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my boyfriend wants me to get thongs cuz he says they look cool on girls. i kinda want them but i dont think my mom would approve... what do u think i should do?

-jackie, 14

Hey , I think I know what your saying cuz I wanted thongs too !~* , but I didnt think my mom would approve. I know it sounds sneaky but I bought one and I threw away the the paper thing so it couldnt get returned and she found out about it. She didnt like it at first but now she doesnt care, Umm well you could do that but I dont want you to get into trouble :/ . But remember you dont have to please anybody if you dont want to . Just Be who you are * I hope this helped Good Luck -Melissa-

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Would it be good or bad to make out several times with a this girl i like? I just met her that day, and we became b/f and g/f. This is my Question: Was it a good or bad desicion to make out with her the day i met her?

Hey, well the question is , did the girl feel comfortable doing it ? If she didnt then take it slow. You probaly should have wait to get to know her better but some people are different.* :) I hope this helps ~* Good Luck
-Melissa-

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A girl named leah likes me and i like her alot. She wont talk to me and i know i already put this up but i dont think she is shy b/c we know eachothers phone numbers and talk alot until we found out about eachothers feeling Please help me

well Maybe she just wants to go slow for now and thats normal , some girls dont like to be rushed into things and maybe its her way of thinking about it * :) I hoep this helps * Thanx for asking Good Luck ~ -Melissa-

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Recently i have been hangin out wiht this kid...and i really lyk him, he told my friend that he lyked me but he didnt lyk my attitude..he also said he might ask me out...(he has kissed me before but i dont know if it meant ne thing). what does it mean if he doesnt lyk my attitude? and meanwhile this...this other guy that i used to lyk alot asked me out 3 days ago and i told him i have to think about it...what should i do..i dont lyk him as much as the first guy i mentioned..
~confused~

Hi, I think you should like a guy for the good things like a positive attitude,nice, funny,and
caring about you ,and honest. The guy that likes you should like you because of the same reasons too . You dont have to change your ways to "please" anyone just be yourself and let your heart decide . I hope this helps.Thanx for asking
Good Luck -Melissa-

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well there is this one girl that i really like named leah and i told someone else that i liked leah and she told leah, then she told me that leah likes me and now leah wont talk to me becaused i know she likes me. What Should I Do To Make Her Talk To Me?

Hi ok , love can get us all tangeled up sometimes but it shouldnt makes us feel bad *
I do have good news though, she will talk to you sometime, she is just mad right now. I think its good if you just let her cool off then you too could maybe get together or it could be that she is shy : ) Thanx for asking*~ Good Luck -Melissa-

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I went out wit someone in 6th grade, and he asked me out a few times in 7th and i said no. i figured out he cuts for attention and im not down with that.. but he just asked me out again, and to get him off of my screenname that he hacked into, i said yes. and i dont want to be with him! what should i do?

Allie

Hey Umm well I would just tell him staight out "leave me alone " and that your not interested . dont even talk to him*
I hope this helped * :) Good Luck -Melissa-

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my boyfriend wants to make out but he hasnt asked me he tells all of his friends that hes going to make a move i dont know if i'm ready for it. he also tells his friends how much i want him to make out with him and its not true...
Hayley, 12

Well I would say like I have been saying dont let a guy pressure you into doing any thing you dont want to do * And try to stick up for yourself And dont let the rumors get you down !~*
Stand tall and proud !* Cuz you a girl ~*
thanx for asking -melissa- good luck

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hey,

i catch alot of girls at school starin at me and i wonder of they like me or they just think im wierd. help would ve apprieciated

Hey, Well they could like you and if they make eye comtact with you they probaly like you. But Im not sure about the weird thig I hop this helps ! Good Luck -Melissa-

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hey i wuz goin out wit this guy and i reele liked him and i thought he felt the same way but he broke up wit me and i didnt tink i wud b sad if we did break up but i am sad. and my bestfriend who is sooo awsome is going out wit his twin brother and i asked her to ask him if he was gonna ask me out again and he said yes.
so should i go back out wit him or not?

