Hi!!!!
My name is Kimmy. I live in Parma, Ohio. I have black hair, brown eyes, glasses, I weigh 100, and I'm 5'3. I have my bellybutton pierced, my ears pierced 4 times each, my nose pierced, and my eyebrow pierced. I also have a tattoo on my lower back, and on my shoulder, but I'd like to get another one someday. I love helping people out, so if anyone ever has a question to ask, please feel free to leave a question in my inbox, or you can just IM me or email me if you'd like. I love meeting new people, so if anyone wants to, go ahead and IM me!!!! I'd love to talk. If you wanna know anything else just ask. I'm here to help people out!
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should i change my look from preppy 2 punk 4 a guy? (link)
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Awwwwww! No, you shouldn't! I think that it is very wrong when someone thinks that they have to change their appearance or the way they look just for someone else. Looks aren't everything at all. It's wrong when guys just care about looks in a girl. They should be looking at the personality and how the girl is. You shouldn't have to change the way you look for a guy. NOONE should have to change the way they look. Guys should like girls for the way they are, and not make them change the way they look. You shouldn't feel obligated at all to change your appearance. If you like a certain guy, but you think that he won't like you cuz of the way you look, then he wouldn't be a good guy to go out with. You should choose someone that will like you just the way you are! DO NOT change your look for a guy!!!!! Well, I hope I helped ya out hun! If you have anymore questions, just email me at PrEtTyKiTtY0428@aol.com and I'll try my best to answer them. Bye hun!
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Ok, i was at sonic and a really hot girl brought the food out to me. Ive never seen her before in my life, but i got the nerve to ask he for her number. and she actually gave it to me. Ok now im stumped. What do i do? Should i call her n ask her out, or what? help plz. (link)
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I think that if you call her, you shouldn't ask her out right away! You may think that she's really hot, but you don't even know her! You should get to know her and then if you start to like her, then that would be a good time to ask her out. You should call her and tell her how you feel about her. Ask her if you guys could do something when you are both free, like on a day when she doesn't have to work. You guys could go to the mall, go out to eat, go see a movie, or you could go over her house or she could go over your house. It depends on what you guys like to do. Ask her if she would want to do anything with you and tell her that you would like to get to know her alot better. Suggest some places to go and see where she would want to go, or what she would want to do also. You guys could hang out, and then who knows maybe you guys will both eventually get strong feelings for each other. You could end up going out with her someday! Don't rush into a relationship right away though!!!! Get to know her first! Alright, well I hope I helped ya out! If you have anymore questions, just email me at PrEtTyKiTtY0428@aol.com and I'll try my best to answer them. Bye hun! Good luck! Everything should work out! Sorry if I didn't help ya out!
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aight well im going out with this guy who is great. but i hooked up with one of my best guy friends last night and i made out with him accidentally. i dunno what to do. should i tell my boyfriend what happened??? (link)
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Yes, I think that you should tell your boyfriend what happened. You should always be honest. If you don't tell him, then you will always have that gut feeling that tells you that you never told him about that. You should really tell him this. Tell him that it was an accident and you don't know why you did it. I'm sure he'll understand. If he did something like that, I'm sure he would tell you about it. If you don't tell him, then he could possibly find out from someone else and that would be horrible. He would me mad that you didn't tell him yourself and that he found out from someone else. Just be honest and tell him the truth. Alright, well I hope I helped ya out hun! If you have anymore questions, just email me at PrEtTyKiTtY0428@aol.com and I'll try my best to answer them. Bye hun! Good luck! Everything should be fine!
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ok when do guys like really start getting perverted(sex,makeing out)..like do the start at 12,13,14 b/c i kno some guys that are perverted that are like 12 but i dont kno if others are or if its just those guys!!! help i rate good! (link)
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Actually, guys start getting perverted at all of those ages. I've talked to some guys that are 12 and very perverted before. Even an 11 year old! Some guys will be very perverted, but some guys wont. It just depends on the guy. Well, I'm sorry this answer was so short! I hope I helped ya out! If you have anymore questions, just email me at PrEtTyKiTtY0428@aol.com and I'll try my best to answer them. Bye hun!
