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I'm Jaz. I'm 17. I love photography and writing. and I've gone through a lot with self-injury, depression, and guys. I hope I can help you ask much as possible. I will give the most honest answer.

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I liked movies like The girl next door and all the american pie series...But I don't like stuff like a walk to remember or the notebook or mean girls. Give me movies with hot girl actors in them. Romance is okay but not if it's all really serious.

"Thirteen"
if you're a girl.
otherwise, i dunno.

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okay sometimes i have these blackouts i guess you could say there not to bad like passout i just see nothing but black its only for a sec. tho im not sure what it is tho they scare me sometimes cuz ill just be walking and it just gos black and im only 14 so im not sure what it is can anyone help me?

a doctor can tell you what's wrong.

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hey everoyne im 13 and i will be going to a party this saturday now therfe will be palying spin the bottle but i have never palyed before! how do u kiss? i know how you paly just not howu kiss the gyts, im nerovus i dont wnana mess up!

kissing comes natrual.
and spin the bottle is a lot of fun. especially bi spin the bottle.
haha.
good luck!
:)

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14/ f
ok. so in seventh grade, this guy started coming to our school and everybody was mean to him but me so we became friends. then he left and came back now, our ninth grade year and now he's really popular or w/e with everybody. All of the girls love him, including me (just as a friend now) and he used to say I was his best friend but now he only talks to me in like one class or if he thinks im mad at him. The thing is I liked him in seventh grade and he acted like he liked me but said we should just be friends then and now he's leading another girl on which he said he would never like and it's like watching another me get hurt and he should stop! what should I do. 1)to get him to stop ignoring me 2) to stop leading this girl on
*answer by tonight around 4:30 thanks

people change.

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okay! what do you like in a girl!? what makes you laugh about them what makes you fall in love with us girls!? i rate 5's

be yourself.


how hard is that?


and i'm not a guy btw.

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okay im 14 and im a girl. lately i have been wanting a boy friend more than anything! i know im pretty and i like a few people but i dont know if they like me i really want a boyfriend and i wanna do stuff with them what is wrong with me how can i get one faster? and no dumb people and no oh your too young or time will come

guys

are

asses

at

this

age.

oh and for advice: flirt.

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GUYS please only answer this...unless you are a girl with an answer from a guy...

How can I flirt with guys. Like what do guys like with when a girl flirts with you? I really want to try flirting but I dont know what to do.

ALSO! I asked advice on how to get more attention from guys and this one girl said to smile at a cute guy from one of your classes. What would you think if a guy who you never talked to smiled at you?

BTW...I'm not the most popular girl, but I'm not a LOSER. I'm one of those in between people...(you know I've got friends that are popular and band geek friends...haha but band geeks in our school arent losers, the losers are losers. The band geeks are friends with reg. people)

yeah, make us losers feel real special. *rolls eyes*


btw, guys like girls that act themselves.
i'm not a guy though. asdlkajs my guy friend told me.

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well my frend told me she smokes andim not sure if i should try caus she brings trhem to skool sometimes and i dont know if i should try !!!!!!!!

a VERY disgusting habit! so NOoOoOOooOOOooo don't do it!!!!!

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I am reguardimg my last queation that nobody answered. It was titled websites?? My question is does anyone know any websites that teens can learn about sex?? I'm 13/f. *danielle leigh

www.sexetc.org

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Omg, this guy I really like just IMed me! What should I say?

"Hi" is always a wonderful start.

-_-

you people need a life.

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so i have a low confindence level.its like am afraid of popular kids in my school and i kind of want to be one .but i dont think i belong with tem .i like to watch them and know wats going on in their lives.what is wrong here.

Being popular isn't everything, dear. Don't try it. It's like in their DNA to be popular, I swear. And the popular people's lives as great as you think they are. They may be noticed by everyone, but they still put their pants on the same way every morning, one leg at a time. (i hope you understood that metaphor)
good luck!

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can someone give me ideas on how to kiss real goood

nope

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... how do you KNOW when you really and truly 'love' someone?

you'll feel it in your heart.

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Whenever you edit a picture in animation shop, it becomes optimized when you save it. This makes the quality really crappy and grainy. I looked in the help and i couldn't find what they were talking about. How do you get it to not be optimized or to be optimized, just not poor quality? Thanks.

make sure it's at the top level of optimization.
i had this happen once before. And to tell you the truth, i don't remember how i fixed it. If I remember, i'll add onto my answer.

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Okay.. IVE BEEN LOOKING EVERYWHERE for some nice black pants. NOT DRESSY PANTS, not the kind with the silk or anything. And not dark blue. Im talking jet plack pants with a good amount of pockets. (and not hot topic/gothic pants)

just seems like I cant find any decent black pants around and i know it sounds stupid but its annoying the crap out of me. lol

Can anyone point out some good stores for pants like this? or if anyone has pants like this can you tell me where you got them or give out some wbsites with pics or something?

thanks. ill rate

kohl's

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i know im 13 but ive been held back and now im starting middle skool. im really nervous. wut if the other kids dont like me, or if i dont fit in. wut if i get my classes mixed up and everyone makes fun of me? all u guys are in middle skool so PLEASE HELP!!!

dear, you'll be fine. really. you won't get your classes mixed up. and yes, you might possibly get made fun of, but that is middle school. Just stick up for yourself (in a reasonable way), and you'll be fine. be yourself, don't change for anyone, and have fun!
good luck!

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I asked something like this awhile ago. During the summer i felt like my heart was racing really hard and fast. Everybody said it was nerves about school. For the past couple of days my stomach and lower back have been hurting a lot too and sometimes i feel sick. It can't be nerves anymore cuz i've already started school and it's really good. My parents don't believe me and still call it nerves. I'm starting to feel really bad and i was wondering if anybody happened to know what this is??? Please dont tell me to go to the doctor. I can't. I just need to know something about what this is. Please help me!!!

I'm 15/f if that helps and no i'm not pregnant.

When school starts, go to the nurse about it.
And it's probably anxiety(sp?). But still see the school nurse about it if it continues, since you can't go to the doctor.

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well this is kinda hard butt.. well im only 13 and i hang out with a group of all different ages from 11 to 16 and i am the only one who is a virgen! i dont kno what to do alott of them lost their virgenity either when they were 10 or 13 and i dont kno wat to do because i like abcople of my friuends in this grouip as like a boyfreiend and they like me back but i donno wat to because theyr all like sex isa a good thing and its ok to do when ur littlew if u have a condoma dn im afraid they are gonna want me to do stuffwith them that iv nevber donte and i am so0o confuseed please help!

i rate well =] hailey*

ok, your typing and spelling could use a bit of help, but i'll ignore that pretend i understand chicken scratch online.
YOU DO NOT SOUND READY TO HAVE SEX. why in caps? because, you're not ready to have sex. it's simple as that. Don't do it if you don't want to, and DO NOT let anyone pressure you into it. You will regret it if you do it now. Wait until you're older AND ready.

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I am bored out of my mind I've been at the computer for hours mostly because i'm waiting for this guy to sign on but he wont and I have nothing else to do besides this and watching tv im SO bored please give me ideas!!

read a book.

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i think i'm big enough for a size a but i'm scared to ask my mom and i certainly won't ask my dad but i hate feeling like i should have a bigger bra what should i do do i tell my mom or wait till she says something?

demand that you need new bras.

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