My name is Jillian and if you've got a question, I'll answer it the best I can.
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Im going to state quickly that Im not trying to be a jerk.
Your most recent answer was to a question about pot. You stated that it kills braincells.
This is not factual information. Especially relating to substances that the person who is asking might be inclined to do, it is not a good idea to give out information that you dont know to be true.
On many subjects it cannot hurt but specifically with information on drugs it is better to offer no information at all than of the inaccurate kind. Please leave the answering of questions like this to those who are more experienced and informed in the future. (link)
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Well, excuse me. don't be such a busy-body. my parents told me it kills brain cells, but i guess it just "impairs" them, after looking it up. MY MISTAKE.
it makes you dumb end of story.
why? do you do it? did it make you nervous about the choice of doing it? awh too bad.
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I need a non biasis answer. Is pot actually bad for you? I do not smoke, and I do not believe that I will ever. Someone close to me does and seeing that person high botheres me. To hear them talk about, be around it, or etc. bothers me. I think its wrong.. maybe I think its wrong because its against the law buuut I know its legal in other parts of the world.. so they wouldn't make it legal if it harmed you, would they? I just need some good advice on this... Am i overreacting when bothered about pot? (link)
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pot kills brain cells. and brain cells dont re-grow or come back. there are also a lot of other stuff that goes wrong. i just dont remember it XD
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Hey. Anyone know any good upbeat songs to run to? I can't seem to find any that help.
Thanks. (link)
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I have a few :D
Off the top of my head:
-Up! by Shania Twain
-Paralyzer by Finger 11
-Livin la vida loca by Ricky Martin (yeah I know it's old but it has like the best beat ever)
-Make Em Mad by the chopper city boyz
-I'm walking on sunshine by Katrina and the Waves
-Footloose by Kenny Loggins
-To be loved by Papa Roach
-Misery business by Paramore
-Calling all cars by senses fail
^There's a few :}
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I got my haircut a while ago so I have layers. I like to put my hair up a lot because of hot weather. But it looks so plain.. Any cute everyday updos? With clips, headbands, something? Pictures will be most helpful. Thanks. (link)
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Ooooo well:
http://beauty.about.com/library/graphics/updow21.jpg
THATS REALLY CUTE but it looks really hard to do :/
http://www.curlyhairsalon.com/images/fancyhair-pic.gif
http://z.about.com/d/beauty/1/0/O/g/prom5.JPG
http://www.beautyriot.com/article.php?id=3913&c_id=71
http://www.beautyriot.com/article.php?id=3437&c_id=71
Eh. I don't think that was very helpful but I couldn't find much else.
I do hope I helped though.
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alright, well im thinking of getting my hair cutt, to look "emo"
im not much for labeling ppl, but i guess that would be what the cut would be called.
my hairs pretty long. [probally doesnt hit my boob, a little above it]
i want like the shaggy layers on the top, but every picture i find with that cut, has bangss.
im deff. not getting bangs, i dont think they would look right on me.
but, i want to see what the hair cut would look like without bangs, before i gett it.
links for pictures would be greatt. C:
thanksss (link)
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Well, I don't know how you can get an emo haircut without some type of bangs, ya know? Like you could get long bangs that maybe go down to your nose or mouth and they would look like layers not so much like bangs.
You know who has a REALLY cool emo haircut? The lead singer of paramore:
http://www.timharmonphoto.com/blogs/paramore2.jpg
But her bangs are kindof short...
See in this picture:
http://tn3-2.deviantart.com/fs7/300W/i/2006/002/8/0/Can_I_be_your_emo_girl_by_Leakingblackheart.jpg
Her bangs are like kindof long? I think that looks really good.
Hope I helped :}
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15/f
ok. im starting highschool. and i'm not sure what to wear for the first day /week. i dont think we can wear tank tops, so yeah.
these are things i have in my closet..
-skinny jeans [dark ones and light ones]
-polos. [navy blue ones and maroon ones. i dont wear polos much..]
-skirts.
-regular jeans.
-black and white polka dot baby doll top. [thats really cute.]
-white shorts
-plaid shorts
-regular tshirts that just say like abercrombie or has a gumball machine on it. and stuff.
