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Hey ya'll! My name's ~*Heather*~ and somehow you've stumbled upon my column! Congrats! :P Well, I'm 18 years old and I live in Missouri with my mom and my beautiful cat Corey. :D



Some of my ~*Likes*~ are the beach, exercising, cosmetics, strawberries, cats, this site, Subway, 24, tv, movies, alterative and trance music, teen magazines, shopping, tanning, cheerleading, CSI: Miami, crime shows, The O.C., cartoons, Jennifer Love Hewitt, Britney Spears, and Hilary Duff!



Some of my ~*Dislikes*~ are arrogance, ignorance, ppul who caint spewl, cottage cheese, Vanilla Coke, bosiness, co-dependence, being yelled at, being treated like an idiot.



Please don't be hesitant to ask me a question! I'll be happy to answer anything you bring to me! Add me to your favorites if you like and I'll add you back!

advice

I think I like one of my closest friends and I think she just might like me back. But it's tough because I don't really want to say anything me being a girl myself... Should I tell her how I feel and risk our friendship or just ignore it?

I think you should tell her. Never give up a chance to tell someone you like them. You'll regret it.

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ok....theres this kid that is going out w/ the girl i love...and he knows that i still love her...(she's my ex)....and he makes fun of me b cuz he's going out w/ her and im not....he makes up all these lies saying that she said them...but she didnt just to piss me off. i want to kick his ass...but then she'll hate me forever....every one else says to forget what she thinks about it and just do it....but i dont know what to do.....HELP ME!!

You should just talk to your ex about what her boyfriend's doing. Maybe tell her you still have feelings for her.

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I have a best friend named Amanda, and today at lunch at school she didn't say a word to me so I was like hmm o-well. So I just asked her on aol and here was our conversatoin...

me: Are you mad at me?
Amanda: No, why would I be mad at you?
me: you didn't say anything to me at lunch
Amanda: hmmm yea
me: yea?
Amanda: yea?

Then I told her I had to go...I didn't know what to say...is she mad at me ? What do I do?

It's really hard to tell if she's mad at you...do you think you could've done anything to hurt her feelings?

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Could you get pregnant if a guy had his dick like not in your vagina but right outside it and he cums, and he tries to pull away....but some gets on your clit, could you get pregnant?

- I know its confusing!!

-thanks
-Zero~

If some of the cum gets in you, then yes.

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I went to visit my aunt and met this guy and i guess he says he lieks me and when we were in the car he asked when i was going to be his gf and i said i didnt no well i havent seen him for awhile and i call him and talk to him on the phone and i really really like him what should i do becuz i really want to go with him

You two should hang out more, go on casual dates before you start becoming boyfriend/girlfriend. Get to know this guy a little better.

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i can remember the title to this one song. but i know liek all the words n stuff. but it goes like this...love me love me say that you love me, need me need me, say that you need me, so i creid and i begged for you, love me love me, saythat you love me, fool me fool me go on and fool me, i cant care bout anything but you..." WHAT IS THAT SONG! ill rate really well!!!

I am SURE everyone has already answered this but it's "Lovefool" by The Cardigans

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hi. I have orientation tomorrow and i have to wear a uniform. we are aloud to wear make - up i have black looking hair to my sholder. how should i do my hair and makeup ASAP

Hm I think it all really depends on your skin tone but...don't wear eyeliner. Try some mascara, maybe curl your lashes, put on some foundation powder, light eyeshadow to kind of match your skin tone if possible, and definitely some lip gloss. Any kind you want, just don't make it stand out "too" much. Also, wear earrings. Nothing chandelier or hoop. Small but...noticable enough.

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I need help! I love my sister to death but she is so annoying! I have no privacy and she always get's her way, I'm 13 she's 8. I really need help! Don't say talk to her, it didn't work.

Talk to your parents...

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Hey I really wanna run for pres. of student counsil. But I'm not the most popular girl in school...im like the second. And the most popular girl is one of my friends. Should I still run? and if so what should I do to secure my spot in teh position? thanks for ur help!

Go ahead and run! Who cares about popularity? If you think you've got what it takes, and have some great ideas then go for it! :)

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Okay well at camp this year i met a guy with all good qualities and of course i began to like him. so when i knew i liked him a lot i told him and then figured out he liked me too. Well we were going to hook up but then we decided not to because i would have to ride a ferry boat and then drive 30 minutes just to visit him. and i couldnt do that every week! Well i miss him a lot and i think about him everyday and well i am afraid to hook up with anyone else because i am afraid i might think about him and then end up having to break up with the guy. What should i do? I need advice!!! BADLY!!

