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What exactly did you do? Or would you rather not say? I'm just a little confused as to what's going on.
Jack
I think those that need to know what happened know and should leave it at that.
I just heard this song on the radio when I was writting to you, made me think of you. It was called "Walked out of Heaven" maybe you have heard it. Sounds like a song you might dedicate to her or something.
Sarah
Thanks for the advice and yeah I have heard of the song.
okay the guy i like right now is totally flirting with me or at least thats what all of my friends say because when we hug he hugs me real tight and long... where with all the other girls its looser and real quick so im not sure but he always puts his arm around me and stuff like that in the halls so im not sure if he likes me like that or just a 'one of the guys' so help me plz thanks in advance!
Do you hang out with him other than at school? Are you in the crowd when he's hanging out with "the guys" ? If you are not then yes he is flirting with you.
i just went on a trip with my youth group.. and theres this kid there. i like him. but no1 knows.. we had a little connection in the past.. but we both driffted off for awhile. but this past weekend he was always around me.. my friedns say he was flirting with me. but idk. he was always wrestling me (not real wrestling) , he always would put his arms around my waist like example. eveytime i went into his room he would no just push me out.. he would like i said.. grab me around the waist and kinda hold me a few seconds then kinda pushed me out.. he would chase me around with snowballs trying to hit me..he would also take my stuff (only my stuff not my friends) and put it up his shirt and stuff. and when i had a problem he was trying to help me. i dont know if hes just tying to be nice and wants to be friends . or he likes me and was really flirting with me.. how can i tell if guys flirt? cause all guys flirt different. thanks for the help
I'd say that guy was flirting with you. One way to notice if anyone flirts is noticing little things like what you saw this guy doing.
Oh, it's good that you are doing good. So you don't care if you two stop talking? I hope not. She was really heartbroken about all of this, it was sad. I really hope it was a mistake because I never would have thought you would hurt her intentionally. So you're not still bothering with that other girl? Or do you just not know what you want right now?
Sarah
I do care if we stop talking but I'm not one to be constantly bothering someone if they get tired of me, I rather they just flat out tell me don't talk to me and I'll do that. You are right I wouldn't hurt her intentionally at all. I don't care for anyone else as much as I care for her. I don't think she knows or believe that anymore. I don't think I ever bothered with any other girl. I did something dumb, I think that's apparent but that's what it was.
Hey Juan, it's been a while. How are you? I heard about what happened. Though I am not quite sure as to exactly what happened. I am guessing there is just another girl in the picture? Or more than 1? I don't know. I was just wondering if you are still with the other girl or whatever it was that was going on? And if you are why you are still trying to talk to Courtney still?
Sarah
Hey Sarah, I'm doing well. I'm not with any other girl or even girls. I'm not still trying to talk to Courtney. I have always told her to let me know if and when she wanted me to stop talking to her. As of yet, she has not done that. So I guess that's pretty much all there is to that one.
okay, my friend, my good good friend is inlove with this kid,he's known her for a long time,and he only likes my friend as a friend.And she wants it to be a relashion ship, not a friend ship. How do i help her get him as her boyfriend instede of friends?
I'm not sure that's going to work. I mean you can't really force anyone to like someone. I'd suggest to your friend to try to look elsewhere if she wants a relationship.
okay im sorta new at this and i really need help so anyone that can i need to know how farr is too far on a first date?
Honestly I think anything more than making out would be too far on a first date.
I've been friends with this guy forever...and I really like him. I don't know what to do...but I really wanna go out with him and hook up with him. Sounds cliche: but i don't wanna ruin our friendship. Alternatives?
I really don't see how there could be an alternative to this situation. I would say take the chance and see what happens, you'll regret it if you don't.
what is the best college?
That depends on what you want to get a degree in. If you share that info it might be easier for us to give you good advice on that.
Ive been with my boyfriend for along time and he wants to have sex and i dont no i love him soo much and he loves me i no he does and everytime we r together its soo perfect and he said hes not guna force me but he thinks this will lock r relationship and then we ll be together forever and ii rele think hes telin the truth...should i do it?
Sexually confused..
First of all, the fact that you are questioning it shows that you aren't ready for it. When you are ready you will know. So just wait it out!
Hey Juan! How are you? I'm a little worried about Court, she isn't talking to anyone and her away messages are dark and scary sometimes. Do you know what's up? I hope nothing is wrong.
Sarah
I have no idea what is going on with her actually. I haven't talked to her all day. Sorry I can't help with that. I doubt she'd talk to me right now anyway.
Me and this guy are really close. And he did stupid crap in the past but says he doesn't do them anymore. He's at a party tonight and i can't help but fear he's gonna go back on all that he promised me. We are just friends so should I be this worried? And if he does stuff, should I care? He's only my friend. Not like he's cheating on me. But yet i sit hear trembling he's doing exactly what he said he wouldnt...
