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Q: There is this guy at my school that I really really like. and he likes me to. But he does pot and I am totally against drugs. what should I do?

If your against it dont go out with him or try to go out with him. Find someone new...that doesnt do drugs. Cuz if you do go out with him, you'll probably end up doing drugs orrr he might not like you if you try to make him stop.

Q: I used to cut myself. Don't worry I don't do it anymore but I was wondering if any one knew how to cover up or get rid or the scars. Because one day while I was in school this kid Joe saw them and started making fun of me. I can't help what I did and i'm tired of him saying things to me , and for me to always having to hide them from everyone in fear that people will thing im weird. Thank you in advance! xoxo - KrIsSy*

Just put concealer on them(Like makeup concealer). If you go to MAC, you can get this cover up that covers anything..even tatoo's! But its probably expensive since its MAC. If you dont wanna buy MAC just go to target or walmart and buy cheap concealer.

Q: ok, so my geometry teacher resigned right before exams and she said she would do anything to help me pass. But guess wat. i didnt. i fail the semester and the exam. I am screwed. i am not gonna be able to get in to a college with my grades. and my PSAT scores SUCKED ASS. I need help PLEASE!!!!

If you dont go into a university at first because of your grades, you can always look into a comunity college. Go there for 2 years, and transfer to a university your junior year. Not many people stick to this plan of community college/university..but if you put 100% into it.. you can do it!

Q: okay so my 2 ex best friends are comming to my house...and 2 of my other best friends house's to T.P. us BADLY!!! i know this for a fact because ive got resources...ANYWAYS...me and my 2 friends who are supposedly getting t.p.ed too are gonna call the cops on them...they have put us through so much crap the past few weeks so this is just our lil pay back!! do you think its to much? if you think that maybe it IS beecause i might want them to be friends with me again one day...trust me thats NOT gonna happen!!
-x0x-

Wait the person above me is right. Cops dont do anything. Maybe you should do something to the front yard..like soak it with water and stuff and when they step into it..yeah. Or do something to where they'll get messy and stuff! Think of ideas..good luck

Q: hey u kno how ppl have upside down question marks? an exclamation points! well i wasnt to kno how they turn them upside down i rate high thanks

ok well for the upside down exclamation points its just a lower case i. For example "He's so hott ii" haha

Q: I've heard many times the "You'll know when you're ready" line. I was wondering, HOW do you know when you're ready to lose your virginity?

When your in love with the guy and when he didnt push you into having sex with him...just when you know hes the one you want to lose it to because you'll always remember him! Because hes that special...I'm guessing your a girl so yeah.

Q: I really really like this guy, adn he says he likes me too. Every night he says he loves me, but I know he likes this other girl a little bit too. Why isn't he asking me out? He knows How much I like him and he likes me too so he says. Whats the deal?

-signals are confusing me-

Maybe he's waiting to see who he likes more. You or her. Or if hes seeing if you have anything in common and if your connecting and stuff. Just be patient!

Q: Okay hey Sherry Its abby from GOG(idc if ppl know).anyways...I really like a guy at my church. His name is TJ and he's a junior and I'm an 8th grader but I mean..he's like a very...unaware guy b/c he's a Christian, which is why he is so pure. Well I don't know if he likes me or not because my friends at church say he stares at me during youth devotions but Idk I mean.. that'd be cool because we have the same values but I'm not sure how to make this work..he's not very forward and I am but I don't want to make him feel uncomfortable.. what should I do??

Well, since hes a junior I dont think he'd be very intrested. I mean, his friends would laugh at him and be like "dude, your going out with a 8th grader.." i know he shouldent care what people think but guys think thats really important. Besides, thats 4 years! Since hes christian you can still go for it..just be friends..talk to him more and more..and give off hints that you like him..and see if he asks you out! Good luck:)

Q: hey i need help my boyfriend and me have been going off and on for 2 years now.he is alwyas like i will call you back and never does. and another thing is that we have only like kissed not made- out and i am normally have had done that but not with him he is like scared or something lol but please tell me what i should do

Well first of all just ask him why he never calls back and tell him if hes not gonna call back he shouldent say he is. And for making out, I think you should just go for it. When your kissing start making out with him and see how he reacts. he shouldent be scared...good luck!!

