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how do i get my boyfriend to call when he says he`ll call .. when he is at home he calls but when he is out with people he just doesnt call when he says he will.. please help
Honey, as easy as it would be to control our boyfriends, its not possible. They have minds of their own and will decide for themselves, so you can't make your boyfriend call you. Just tell him that it upsets you when he doesn't call and ask him to try to think of you more when he's out. On the other hand... do you think you might be asking him to call too often? During the first stages of a relationship, yes, most couples call each other twice or maybe even three times or more a day, but after a few weeks, don't expect him to call more than twice a day.
Ermm.... I'm a 15 year old girl, and when I was 10 my grandma gave me this teddy bear for my birthday. It's very cute, with brownish fur, and little button eyes. And it has a green vest. I named it "Mr. Paddington". Lately, something weird has been happening. Whenever I've been around it I've felt... odd. As though I had a crush on it. Now I'm embaressed to change with it in the room, and at night when I imagine my first kiss, it's Mr. Paddington I imagine having it with. I've told my friends that I'm dating him, but they think I'm joking.... I'm afraid to tell anyone for real, because what if they took him away? I was just wondering if this is normal..... and if I'm allowed to someday marry my teddy bear?
I think there is something psychological behind this. Does someone you like or used to like have the same skin tone as your bear? The same vest? One of the same features? You're probably subconsciously thinking of this person when you look at your bear. Even if you don't relate one of your past/current crush(es) to this bear there is probably someone you're subconsciously thinking of. Try to figure out who it is. If you're 100% positive that this bear has nothing at all to do with anyone you used to or still do like, put the bear in a closet or drawer for a week or two and forget about it. Chances are when you remember you put him there you won't be interested (um... no pun intended) in him at all.
Okay I am 15 and I am very devout, although I'm catholic I follow the belifs in general of Chritianity. I have had a connection with God. This year it was on and off all the time. In may I went to Quebec and Saw the Basillica of Saint Anne de Beaupre(people claim its were heaven and earth meat) and upon entering the church, I felt something and upon entering the main part of the church I felt something and I felt a strong connection to god. Since tyhen the connection is lost. I feel empty now unless in a sancutary. Do any of you (christians only please) know how I can streghten my connection with god>
Just talk with God. Talk about your fears, problems, and troubles, and ask Him for help and support. Talk to Him about feeling disconnected from Him and ask Him to guide you along the right path. Pray to God whenever and wherever-- it doesn't have to be in church. The Bible is also a great source of connection towards God.
Honey, I can tell you as much as you want about getting close to God, but only you can truly make the connection with Him. The relationship between you and God is just that -- between you and God -- and nobody else can tell you what to do.