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Ok, the guy i like is like 5 feet. give or take a few inches. And i'm like 5 8. It's a HUGE height difference, and idc about looks, but i dont want ppl making fun of him b/c he's going out with a giant or make fun of me for going out with a midget. We're both in 7th grade. I think i should just continue liking him. I think i have a good chance with him. What do u think? (link)
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Yes, I think your right. You should definitely continue liking him! I bet that you would have a very good chance with him. Just because you think that you guys will get made fun of doesn't mean that you shouldn't like him anymore or think that you have a good chance with him. You shouldn't care about what other people think. People that make fun of other people are just assholes. They are immature and they have nothing better to do than make fun of people and make them feel bad about themselves. It's what's on the inside that counts. That would be very wrong to just stop liking him because of the height difference. If you really like him, then that's all that matters. Well, I hope I helped ya out hun! If you have anymore questions, just email me at PrEtTyKiTtY0428@aol.com and I'll try my best to answer them for you. Bye hun!
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Okay, I like this girl. We have one class together. I know shes a little hesitant about a relationship, but how do i casually get to know her (bear in mind i want to make a move later on) (link)
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You should tell her how you feel. When you see her next time, ask her if she would want to do something with you sometime. You guys could go see a movie, go out to eat, or walk around at the mall. She could also go over your house, or you could go over hers. You should just tell her how you feel, but don't rush her into anything. She probably won't be ready to have a relationship at first, but give it some time. I'm sure you guys will go out sometime. If you rush her into having a relationship with you, she probably wouldn't like that very much. If you give her some time, she'll see that your very nice and your not trying to rush her into anything. Eventually, she'll have feelings for you and you guys can go out. Well, I hope I helped ya out hun! If you have anymore questions just email me at PrEtTyKiTtY0428@aol.com and I'll try my best to answer them. Bye hun! Good luck!
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I'm in 8th grade. This is my last year at m school, and I have become like really close with these two girls. Like and we are going to differnt highschools, but they are the only people that I can actually tell them stuff. I'm like really scared because i need one of them to talk to at school..to help me with my problems and stuff! how am i going to survive with out them?! i am totally scared! mauhh
kmul (link)
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Don't worry. This isn't a problem. I'm sure you'll be able to make many new friends when you go to highschool. You can still talk to your other 2 friends. You can go to the mall or the movies or go and eat with them. They can even go over your house or you can go over their houses. You shouldn't worry about this at all. You'll probably be scared at first without them, but you'll make new friends real fast. You'll get used to not seeing your friends in school. Other than this, you should have no problem with hanging out with them and seeing them. Well, I hope I helped ya out! If you have anymore questions, then just email me at PrEtTyKiTtY0428@aol.com and I'll try my best to answer them for you! Bye hun! Good luck! Don't worry, everything should be fine.
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Aight... There is this girl that i am extremely attracted to... We have similar intrests, we go to the same school....But i dont think she is interested as i am.. I mean i know she is cool with me and im cool with her i just want to Up it... What the hell shall i do? (link)
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You should really talk to her about this. Tell how how you feel! Ask her if she feels the same way about you as you feel about her. If you start talking to her more and you actually tell her how you feel, then maybe she'll start to like you as more than a friend! Find out how she feels and go from there. Well, I hope I helped ya out! If you have anymore questions, just email me at PrEtTyKiTtY0428@aol.com and I'll try my best to answer them. Bye hun! Good luck!
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Hey, I have a gf, and she says she loves me, and we have been going out for about a week. The only times she says "I love you" is on the computer. I even say it when we are in person and she doesn't say it back... she has told me her feelings and she says she really loves me, and she is like crazy about me, but my question is: How come she won't say it back? (link)
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You should really talk to her about that. It might just be harder for her to say it to you on the phone, because she actually has to say it but on the computer she isn't saying it directly to you. She also might not really feel the same way about you.You guys haven't even really been going out for a long time at all. A week is not that long at all. She just probably Isn't ready to say it back to you yet. You should ask her how she feels. Ask her why she says I love you to you on the computer but not the phone. I'm sure she'll tell you. She probably hasn't told you, because you haven't said anything to her about it so she doesn't know that it bothers you. Well, I hope I helped ya out! If you have anymore questions, just email me at PrEtTyKiTtY0428@aol.com and I'll try my best to answer them the best I can. Bye hun!
