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Q: i am a 7th grader and i have liked this guy since 5th grade...in 5th grade we were great friends and he is hott and really really nice....he has been really popular and i am taller then him so its hard to get wit him...this yr his popularity is going down....how can i get him to approach me w/o me talkin to him first and how can i get him to understand my height doesnt matter? (i want him to talk to me first) I WANNA GO OUT WIT HIM SO BAD! please help me out and gimmuie a good answer and ill rate ya!
you might not be able to get him to just come up to you!! But, if you start hanging out with him and going places with him in his group, he might realize how much of a good person you are and get the guts to ask you out. I hope that things work out with the two of you!!

**_Nicole_**

Q: I have this ex-boyfriend who is now one of my best friends and we tell each other everything. He has told me, many times, how he's in love with me and wants me back. I don't feel the same way at all and get annoyed with his attempts to win me back. The real problem is, it seems everytime he gets a new girlfriend, I become very attracted to him again. I guess it's because 'you want what you can't have?' He says he doesn't even like these girls, but just wants someone to be with since he can't have me. I just can't believe myself when I fall for him only when he's with someone and it drives me crazy. What should I do? I really like him now but I know when he finds out, dumps his girlfriend, I won't feel the same!
You have to resist the urge to get jelous. Maybe you need a boyfriend? It could be that you want to be in a relationship, and it kind of hurts when he is in one and you arent.

**_nicole_**

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Hi. Im Nicole. Im here to help, so ask me a question and i'll answer it in all honesty. Im not gonna try to belittle you are anything, because that is totally uncool. If you dont like my advice, then dont even rate. I love to hang out and do a lot of shopping, as the average girl does. I live in florida, and it is kinda hard now that it is the year of the hurricane.. but im not here to complain. Im here to help you, your friend, and whoever wants it. Power to ppl who need help!! (haha, that didnt come out exactly right...) If your question is incredibly stupid, i will delete it. Ask away!

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