Well this time if the guy feels the same way then you should probaly give him another chance*
And I hope this helps Good Luck -Melissa-

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WELL YA C, I LIKE WEARING MAKE-UP B/C MY MOM IS NOW LETTING ME BUT I AM NOT SURE WUT EYESHADOWS GO BEST WITH MY SKIN TONE, I HAVE FAIR COLORED SKIN (LIGHT) AND I HAVE NO CLUE WUT COLORS I SHOULD USE! HELP!
*~*~UNSURE ABOUT MAKE-UP~*~*

Hey I think you would look nice if you ised a nice soft pink color or gold * I hope this helps
Good luck -Melissa- :)

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my boyfriend always is wanting to make out wit me. and i dont reele know him well enough to. so when i made out wit him he tried to like lay down, and i am not at all that type of person. and i dont know how to tell him i dont like him well enough to like lay down and juss make out. not sex. but make out. and i tink he wants 2 to have sex wit me. bcuz everytime i see him he brings his condoms. i need advice, thanx
14 female

Hey Dont let a guy pressure you into doing anything you dont want to do and if doesnt like it then he is not a good b/f . If he really cares then he will take it slow and If I were you I would tell him that "I want to to get to know you more" I hope this helps !~* Good Luck -melissa- : )

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Hey..have you ever like took a piece of cheese and used it to clean urself? I have. And i wiped my pussy with it...do you think i could get a disease? I mean i did put an ice cube down therw after. -Dont know what to do-

Hi , Umm well if i were you I wouldnt be doing that cuz it sounds kinda sick :/ Thanks for asking though -melissa- Good luck
and no I havent done that

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recently i got out of a long serious relation ship with my gf cuz she moved, we are still tight and wutnot but i met this nice girl i would like to get to know but im scared to ask her out for her number. ext.... i dont want to be broken apart into millions of shttard peices. do you have any advice to help me mel?

ok, I Think you should maybe get to know the girl alot more and then ask her if she is interested*
Thanks for asking ~! Good Luck
-Melissa- :)

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Hey! I think im a lesbian..or bi. Cause' I have sexual thoughts about my one friend..and me and her have kissed. Should i make a move?

Hi, Umm I dont think cuz she might not be a lez . Thanx for asking though * :) Good Luck -Melissa-

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Hey..im a babysitter..and the kid's dad that i babysit raped me..and he does it all the time and makes me do sexual things for him. Should i stop this?

Yes Definately !* You should talk to a friend or conselor about this or you can call this child abuse number, and just tell him you dont want to babysitt anymore and you dont have to !~*

Number : 800-4-A-Child
or childhelpusa.org
I hope this helps ! *
Good Luck -melissa- : )

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I hurt someone..physically..and it was my b.f..i kinda hurt his thingy and he said he cant have an orgasm now cause' i slammed his part of that where it is and hes gonna press charges on me. What do you think i should do? 14.f.Georgia

Tanya* Hugs'n'Kisses

Well it depdends did you do it on purpose ?
and if not then i would keep saying im sorry and it was an accident and have your family and friends back you up !~* ;) ok thanx thanx for asking ! -melissa- Good luck

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ok my boyfriend keeps calling this other girl i told him it bothers me but he jst said its ok were just frineds but i still worry about it. because the girl that he talks 2 likes him.i dont want her 2 still him from me!!

signed,
unsure and worried

Hi, Ok Maybe you should try to talk to that girl but try not to be rude about it * And if you find out that your bf is cheating on you then you are too good for him . I hope this helps and trying talking more to your boyfriend
* untill he gets the message thruogh his head lol Ok thanks for asking -melissa- good luck

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Hey..are u a virgin? I am..but i wanna have sex with this boy..what do u think i should do?
-Confused-

Hey, yes Iam a virgin, I feel like I am way too young to be having sex with boys and my mom would freak on me . Umm Well it depends how old or young you are . And if you are gonna do it anyway then at least use a condem ! SAFE SEX
and dont let him pressure you into any thing you dont wanna do !~* Thanks for asking -melissa-
Good luck

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I AM REALLY INTO THIS ONE GUY AND HE SEEMS TO LIKE THIS OTHER GURL, AND I TRY TO JUST FORGET ABOUT HIM BUT, IT HURTS TO SEE THE 1 YOU LOVE, LOVE SOMEIONE ELSE. I WISH HE WOULD SEE HOW MUCH I REALLY DO LIKE HIM, AND HOW I THINK HE IS NICE, BUT HOW DO I DO THIS? HELP!

- 13 YEAR OLD (UNKNOWN)

Well have you tried to flirt with hime yet ? Maybe if he help him out if he drops something or give him a compliment the maybe he will reconize you but remember try not to hard to get his attention . And remember theres plenty of fish in the sea ! lol *~* :) -Melisa- Goood luck

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Hi..listen i am going to a new school next year..and i was picked on in my old school...mostly because of my looks..i mean im not really ugly..i just have some acne. Can u tell me what to do and give me advice and beauty tips? I would really appreciate it! Thanks~Sarah*

ok I think you should bye some acne cream and maybe you can go shopping for some new clothes *
You can always buy teen magazines for beauty tips too . And dont forget your still pretty on the outside and it doesnt matter what they say you beautiful * !~* -Melissa- Good luck thank and Bye

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