-this other cute hollister shirt, it has like a bow and stuff. its cute.
i have alottt of other clothes too. like stuff that all matches that stuff. i'm pretty sure i wanna wear the skinny jeans. the light ones, i roll up. and then the darker ones i keep down. i'm thinking of wearing the darker jeans. i dont knowww. what do most people wear on the first day?
[my mom wont let me get clothes right away, because when i switched to a public school in junior high, i kept changing my taste in styles.]
i mean i know what i like. like im into that whole california look. and i shop at places like urban behavior, a little h+m, abercrombie & fitch, hollister, forever 21, aeropostale, amercian eagle[kinda] places like that.
so any ideas? (link)
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At high school you can kindof be judged a little easy on first impression. so, wear something that people can't judge you on. XD
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did forrest gump's mom die of AIDS? (link)
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I'm not sure...I think she died of old age. You know like natural causes. Because in the movie she's all "I got old, Forrest" or w/e.
haha
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i hate my mom we do not get along at all. ill be 18 in a few weeks i need to get out of the house. i was wondering if there are different not shelters but places u could stay that are eitehr free or not to expensive please answer the question instead of saying oh just try and get along and shittttt thankss (link)
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I think you should stay with a friend, but while you're staying there i suggest you work a job to save up for an apartment or something :]
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ok so i want this next school year to be the best year for me. it is my sophmore year. i want to make a whole lot more friends.
but im really shy. i normally wait untill people come to me. so how can i become more friendly?
or unshy? haha lol.
im the type of girl who needs to be comfortable around you..for me to be who i am.
so any help on how to make friends? (link)
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When you sit down in your new classes, say hi to the person next to you and ask what their name is. it might start up a conversation and it's the first day so they'll know you for the rest of the year.
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okay so there's this guy lets call him henry. anyway me and henry were getting really colse and we'd been on a couple dates (on most of these dates we got really physical and my liking him turned from sexual to really just liking him for him)so on our latest outing instead of getting phisical we just talked... for hours... then we started doing some physical stuff and henry stopped me... we were in a park though so it could have been that he was scared someone would see... but not to worry it wasn't infront of kids or anything, it was at about 2 am so no one was there. anyway we made plans to have another date and when i texted him he didn't text back, i texted him twice (i know that sounds like nothing but usually when i text him he replies right away, but then again on our date he told me that he really hated texting and he liked calling alot more). well anyway he never called or anything, then i find out from his best friend that he had a gig (he's in a band) and that's where he was... but he never texted me and i know that he has his phone. so my question is why did he suddenly turn cold? we haven't talked for over a week.
but i started to think about all the things that we said and he was asking me about past relationships and such, i told him that i reall y didn't like to get too serious, and his last girlfriend (who he was inlove with and supposedly loved him back) just broke up with him for no reason. so do you think that that has anything to do with him ignoring me suddenly?
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hmm maybe he wants to get serious with you but you dont so hes trying not to get hurt?
thats my only guess.
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my mom loves loves loves sonic ice, but when she chews it it drives me CRAZY CRAZY CRAZY!!!!!!!
i want to scream and slap or hit something,
how do i become better at handling that? can i make it become quiter or something lol
THANKS :D (link)
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HAHA my mom chews too loudly also XD you could try joking around with her about it, NICELY, and maybe it'll make her more aware of it and conscious of it.
haha
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Ok so I have quite a few pimples on my nose! There not big! But the never go away! I use this pimple stuff on my nose ,but still the don't go away! I also try to wash my once a day! Sometimes when there really a pain I try and pick them off! NOTHING IS WORKING! Please help and fast I really want to fix this problem before school starts!
And please don't recomend another pimple removel stuff!
PLEASE HELP! AND THANKS IN ADVANCE! (link)
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well, i wash my face twice a day, not once. and i use dove face wash, not ordinary soap you wash your hands with. that soap can suffocate your face XD
getting 8 or 9 hours of sleep helps, too.
also, if you're stressed over something or worried that can cause pimples too.
the key is to not worry about the pimples and just take care of your face and they should go away. if you worry about them it'll cause stress which causes pimples. catch my drift?
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So me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year. We hardly ever fight, and love each other. He's the best boyfriend I could ever ask for, and he's completely devoted to me. Only problem is ... I don't know if I'm as in love with him as he is with me. Some days I feel like I am, other days I feel like I'm not.
