know him more. Just Do It! Do it before she does. Smart people speak up first. Reach out and make the first move. The worst that can happen is he will say that he doesn't feel the same. If that happens, then you can say that you gave it a try and it just wasn't nmeant to be. It will not be the end of the world if you guys do not get together. You existed fine before he came along, Right? Men and friends come and go. They always will.

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how long do you think a perfect sex should last,and please don't answer "as long as it should",i mean some girls say 30 min some say 20 min at lesat.and what is your ideal sex time?or what was the shortest sex period you had?

Perfect sex can be defined in many ways. Idealy, sex should be enjoyed and experimented with. Personaly, sex doesn't last any less than 1 hour per session. It should be about enjoying each other for as long as you can. Sometimes there are quickies but that's usually because we do not have the time to take it slow.

There really is no such thing as perfect sex until you take your time to learn how to prolong it.

If it is only lasting 20-30 minutes, then you girls are getting cheated out of some serious pleasure!

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i have a 2 choices of laptops, but i dont know the best one can u help me choose which one is the fastest one, have a good memory and stuff not the dont judge the price, the fuction pls thanks

1st) compaq laptop
-intel pentium 4.1GHz processor
-512MB DDR RAM
-30BG hard drive
-DVD-ROM drive
-32MB ATI Mobility Radeon 7500 video
-56k modern and network card
-14.1 TFT screen
-windows XP Professional
-costs:$449.99




the 2nd) IBM laptop
-intel pentium IV 1.8GHz processor
-256MB RAM
-40GB hard drive
-DVD-ROM drive
-56K modern and network card
14.1 TFT screen
-windows XP professional
costs:$399.99

which one?

IBM, hands down.
I take it you're buying this to 'Work' with.. correct? Then buy IBM.

If you're buying this to play games you should be thinking desktop anyway.

The only problem you'll have with that is the 256 of ram. ideally you should have at least 512 because xp is a resource hog...
Go with the ibm and get a ram upgrade. it will be worth it.

:)

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Tonight me and my friends are going out to do something, but we really don't know what we want to do. We're pretty sick of the mall and the movies, so if there's anything you'd reccomend please answer!

Try looking in the phone book for places like bowling alleys, pool halls and arcades. If all else fails, go to the park and swing on the swings. Chase each other around and play flag football. Get together and see what funky things you guys can bake in the kitchen. That's always fun.

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me and my boyfriend have been together a year the 15th of this month and i have no idea what to get him. i wanna get him something cute or do something cute for him without spending over $100. do you have any cute ideas for me? itd be greatly appreciated.

What kinds of things is he into? How old is he and how old are you? I can come up with some cool stuff if I know a little about your relationship. What things do you do together? What kind of person is he? What makes you love him?

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A question was posed to me by a friend having troubles in their relationship.

"How do I fall in love with them again?"

And I was at a loss. I tried to give logical answers. I tried to give suggestions. But truly I didn't have an answer. So now I'll lay it out for you to help with.

For ever and ever it's always been the same old story. Relationships start out great. That greatness lasts for a while and slowly starts to burn out. Until finally in the end one person hates the other. Then the innevitable happens. The words are said "I'll change, I promise". Now we all have heard these words or maybe even said them. But how often is it actually the truth? So maybe at this point you either A: get or give the benefit of the doubt, or B: show or are shown the door.

Option B is pretty self explanitory. So let's look at option A. One partner says to the other "I'll change, I promise" and they get that chance to prove it. Now honestly how scepticle are you that this person will change. And if you're the changer how honest are you REALLY being.

But lets say for a second that the person actually starts changing. Of course you're probably waiting for them to fail, and are not going to get your hopes up too high. But what do you do when they continue to change? What do you do when they don't give up. How do you get past those feelings of doubt and caution? Meanwhile the changer is waiting for you to accept them again. Waiting for you to love them again. How do you move on to the rest of the relationship? How do you (given you chose to continue) forgive them or yourself, for what brought you both to this point to begin with?

My inclination on this subject is simply this "If you truly love them then you need to forgive yourself and your partner and let the past be the past. Forgive but don't forget, so that if history begins to repeat itself you will both know how to prevent it."

Fall in love? When you fall you usually get hurt. Change must be done together. Both people need to change together. Grow together until they are one unit, then they will not have doubt and caution. They will have security and passion. Trust and devotion. They will have true love. They have yet to discover what power they can create together. No one should be waiting for the other to change.

If your friend really wants to work this out it will not happen overnight. When it does happen, they will see the world in a whole new life.

I call it couples therapy. Have them go everywhere together. Keep in constant contact with one another if possible.

Tell each other everything, no lies, no secrets and absolutely no outside influences at all.NO visitors.(Except what time is needed at work and/or school)Have both people quit talking to anyone outside of who they absolutely need to in order to get through the day. This includes family.

Focus on just them for one hole year. If there are kids involved, then include them. Focus on bonding. Get to know one another again. Do not watch too much TV either. Crime drama is ok, they can watch CSI and THe discovery channel.

NO Soap OPERAS. Those stupid shows fog the brain.

I suggest unpluging the brain sucker and try a good book.

Play board games with each other.

Play 3 games of chess everyday. Suggest reading books on Tantric Sex and if they don't have any kids, focus on each other for a year. At least a year. Outside influences in the fragile stage of a relatioship can be deadly. The first stage will take at least a year to accomplish.

The keys to thier success are easy. Honesty with each other and themselves. Communication, anytime, anywhere, about anything. NO DRAMA If there are people in thier life that give them head aches, sever communications with them immediately. Those people will still be right there, doing the same thing in a year.