I think you should just call this guy and talk to him about this. Maybe you could take turns visiting each other. You drive one weekend, then he drives the next. Or if you can't do that, then maybe you would visit bi-weekly. I hope things work out!

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Aaahh!!! Okay I have a bone stickin out the heal of my right foot! A guy in my grade said he had a bone sticking out of his foot and he had to get surgery. I never saw his so I dont know if it is the same, but it hurts if I push on it or if my shoes are kinda tight. Is this normal? Anyone have this problem??

If it hurts when you put on your shoes, when you should see a doctor. I'm not sure what it is exactly, never heard of something like this. But it does sound pretty serious, so please see someone.

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okay, ive been "talking" to this guy for the past like 2 weeks, we hang out acouple times a week and talk on the phone...how long do u think i should wait until i make out with him and NOT seem slutty at the same time? im comfortable with making out and all that junk, but how long should i wait so i wont seem easy?

I don't know. Just start kissing when you're both ready. I don't think kissing would make you "easy". Having sex with him and doing other stuff would.

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My boyfriend and i had sex the first time last week. Now we are doing it w/out the condom. He says that he has his cum under control and he knows when it is comming out. So he said that when it comes out or feels like it he will get out of me and wipe it off. He said w/out cum you can not get pregnate b/c with cum it has the sperms. Now is this true or is he lying to get me pregnate. Please help Me!!!!!!! :*(

Tell your boyfriend to stop being an ass and use condoms. He's lying to you all the way.

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Do women find a guy with a hairy chest attractive? I'm 24, hairy, but not out of control hairy. I'm not overtly self-conscious, but I get the feeling that body hair is considered unattractive. ???
Don't hold back. I want real answers. Hopefully, from real women. Thanks.

I don't really find hairy chests attractive. I think it's alot better if the guy is clean-shaven. On his face too....I don't like reaching for his chest and having to dig to find the skin. That's so not hot.

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Ok does anyone think this is wierd..my dad goes in the kitchen cabinet and its like 4 boxes of cereal n he looks at my favorite box and he tellls my mom not to buy them cuz HE DOESNT LIKE THEM..wtf is that?I like the freakin cereal y cat i keep it?...plz tell me if u think thats realli retarded

Yes that is stupid. I'm sorry your dad is like that.

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dumb question... tomorrow is the first day of skool and i dont no what to wear lol. im going into 9th grade. should i wear a skirt, should i wear capris, should i wear jeans? uh help! srry its so dumb but going into high skool ive been stressing out soooooo much. just give me ur opinion

Wear whatever you think is more comfortable.

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Do you guys think my mom would freak out if i married some one older than she is?

Definitely.

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All right, so, I'm 14/f, and this is basically about my guy friend, Jarrod. He really likes one of my best friends, Cora. He has liked her a really long time, and I was the first person he told after almost a year of liking her. He knows he can trust me not to tell anyone because I am an excellent secret-keeper, and so far I have told no one.
Although I did tell him that he should just tell her. Because I had to do that with this guy I liked, and everything turned out fine. But Jarrod and I both know that Cora doesn't really like him that way, although she really cherishes their friendship, I can tell. I told him that if he didn't do it by the end of this school year, I would tell her. (It's also sort of hard to keep this kind of thing from a best friend of yours for this long, even if Jarrod is a good friend too.)
And now, almost completely out of the blue, Jarrod told me that he's not sure why he told me in the first place, that there are other people he should have told before me, and that he doesn't want me privy to his love life anymore, and that I can't, under ANY circumstances, tell Cora. He also said that there is a personal reason that he doesn't want to tell Cora, and that he could not and WOULD not tell me.
What do I do? Why has Jarrod all of a sudden turned on me? Should I tell Cora and risk Jarrod's trust? HELP!!

Sorry about the long question...I rate!

You shouldn't tell Cora. 1) That's really his business eventhough he told you. If he doesn't want you to tell her then you can't. 2) You all know that Cora doesn't have feelings for Jarod, so why would you want to hurt Jarod like that by telling her how he feels?

You really have no right to say he HAS to tell her...

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how do you get rid of body odors done therE?

Well, there's some feminine body odor spray you can buy at the dollar store or Wal-Mart. Pretty much any drugstore.

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hey i have school coming up on sep 8 ok so i was thinking of wearing a faded blue billabong shirt with some, um, tannish (im not sure what the color is but its tanish they might be called a khaki color but anywho)dickies shorts. also my shoes are some white vans. would that be pretty good for a first day wardrobe? or would black dickies be better? or would a green quicksilver shirt be better? any advice will be thanked. thanks a million a 1! btw im a 13/m.

Hmm, I think the white Vans would be better.

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