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Q: well..this is how it goes:(sorry if longg)
i am (15/f) and i am possibly in love with 1 of my good friends (18/m). one day, we were in his basement and we started to dance together..(nothing unusual) but this time he put on a slow song..CRAZY by KC & J0J0..he asked me to dance with him to that song..and of course..i said yes..so we started dancing together..and in the middle of the song,i looked into his eyes..and he looked into mine..and yes..we kissed..we stopped dancing..and i turned off his stereo..and was about to walk up the stairs to leave..I WAS IN TOTAL SHOCK..and he grabbed my hand..then picked me up and he kissed me..we were making out for about another 2 hours..and then he drove me home..the next day at skool..((me--sophmore..him--senior)) we were on the back stairs of the skool and he asked me if i wanted to skip with him and i said okay..we skipped skool and went to his house...we went into his bedroom and we were kissing..then thingsz started gettin hot and he reached under my shirt and started unclipping my bra. I let him do that..then he started rubbin my boobs..i let him do that too..i started unzipping his pantsz and yeh..it happend..we had sex..now we go out and we have been for 6 months..the thing is now..his ex-gf keeps calling him and he talks to her..
my question is:
am i losing my man as well as my bestfriend?
sincerely,
confusedddddd
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well it sounds like you and that guy had a very intimitate moment and it was pretty heavy and now you are in love .... have you had sex recently? because if so you arent losing him if he calls you when he said he will you arent losing him, if he tells you he loves you (recently and a lot) he is still in love with you....
if you are still worried ask him about it, say i feel we are losing touch with each other because you are talking to your ex's a lot and it makes me feel you may go back with etc.....
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Q: I have a ten-year old sister and she has a bf. One day i caught them making out. I didn't make much of it. When I came back she was sucking his penis. I don't want my sister to be a sex addict but how do i confront her about this?
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whoa! your sister is giving her bf a bj when she is 10, sit her down and tell her she doesnt do those things until she is a lot older, tell her she can do them when shes like 5 yrs older or soemthing if u catch her doing it again or something tell ur mom a ten yr old shouldnt do that
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Q: okay, so this guy i am "together with" which means we are pretty much going out without the label. anyway, he says he likes me alot, but doesnt think we would be able to have a relationship because he doesnt think i would want him to finger me, or i wont give him head. and the truth is, i just think it would be akward.. but ive gone out with him before.. and i really want a relationship with him.. he doesnt want to have sex with me.. just do everything else. but ive never given anyone head, and ive never been fingered.. im 14.. and i didnt think i should be doing that stuff.. what should i do?
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i would dump that asshole
if the only reason he will go out with you is if he can finger hima dn u give him head that is sooooo abusing,get out if that relationship fast girl, soon he could try to force you to do that stuff
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Q: Ok im 13 and I have had sex twice....I know that I want to tell my mom....but i know that if I tell my mom she will tell my dad and I KNOW that he will flip out....But I had ses with a guy that i have been goin out with for 2 years already and we are still going out...so I dont think it is that big of deal...but how do I tell my parents without them like killing me??? Also do you think I am considered a slut or something because a couple people at my school do...
thanks
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hunnie, you are WAYYY too young to be having sex, but if its your thing and its not a big deal for you, then its ok i guess. but dont go telling a lot of ppl at your school, its a very personal thing....
ask your mom if she has a minute to talk to her, most likely she would say yes, because now-a-days any mom would take any chance they get to talk to their kid, but all you should say is "this is rly private mom u have to keep it between us, ok, (take a deep breath) mom i have had sex"
most likely her smile or grin with be exchanged with a jawdrop and then be like mom i did it with (guys name) and she will be a little bit more comfortable since uve been dating him for 3 years, and just calmly and slowly explain to her about protection and stuff
but i would try not to do it too much because you dont want to become pregnanat at age 13
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Q: guys it would help if you answer this cuase you have probley done it befor-->
ok well ive like this guy for a long time i just never had the guts to ask him out because i didnt want to be rejcted because i love him. Well the other day he asked me out and all and i of course said yes..well today i saw him and all we made out for like the first time and all but later on i heard from one of his friends/ my friend lets call him cody well he told him that i was a gread kisser and he enjoyed it more that anyone else he has ever kissed befor..i dont no if cody was lieing to me to pull a prank on me or he was serious...But my problem is that he was braging about making out with me or cody was being like all of the other guys that i no and asking did u make out wiht her yet? well my question is that iff that is true then umm was he braging about kissing me and if he was why? or was he trying to avoid peer prussure...
sorry its so long
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well he may just be telling his friends because he was excited and he really liked it. If cody is his best friend or good friend then i can understand why he would tell him, didnt you tell ur friends.....
if it bothers you that he is telling his friends hten confront him about it say something like this "I heard from cody that you were talking about us kissing, i feel uncoomfortable when you tell people because we havent been going out for that long, etc...." if he is the great guy you think he is, he will understand
he may be trying to avoid peer pressure also, like he may think that he has to do stuff with a girl to get a good reputation... so be careful since it was a sudden ask-out he may be using you..... and you wouldnt want to get hurt
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i love giving advice. so send in all your questions =]
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