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Last Update: July 22, 2012
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I'm only 17 and I have these awful stretch marks on my hips and I have no idea why. And I also have a dark skin color, so they show up really well. I want to be able to wear a regular bikini when I go to the beach this summer. I've always had to wear the ones with shorts, but I don't like them so much now. Is there any way I can get rid of them, or make them less visible? Please help! (link)
im only 13 and i have the same problem! i know it really sucks but the only real way to get rid of them is expensive lazer treatments. it's hard but let your confidence shine through. don't worry about those marks. wear whatever you want to and rock it with confidence(:

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im glad it helped:)
just remember that everyone
is beautiful and blemishes are
just a part of what makes you you.


18/m

My girlfriend and I have been together for a year or so. I knew her for a year before things became "official" so to speak. She lives a few states away. We've had great chemistry ever since we met. that first year and up until almost 6 months ago, we hadn't spent much time together in person but last July I went and spent 8 days with her and her family and things became 100x better than they had been. I realized I loved her when I realized that I wanted her to be the best she could be, I wanted her to be safe, I wanted her to be happy no matter what. She has said the same for me and I love her very much. I definitely could see spending the rest of my life with her.

About a month ago I just out of nowhere couldn't feel the excitement I had felt when I thought about her. I felt kind of lonely, but after praying about it and pushing away the feeling away, I felt just in love with her as I had been before. a week later, the same feeling came. I was on the phone with her and I just started crying. I don't know where it came from. I'm not a big crier but I just couldn't stop. I felt so empty, as if I didn't know how to love her anymore. I was frightened that the next time I see her (december 26th) I wont know how to love her or how to be excited.

Its been about a month now of off and on of this feeling. but this weekend has by far been the worst ever. I DONT WANT TO LOOSE THIS GIRL! I love her so much, but lately I just haven't been able to be happy.

Is it just stress? is it just that I miss her? I've never felt so bad in my life. She by far is the most amazing girl I have ever met. but right now I just cant seem to be excited about her. Im so lost. Help me! (link)
your in love(: it's okay it's normal to feel like that.


What are the perks of abusing Vicodin? I dont understand why people abuse it... Please let me in on the secret? (link)
it makes you really loopey but it can be VERY dangerous to abuse. IT'S NOT WORTH THE RISK.


I have puffy bags under my eyes due to lack of sleep (possibly other reasons). how can i get rid of them? preferably without going out and buying a special cream for it.

14/f btw

thanksss :) (link)
sleep ALOT and drink warm tea(: it helps.


So I went out with someone a little over a week ago...and he hasn't really talked to me ever since...in fact, I think he's ignoring me almost completely. I think maybe I did something wrong...should I confront him about it? (link)
wait a little while longer and if he dosn't try to talk to you still aproach him and ask him whats wrong with him? if he still seems to blow you off he's not worth your time. forget about him(:


at parties how do i get guys to want to dance with me? yuh know like when they want to get a girl to dance with them they just go behind her and start dancing .. well they dont do that to me and then there dancing with my friends and im dancing alone how do i change that (link)
have fun!! or at least look like it. guys want to dance on a pretty, confident, fun chick. not one that looks like she wants a guy to dance with her really bad. act like your having fun weather or not a guy is behind you(: CONFIDENCE IS KEY!!


How do i make a girl want me? Everything iv sad or dont she has sad she heres it all the time from other girls and she always gets screwed over. How can i show her that im not gonna screw her over and that i truley want to be with her and that i am different from every other girl? helppp (link)
be sweet really sweet. open up to her and show her you care and are interested in her life. be as confident as she is (not too cocky). good luck(:


how do you deal with people that constantly need/want attention. Not in a desperate way but people that always like to be the center of attention and talk a lot and always need to have everyone listen to them? i am pretty but i dont talk about it or emphasize it so much but I do have this new friend who is really pretty too and she just likes all this attentions and is always getting it and talking about herself and stuff. idk how to deal with it??? (link)
straight up tell her when shes being like that to get over herself(: it works.


This is more of an opinion question I guess, but I have NEVER met a guy that is gorgeous but doesn't know it. I've met a few girls that are really pretty and they are confident and stuff, but theyre not conceited and they dont really realize HOW pretty they are. I just wonder if there are any guys out there like that. It just seems that all the guys that are gorgeous are all into themselves and KNOW they look good. It's different from confidence its self-interest. So I was wondering, do you guys think there are any guys out there that are gorgeous but dont really realize it? (link)
well i met this dude and i think hes really good looking but he thought he was straight up ugly. when we started dating he didnt feel like he deserved me. this was kinda nice at first but trust me it does get old. my advice is find a guy that has confidence but is somewhat modest about it. pick someone equally as confident as you are:)


ok so theres this amazing guy i like and i think he might like me 2 but im so bad at these kind of things idk what to do.everytime i see him i get anxious and melt. He looks st me at nutriion and one walked to our classes together. he talked to me the other night over facebook and said he would try to make the football game ..bascially for me. i couldnt go becuase i was grounded. now im so scared to say hi on facebook. Everytime im about to he signs off.(my luck right?) well he always looks at me when i pass by and my friends think he likes me. He asked if i had my texting bak yet. but i said no. his friend kept look at me te entire break one day and i wondering why. Im realyy freaking out because i dont know if he likes me and everybody says he does...should i maybe give him more hints or anything..pleaze hep im desperate.. (link)
ok you need to just act like its no big deal. so what if hes a little mad at you? don't bring it up he'll get over it. if he brings it up be honest. tell him what happened. but if he dosn't, pretend nothing happened(:




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