Every time he gets drunk, he proposes to me. I'm 18, and I'm not ready for marriage. So I tell him that, and he gets really offended (probably because he's drunk). He always tells me that I'm the one he wants to spend the rest of his life with, but I don't know if I feel the same way about him.
Should I tell him this? Should I wait for a while and see how I feel about him when I'm more mature? I want to love him as much as he loves me so bad, but I can't seem to! (link)
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hm.if he only proposes when hes drunk its probably not sincere. so be careful. i think you should think hard about if you'd be happy living the rest of your life with him.
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Okay so my boyfriend says I love you. But we just started going out and I don't know if I love him too. But I don't want to be like I don't love you. But I don't want to keep lying to him. WHAT DO I DOOO!?!?!
13 (link)
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tell him you aren't ready to say it yet. if he gets mad and breaks up with you over it, he obviously couldn't wait for you to say "i love you" long enough so he wasnt the right one.
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13/Female
I have a "friend” Samantha. We have a good past except sometimes over the last few years she has treated me bad. Ecample: Brenda ( a friend of ours) got mad at me and she became BFF with Brenda
The other day Samantha took me off her top 8 on myspace when she had all her other friends on her top 8. She has called me a biotch sevaral times now to the point where its not even in a lovingly or jockingly way
Well a few days ago on MySpace Samantha commented me and said "Hey Biotch "
Should I respond ? I think she knows I'm kind of upset with her. If I respond what should I say? Why do you think I should or shouldnt respond? I strongly believe that you should always keep a steady relationship with someone in case you need them in your future 1 day. But Im douting whether or not to respond nicely
Something I could say would be like "Hey" - keep it simple and short. Nothing more if I respond to her unless reccomended by Advicenators
Thanks for your help (link)
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You could be like "um do you have a problem with me or something? :/" but maybe a little less rude sounding then that XD she might be messing around or maybe shes just..changed.
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is it possible to be so emotionally upset and depressed, that you physically hurt?
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hmmm. it could take the energy out of you, maybe? I'm not sure.
Wait, was this a literal question?
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Well Aug 10, my friend is having a party.
He is really cute, and everybody is going.
Its a pool party
anyways, on my calender , it says my period should be coming around aug 9...
I cant put a tampon in all the way, but i cant parshally with some hanging out.
If i wear a black bathing suit and a tampon , half in...
Would that be okay?
What should i do?
Will the tampon fall out
HELP!
and the party is from 3pm - 8pm.. (link)
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It'd fall out plus you'd be worrying about it a lot. You'd probably leak too, if it was half way in XD maybe practice putting it all the way in? trial and error!
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I'm kind of a non-talkative person. How can i be outgoing and be social to give people a great impression on the first day of school? (link)
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Well, there's no big secret on it. You just have to say "hi" to the person that sits next to you and ask for their name. It could start up a conversation :D it's good to maybe go to the mall to practice. like talking to the cashier or somebody thats looking at the same rack of clothes you're looking at.
I've learned that it's good to be out of your comfort zone sometimes. It may be nerve-racking to say "hi" to Mr. Hott but he will notice you that way.
Good luck!
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I'm putting together a notebook with meaningful quotes and sayings. What are your favorite quotes and sayings? It could be about anything: love, life, death, happiness, sadness, friendship, etc. They can be from movies, books, famous people, songs, etc. Thanks! (link)
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hmmm how about:
"Expect the Unexpected."
"live your life to the fullest so the priest doesn't have to lie at your funeral."
"in life there's always gunna be someone that's gunna try to take your spot."
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i'm 14 years old and i want a job very badly. my parents have been low on money so it's hard for them to get me stuff and give me money for the movies, etc. so i'd like to have a job to pay for my own things and to start saving for a car and college and such.
i've tried all the mcdonalds around me and have gotten turned down because two weren't really hiring. so any ideas and any places that hire 14 year olds? i live in Ohio, and i'd like it to be an all year thing not just summer, thanks so much :] (link)
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hmmm try babysitting. and grocery stores often hire 14 year olds.
i desperately need a job too and ive been looking since like april.
e_e
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