Q: what do i do if i like a guy but i am going out with this other guy but i have cheated on the one i am going out with. with that other dude but i dont no what to say to the guy i wont to break up with what do i do¿?

Just tell him straight up that you like someone else and that you want to break up. You can leave the cheating part out if you want to. Your not supposed to have a magic saying or anything just tell him what happened and that its over:)

Q: how do you become a moderator?

You have been a member for a month and your average rating is a 4 or higher..pretty easy!

Q: ok lately my boyfriend has been telling me hell call me back in 10 minutes...and he wont for like 3 hours...i know things come up and ive talked to him but he still does it...we were on the phone pretty late last night an d he was like hey can i call u right back?? and i was like ok and we hung up...and he never called back...he still hasnt called...im supposed to call him @ 12:30 and we were goning to make plans..but i dont know if i should just call ..or if i should just do what he does to me and not call him....but the thing is i dont know if his dad said he couldnt call me back last night...because it was pretty late...what do i do??

Call him, make plans, and when you guys have your date talk to him about it. Just be like "You know you dont call back when you say you will..and i wanna know why" stuff like that...if he wont tell you or gives lame excuses..i think you should just like walk away or something...if hes still being a jerk break up with him!

Q: How old do you think a girl has to be to sleep over at their boyfriends house, say if their boyfriend was the same age or 1 year older?

16+ But it all depends on how comfortable you are with sleeping over your boyfriends house!

Q: can level 2 moderators see who asks each question?

Yup, which is pretty cool...haha I'm a level 1 and we cant see who asks questions but yeah level 2's and 3's

Q: there is a boy who i like SOOOO MUCH lol. were in the same grade! in the same homeroom too and some classes! well yeah the other day he came over and put his hand on mine while i was at my locker and was like get away from my locker.. he always sits w me and he said my b day and his were the best 2 days ever! this may sounds corney but its so cute! =] lol. well we have all thesejokes and for the past 2 or 3 weeks weve like done everything together at school! we talk online and then the other day he was only gona go to school if i did. everyday he comes over at lunch and he bumps into me in the hall by accident. one of my bffe asked him who he liked lets say my name is lisa and then another girl is marcia he said marica and lisa!!! =] then she asked him like the next day or w\e and he said only marica(not me) well the days after that in school he was like flirting more then ever! he told me he was only going to schoool one day if i did but i didnt and he did.. whoops! he hasnt asked me out yet but the same friend asked when he would and hesaid i duno.. what should i do?

Well I think he really likes you but doesnt want to say anything. You need to flirt more and show him throuh your actions that you like him..compliment him on his looks, touch him a lot...etc...if he still isint asking you out..why dont u ask him out...he might like that you took charge and didnt wait for him..who knows! good luck!

Q: I love having sleep overs they are so much fun but sometimes I wish that I could have them where i live and not feel nervous becuase i live in an apartment. No one has ever said anything bad about living in an apartment but where i live thei rare very few and everyone i know lives in a house well most people do. I get embarresed when people come over becuase i kno they think that im poor and everything and they dont expect it becuase i always buy expensive and really nice stuff pluss clothes because my mom has more money to give me than when we used to live in a house . Should i be ashamed of this?

Nope. An apartment may not seem like much but to a lot of people an apartment would be a mansion! You just need to be thankful that you at least have something..a roof over your head, clothes on your back, food...but if your friends judge you by what you live in their hoes and sluts. because thats messed up..but i doubt any of your friends will be mean once they find out you live in an apartment

Q: Can somebody help me.. everytime i put a picture on my column.. I can see it.. but noone else can.. this is bothering me!! please help!! If you can take me step thru step.. give me your sn or sumin.. lol cuz im so lost!

iliner obsession is my aim sn :)

Q: How do you put music in your column, like, not MIDI, like starlightmks. I can't find a site that has the music with like, the person actually singing. Thanks in advance. I rate 5's for effort.

Music is not allowed. Even though some people do have music, its not allowed..so yeah.

Q: does ne one know the real way to lose weight??

Eat right, and exercise regularly!

Q: when i signed up for this this morning i didnt read the contract..i just hit ok...now i am wondering if this costs money??? can anyone tell me if it does???

Nopee! If you have to pay for it, their would have to be somewhere in the registration on how you pay for it. Dont worry its for free but their is a paid account!!