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Ok i slept with make-up on..stupid i know..and now my eyes are sore..how long will it take for the soreness to go away?

Probably not even a day, Just keep a warm clothe on your eyes. It should help.

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okay, my friend, my good good friend is inlove with this kid,he's known her for a long time,and he only likes my friend as a friend.And she wants it to be a relashion ship, not a friend ship. How do i help her get him as her boyfriend instede of friends?

Write him a note. Tell him how she feels about him and if he realizes how much she likes him and he likes her too, He'll find a way to chat with her and tell her.

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i sometimes feel uncomfortable singing infront of people! how do i over come this fear?!

signed,
Afraid2Sing

I know alot of people like that. I am afraid to sing in front of everyone except my best group of friends. Try singing in front of them and then keep moving to different people and see if that helps or when you're singing don't look at the people and focus on one thing. Hope i've helped! =D

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ok i know this might be weird but what does 1st base 2nd base and 3rd base mean?? not like in baseball!! **PLEASE DO NOT DELETE THIS!*

1st base-kiss, 2nd base-makeout, 3rd base-sex

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my boyfriend said we were going to hangout today and he called me last night and told me hed call me today....well he hasnt called me or anything and its 3:30 already...i called him at 1:30 and his brother answered and said he was in the shower...and hed have him call me back...im mad because hes home and stuff and he hasnt even called me....its like...we only hangout if i call him....why doesnt he call me? but when were together its amazing....i love him alot...he said we'd do something today....=\

Guys are like that. They also need time to their selfs just as much as we do though. Maybe, just call him back and then let it go. Just think if he wanted to talk, he has the hand to pick up the phone and just tell you what's up.

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I am 23 years old. I have been having sex with my boyfriend for about 2 years now. He's the only person I've ever slept with, and vice versa. I'm having problems because sex is very painful with him and I don't enjoy it. His penis is very large and it hurts a LOT. The length isn't so much a problem, but the girth. Neither of us has any STD's or anything like that. I love him a lot and we've even talked about marriage but I can't imagine a life of not enjoying sex. Any advice?

This might sound a bit odd. But try penis reduction. I'm sure if you check in with the doctor they might have some ideas. Hope i've helped. = )

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Alot of people's columns look different and at the bottom it says Layout By Dustin..how do you get it like that? Thanks

Go unger "column settings" and under that there should be 4 groups of columns..pick the one that says,"layouts by Dustin." Hope I've helped. =D

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Tomorrow night I'm having a friend over. We'll both be home alone, cuz my rents are gonna be at the neighbors. We're both 13/F. What should we do when the ball drops??? SOMETHING EXCITING AND WILD

Call all the friends up and party! =D

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yesterday i was watching tv and i changed tha chanel and it was porn!! i didnt even bother to change it and i wanted to watch it and im 15/f is that normal?!?! i got really horny and i wanted to call my bf to come over! whats wrong with me?!?!

Yes. That happens with many girls.

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okay im 13/f and my 14th bday is in january and i have no idea what to do for my party cause its girls and guys and its in the middle of winter. please i need some ideas!!!--o ya and i live in texas
thanks!

Go to the mall or go shopping! = D That's a great party for that age!

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Hey guys. Sherry here. My little sister (10) got like white stuff on her underwear like a few weeks ago and yeah I knew it was normal but she told me just today that she got a really small red spot on her underwear...I never got these spots before my period or anything so do you think she'll get her period soon? She's really young though so idk! thanks:) I'll rate!

Yep. That is signs of her period.It's discharge and the red small spots should be the starting of her period.

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my kid hates me what do i do they are turnin rebelous help!

Why do they hate you? It would help alot if I knew.Just talk and try to work things out with him/her.

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i really hate my dad.

no, really.

i sincerely dislike the man.

i am incredibly opinionated and very vocal about my opinions, which he hates.

i know i am smarter than him, he hates this also.

he yells at me for no reason often. condemning my use of the computer. stating that i'm on it too much.

my sister, on the other hand, watches TV all the time. he says i lack social skills because i'm on the computer "too much."

he's not around when i'm not on the computer and doing other things.

but yet i am still on the computer too much according to him.

i fight back all the time, but i hate it. i hate him.

i cant stand this anymore.

i want out.

due to his working situation i dont see him except for some weekends. (my parents arent divorced).

when he tries to punish me, he fails. he really cant. i have more power than he does in our family.

i'm 14, extremely mature and intelligent, if i do say so myself.

i dont want to kill him (in my head i do, on paper it doesnt look so good) but i'd like some way to come to peace with him.

i am NOT going to shut up and stop being opinionated however.
any advice on what i should do?

I'd see a counsler for it.No matter how much you say you hate him. Just because he is your dad, there will always be a side of you that loves him. Just see a counsler and try to work things out with him.

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i like one of my friends and wanna be more
and i dont know what to do can u please healp
oh yeha weve known each other for about 2 years


signed
i want him

Tell him how you feel.But let him know that you don't want to ruin the friendship.

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