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My boyfriend is amazing. I love him to death. But he is a little immature sometimes when I need him to just be serious. Any way I could tell him in a nice, non-offending way?? (link)
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awww, well you should just tell him that it really bothers you when he acts immature. Tell him that he needs to act his age, because it really annoys you and your sick of it. I'm sure he'll understand. If he gets mad at you, then that's very wrong. He shouldn't get mad at you over saying something like this to him. Just be honest. Try not to say anything in a mean way. Alright, well I hope I helped ya out! If you have anymore questions, then just email me at PrEtTyKiTtY0428@aol.com and I'll try my best to answer any questions that you have for me. Bye hun!
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my boy friend has been ubducted by the new game halo 2...he is obsessed! how can i get him back??? (link)
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lol I know lots of people right now that are always playing that game! You should just tell him that he's spending too much time playing his game that he's not even paying attention to you anymore! Tell him that you want him to play the game alot less so that way won't feel left out. He should be able to pay attention to you and spend time with you. I hate it when peole just pay attention to their video games and constantly play them. Alright, well I hope I helped ya out! If you have anymore questions just email me at PrEtTyKiTtY0428@aol.com and I'll try to answer your questions the best I can. Bye hun!
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ok theres this guy that i like and last night he asked me if i was interested..i kinda freezed and just told him that i dont talk to him that much anymore so i dont know..i mean its true but thats not what i would have liked to say if i would have thought about it! i havent been able to talk to him today because we go to different schools and he hasnt gotten online and ive been really busy today but i really need to talk to him about this..he gets hurt really easily because this has happened before but a little differently..ok so the question is..how do i tell him that i like him without sounding stupid because i pretty much lied to him the night before? (link)
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You should just tell him that the night before you weren't sure if you really did like him or not. Tell him that you thought about it and you realized you like him alot. You should tell him that you missed him and have been waiting to talk to him! Suggest to him that you guys should be more than friends. It sounds like he likes you and you really like him. If he didn't like you, then I don't think he would've asked you if you were interested. Just tell him that you made a mistake the night before and that you really do like him alot. I hope I helped ya out! If you have anymore questions just email me at PrEtTyKiTtY0428@aol.com and I'll try to answer your questions the best I can. Good luck hun!
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Hi...Im at school right and im not the most popular person.but, im really funny and have a great personality..(not to be cocky) But, I seem to be more on the loser side, which is bad :( I dont fit in anywhere...i just take up space in the school. I need advice ..How do i get people to see me for me, and actually just judge me on what other people say. Yes, i know i should talk to them, but they're always like...wtf you suck.. yea im not kidding eaither. Everyone just .hates. me... please help :( (link)
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Even though you think that noone likes you, you should start trying to talk to alot more people. Maybe if you talked to some different people, they would see that your not so bad. They would probably end up thinking that your really nice! I'm sure you could make a lot of friends. You just have to be more open and talkative. Try showing people that you really are nice. People that judge people before they even get to know them are assholes. I know alot of people that do that. You shouldn't feel bad, because me and my best friend are the biggest losers at my school. We can't stand it.Well, I hope I helped ya! If you have anymore questions just email me at PrEtTyKiTtY0428@aol.com and I'll try to answer your questions the best I can. Good luck hun!
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Okay well like guy..and he has a girlfriend..but he flirts with me..but when hes with his friends..hell like barely talk to me..or when hes with his girlfriend..he like say hey but then he just ignore me! i mean EVERYONE in my class that knos that i like him..thinks he likes me..but i dont think so..because sometimes he can be mean..but other times he so sweet. i could tell him anything..and i really like him..but i dont think he likes me! do you kno why flirts with me when its just us..and then when hes with his friends hell ignore me?! thanks!
.KMUL. (link)
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Alot of guys act like assholes in front of their friends. They can be really mean in front of their friends, but when their alone with you they just tend to be alot nicer. It's something that all guys do. You shouldn't worry about anything. You should tell him that it bothers you he acts nice around you when you guys are alone, but mean when he is with his friends. If you talked to him, then maybe he would be nicer in front of his friends also. Well, I hope I helped ya out hun! If you have anymore questions just email me at PrEtTyKiTtY0428@aol.com and I'll try to answer them the best I can. Bye!
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for some reason people think im bisexual even though im not how can i make them stop because i do tell them if i was it wouldnt matter and then they make fun of me so how do i make this madness stop? (link)
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You should tell them that your not bi and that they should get to know you more, and they would know that your not bi. If you know that your not bi tho, you shouldn't let it bother you. Sometimes people can be assholes! Alot of people make fun of other people just because they have nothing better to do. Their gay assholes. Don't worry about it! Well, I hope I helped ya out! If you have any other questions for me then just email me at PrEtTyKiTtY0428@aol.com and I'll try my best to answer them for you. Bye hun!