If he's a close friend, no reason why you shouldn't worry about him. But it really depends on what you are worried him getting into. If you talking about thing going on between him and someone else, well then I think that might be a bit much. On the same hand, if it is truly something that is not good for him then you should worry. If you feel that strongly about this guy, do you think you might want to be more than just friends with him? Think about that.
I'm 16/female.
There is this boy who likes me. We've been friends for 3 years and he's liked me for a good chunk of that time. There were times I liked him but it was never a good time to start dating. Recently, I rediscovered my feelings for him and we discussed it and agreed to give a relationship, dating, a try. He's a wonderful person but he's kind of clingy. He's already talking about being together "forever" and he says "don't leave me!" and we aren't even officially dating yet. I've had relationship issues before, being scared of them, and he knows this...and now I'm getting scared again. I'm afraid I'm going to hurt him. He's so much more solid in his feelings for me than I am in my feelings for him. I need some help, an outside oppinion. What do I do now? I've kind of talked to him about this but he thinks we should still give it a shot, that I should take the risk. But I just dont know anymore...
I can't say that he doesn't have problems, but I would say that you aren't going to be able to change him being that way. If it's something that's bothering you already and you not going out, I think you shouldn't try it, because it's going to be even harder. You might lose the friendship completlely. For anything truly good, you have to take risks, but you can't if you aren't somewhat comfortable with the person.
Hey thanks for you advice. From your response it sounds like you might have some experience with this topic? Maybe not. Just something else, about that. How can I get my family and friends to accept the girl I am with for who she is and not the color of her skin? Thanks again man.
Ken
Most people are unwilling to change the way they think, it's hard to say that many of them would even change their minds in accepting her. My best suggestion is just to talk to those that are the closest to you. If you are able to get them to see her for who she is, they might be able to help you change the minds of the others. Again not a sure thing, but it's worth a shot.
Hey im mike and 14/m. Well me and this girl we'll call joan have been dating on and off since october and we just got back together after 2 weeks. well i love her and all but im not sure where are relationship is going. We talk on the phone alot and we hang out like every week almost but i feel empty inside sometimes. I've hurt her once (emotionaly) and dont want to do it again can someone help??
Mike, you need to figure out where that emptyness comes from. It's not right to be with her if you having second thoughts about things again. I'd say try to sit her down and have a seriuos conversation about where you two see things going. Sometimes that's all it takes. You might see that things turn out a lot better after that.
17f, i know i had my whole entire life to live, and im still really young, etc.. but i havent been even close to having a relationship in SO long.. im very good looking and smart, and have a great personality and respectful... i feel like every single time i walk out of my house to go anywhere, like the mall, gym, store, just anywhere, i always hope to meet someone.. when im just driving in my car, i always look around me to see if they are any cute guys in their cars next to mine, etc.. I try not to and I hate it because the thought of meeting someone is always in my head, and i DONT want it to be, i want to meet someone when i least expect to.. any tipz on how to get this out of my mind so much? thanks =]
I think any girl in your situation would be stuck on looking for a guy. How to get it out of your mind though? Try finding a hobby and distracting your mind from thinking about people.
Hi. My name is Ken and I am an African American man. My friends and family give me problems because I seem to only date white women. I just never found myself being attracted to any women that are "my kind". Do you think it is weird to be in an inter racial relationship? A lot of people seem to have problems with it. Is there something wrong with not liking women that are your kind? I'm not sure if what i'm doing is wrong or if it's everyone else that has the problem. Thanks for any advice you can give in advance.
Ken
Oh man, hey Ken. In no way is it wrong for you to feel that way. Just some people are attracted to a certain type of person. It's sad that the people around you have to pressure you into thinking it's wrong to be in a relationship like that. To me what they are doing is wrong.
I think u could use sum advice...don't trust Courtney. She is at parties and when i c her there she's dancing with all these guys and she always has guys around her. Who knows what she's doing with them, she's sneeky. U don't want someone like that do u? Be careful.
*~J.S.~*
Okay, am I with her? She's on her own and if she be doing things well then it's on her. If she decides not to tell me, what can I really do about it? I don't want someone sneaky you are right about that, but I'm sure she's honest with me, if not I guess i'm the fool.
i met this guy mike whos kinda cute, shy, extremely sensitive, and over mature. he likes me but we seem to be fading inour conversations. we barely talk at school so we always talk online. ive tried everything to keep the converstaions goin but i give up. i kinda like mike too but im losing interest faster than the speed of light. then my best friend, xris, told me he just about loves me. mike knows and hes mad. but i told him i liked him and xris would have to deal with dat but that might have changed.i think i lyk xris, wut do i do?
You should let Mike know one way or another he needs to open up or he's going to lose his chance with you. I mean if you are already losing interest that's not a good sign. If you really don't get any reaction then you know, go with xris.