The truth is your friend will never get past the feelings of doubt and caution until you remove what caused them in the first place. In order to do that, they both need to detatch from the world around them and focus all thier collective energy to building a better stonger relationship. If they do this for one year and are still having problems, then maybe they should just move on with thier seperate lives.

You are a very caring friend for seeking further info on how to help.

Please visit me anytime!

Look forward to helping you anytime I can.

Tell Your friend I wish them the best of luck....

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I've been under a lot of stress lately and was wondering if anyone knew of any good therapists in manhattan. I live on the upper west side, so anywhere near the uws would be great. Also, in general, i also need Career Advice. I've been unemployed for several months, can't find a job, and it's been affecting my confidence levels.
I have been (extremely) down lately and need some advice on what to do... in terms of both mental health and career. Thank you.

Why leave the house for therapy? You can talk to me about anything. Tell me what's on your mind.

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I'm addmiting it i am really messed up, my family has some seriouse issues and i don't know what to!I won't ake the time to tell you all the bad things that go on in my house just trust me there really bad.I think i might be going crazy but i don't know how to stop.I'ev cut myself alot and cry all the time, I make myself sick and through up all the time but i am not fisicly sick i think i am mently sick.I have terrible night mears and wake up screaming and sobing.I habe thought of killing myself, i think if things don't get better i could end up hurting myself vary badly or mabey even killing myself.What should i do?To make this easyer to answer i will give you some more deatails, I really want to lose weight i am 13 and 5ft and 120 pounds, my weight might be helping me lose my mind, i don't like being with other people they make me sick but i want so badly to feel comfertable with some one.I really want to make some friends at my shcool and most fo all i wan things at my house and with my family to get better.

Honey, you need to seek professional help. The internet is a vast amount of information. There are organizations that will help you AND your family.

I want to ask you about the 'bad things' you mentioned.

Are these things taht are physically happening to you or other children by an adult or another person?

Please be honest. If you are being abused in any way, there are safe havens and houses all over in every major city across the unites states. Are you in the USA?

What are the problems at home that you are dealing with? Your wieght is the least of your worries. You can grow out of that. I would like to know more so that maybe I can give you good, rational advice.

Until then, Good luck and stay away from sharp objects. Read more books!!

hnstymtrs

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My face is peeling...and it's not because of sunburn! I put lotion on it but that made it worse. Is there any way to make it stop.

Try an abrasive facial scrub the next time you are in the shower. Lotion will not help. You have the internet.Go to google and do research on your 'problem'. You have a vast amount of information at your fingertips.

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Female, 14.
I feel quite stupid for resulting to a website to sort out my religious beliefs, but here it goes.

I don't know what to believe anymore. I went to church for quite sometime, but I never understood anything they were talking about and I just felt so left out, confused, and stupid everytime I asked a question about the lesson. I eventually begged my mom to stop making me go because I just felt so uncomfortable at church.

If God comes to Earth, is he going to come as some random person, and just take all those who believe in him? How do I know if I truly believe?

If God controlled everything, why would he let people get sick, raped, or killed in the first place? Why do we have to beg and ask for things to get better?

Also, did God like tell people to run out and believe in him, or idk, how did he all the sudden become "God"

I guess I need things to be proven to me and explained. Anyone who helps or gives me any sites to help me would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks so much.

I do not want this to sound rude, because it is not intended that way. I am just very blunt.You are 14 years old. Trying to figure out why things are the way they are is the last thing you should be doing. Instead, maybe you should take more vitimans so you do not get sick. Take self defense classes so you can defend yourself if anyone tries to rape or kill you. STOP trying figure out weather GOd is real or not, or why he "lets" things happen. It is not going to change anything.

Spend your time worrying about how you are going to support yourself when you become an adult. Surviving in the real world is challenging.
You are seeking the same answers the rest of us are seeking.

I believe in myself. Begging and asking for things to get better is not going to make them better. If it is one thing that the bible does state is 'God helps those who help themselves'. IT IS OK IF YOU DO NOT BELIEVE IN GOD. I understand how confusing it all is. I have the same problem. Taking a rib from a being and creating another being in it's raw form could be called cloning. We are not alone.
If you absolutely need a religion try searching online for different ones! THere are many out there. I find wicca rather fitting to how in tune with earth and nature I am. I do not actively support any religion, but if I were to choose one, that would be one of my first choices.


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but where i live, europe, its not as easy as it is in america to find out how you can do stuff like clean up certain neighbourhoods or help at a shelter or things of that sort, but i really feel like i need it, i want to help out.. there's just no special place to go around where i live. so what can i do? like just going around my block picking up trash doesn't really appeal to me haha.. so what do you think?

HElping is fun and that's why I am here. This my acvice to you. Just food for thought!

Make some business cards, or small pieces of paper and Put your name,telephone number and a catchy phrase like "Need a Helping Hand? TO busy to get the drycleaning? Don't have time to walk the dog? Call me, I can help no charge." People love free stuff!! If you are truely willing to help people for FREE, I am sure there are people in your niegborhood that would like for someone else to wash thier dog, wash thier car or watch thier kids while the parents enjoy a night out. Just by helping people around your niehborhood you will become well known and end up with plenty of helping out to do. Just because there are not any special places to go or organizations to join does not mean that you cannot start one yourself. It sounds to me like your area may need something like that. The internet is a powerful tool full of unlimited knowledge. Search for things near your area that may help you start an organization. How old are you? What kind of area do you live in? Population wise, how big? LArge city, small town, tiny village? HAHA

Dare to make a difference!!

hnstymtrs

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