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what should i do my friend is mad at me for some reason really upset might lose my best friend :( (link)
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You should talk to your friend and ask them why their mad at you. Tell them that you are really upset, and that you don't want to lost them as a friend. You should tell your friend that it's really hurting you that their mad at you. I'm sure if you talked to your friend, you guys could start getting along again. Don't be upset! Everything should be fine. If your friend can't forgive you, then their not a really good friend. You shouldn't be friends with someone that can't forgive you for a mistake. Everyone makes mistakes and they should be forgiven for those mistakes. Well, I hope I helped ya out! If you have anymore questions just email me at PrEtTyKiTtY0428@aol.com and I'll try my best to answer any questions that you might have for me. Bye hun! Good luck! Don't worry. Everything should be fine.
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I really want a boyfriend, i'm 14/f and i've never had a boyfrined... I mean i know i won't liek die if i don't have one lol, but if anyone has any tips please help! (link)
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Well, I think that you should try talking to some guys that you really like. If you like a certain one alot it would be a good idea to start talking to him and getting to know him. You could make plans to go somewhere with the person you like. You could go walk around the mall or go somewhere and eat. It depends on what you like to do. I'm just giving some suggestions. When you really realize you like someone, you might find out that someone has feelings for you! Don't worry, you'll find someone eventually. Your still young, so you should just take your time and keep looking. You want to find someone you really like. Don't rush into finding any person to go out with just because you want a boyfriend. I'm 14/f too, and I really want a boyfriend so I'm trying to find one. Good luck! I hope I helped ya out. If you have anymore questions that I could answer for you just email me at PrEtTyKiTtY0428@aol.com and I'll try my best to answer them. Bye hun! Good luck again! Sorry for making this answer sooo long.
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ok i put this up before but i just wanna know something eles ok well like i probably have add and i didnt tell my mom about it and im talking to a school counsler but i dont know if i should tell my mom should i?
help please
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Yes, I think you should tell your mom. If you do have add, I'm sure you mom would really like to know. You should tell her that you have to talk to her and tell her about it one day. Your mom really cares about you and should know these things. You should've told her this before you talked to a school counselor. Talk to her about it! Alright, well I hope I helped ya out! If you have anymore questions just email me at PrEtTyKiTtY0428@aol.com and I'll try my best to answer any other questions that you might have for me. Bye hun!
Love,
Kimmy
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hi. okay this is really emberressing. i kept clicking on random columnist until i found a girl because it's easier for me to ask a girl then a guy. well i'm ready "metally" to have sex btu i wanna make sure i am "physically" too. well here i go.. do guys like it better shaved down there? i no i should ask a guy but idk? what would YOU say? don't tell me to ask my boyfriend or anything because he's older then me and he might think i'm stupid or smothing. if u were in my situation would you or not? thanks so much i rate!
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Yes, guys usually like it shaved down there. Most of the guys I talk to like it when it's shaved. If you think that your boyfriend would like it shaved down there, then you should shave. I'm sure if it's not he'll understand. I don't think he would mind.If you asked your boyfriend I don't think he would think your stupid at all. If he thought you were stupid, then he wouldn't be a good boyfriend at all. Well, I hope I helped ya out! If you have anymore questions that I could help you with then just email me at PrEtTyKiTtY0428@aol.com. Bye hun! I'll try to help you with any questions that I can.
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I have to do a project with this kid... and ever since... i think i like him... its weird because hes like that cool, funny guy but hes not my type?
Sincerely,
what should i do?!
I'm 13 and a female (link)
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I think that you should tell him how you feel. He might end up feeling the same way about you! If someone isn't your type, I think It's still alright to go out with them, because a lot of people go out with people that aren't their type and they really end up liking the person a lot! You might think you don't like someone because their not your type, but you should get to know him more so that way you can see how he really is. You might have alot more in common than you think. Try it out! I hope I helped you out! Goodnight sweety! If you have anymore questions that you need to ask then just email me at PrEtTyKiTtY0428@aol.com and I'll try my best to answer your questions that you might have for me. Bye!
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