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ok do u think its bad like if u go with ur best guy friend 2 tha movies like kuz hes datin a a grl and she alwayz brings a friend so wuld it be wrong if he invited me and went i mean she knos were bffz and all but i jsut think she might get mad but im not 4 sure like if it wuld look bad or wutnot...??

I dont think its a bad thing, my best friend is a guy and i used to bring him to the movies wid my ex and me. Its ok you guyz are just friends and if she knows that then its good.She would prolly have more trust for you to, to be together alone if she knew you more. So go to the movies with them and have fun.

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Alright well first of all.. I'm 16/female.. if you needed that info to help me out or whatever

Well.. last night I was over at my friend caitlin's house and we got bored so we walked around the corner and met up with some friends(rachel,chrus,anthony,katie) and we were hangin out talkin and what not.. and then we decided to walk back to rachels house.. so we're walkin and talkin and I'm a smart ass.. and someone said somethin stupid so i made a remark about it.. ya know? but chris stares at me and laughs.. like nto staring bad way.. just staring.. but yeah.. then we're back at rachels and chris wanted to swim so he strips down to his boxers and jumps in.. hah it was cute.. but anywhos.. the whole time when we're all sittin out there talkin I would look over and catch chris lookin at me.. I mean it feels like there's somethin there.. but I don't know.. I mean.. he's an awesome kid.. I'd like for there to be somethin there but I don't know.. I mean he's a grade younger than me.. but he's not immature and sldflk I don't know.. I wanna get to know him better to see if there is something there and everything.. but he's not one of the people that I hang out with all the time.. so what do i do?

Thanks a bunch

It seems like he has a little thing going on for you. I think you should maybe ask for his phone number or sn or just ask him if he wants to hang out sometime. When you guyz starting beign friends tell him how you feel and that you want something to be there between you to, he will understand, an he prolly has the same feelings for you.

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When I was 12 years old, I was raped, and became pregnant. I never told my daughter how she was conceived. She is 13 years old, and I just found out that she's pregnant. Her boyfriend's father kicked him out of his house as a result. Abortion is out of the question. We have to decide whether my daughter and her boyfriend will raise the baby themselves or allow me to adopt the child. So I have three questions.

1. How do I tell my daughter the truth about how she was conceived?

2. Should I allow her boyfriend to move in with us, and if so, is it okay to make them sleep in seperate rooms? (His only other option is to move out of the country with his mother.)

3. Do you think it would be better for my daughter to raise her child or should I adopt the baby? (I was unable to have any other children.)

Sorry so long, but any advice would be appreciated.

i think that you should let your daughter and her boyfriend raise the child they may need help a little bit, but they did bring the child in to this life. I also think that it would be better if you let them move in together an let them share a room, then they would see that they made a mistake of making a child an taking care of it at such a young age.They might fight after awhile but this baby wil bring them closer together.

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I have a wedding to go to in about..a month in a half and I need a skirt like knee lenthy kinda wavy and layered kind of skirt solid color i prefer maybe with a little design i dont care but anyways do you guys know any sites online to order cute skirts and shirts to go with it and a cute shoe site with high heels or sandals too. thanks so much!

I dont know if some of these have skirts on them but i know most of them do...Maybe you'll like em i do!

www.alloy.com
www.abercrombie.com
www.gap.com
www.aero.com

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does anyone know of any good websites with aim icons that are cute...not the dolls or original gay ones but cute ones??

these are some of the ones i go to..

www.imbum.com
www.aicons.com
www.iconator.com
www.adollz.com

Hope i helped!

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ok u people here on advicenators r my last help! not even my mom understands wat im goin through. well my boyfriend and i have been datin for a while and well now he's startin to scare me.
he's gettin very obsessive and im so scared that if i break up with him(which i want to) he's gonna do something crazy(kill himself or hurt me) the worst part is if he ever found out i liked his best friend he's gonna get very violent....i dont kno what to do!!! i try avoiding him but he gets madder and wonders if i dont like him..he told me that if i broke up with him he WILL kill himself

help me plzzz..no one understands i have no1 2 talk 2

You need to leave him. You deserve much better then that. No gurl should have to deal with a boyfriend trying to hurt her or him self. break up with him and tell someone like the police or even a school teacher or something about him saying the stuff he says to you. Chances are he wont kill him self, he might be saying that so you dont leave him. About the whole thing about you liking his best friend, Maybe you should leave that out for a couple months till things cool down between you and him. hope i helped!

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hey guyz i just had sex for the first time but it totally didnt hurt! n the guy was pretty big so i was expecting it to. it was just like uncomfortable but didnt hurt at all. um i was wonderin if i could have still popped my cherry ? kk thanx

Your cherry could of been popped before you had sex. That might be the reason why it did not bleed.Your cherry can be poped in many different ways. If you ride horses do alot of sports or anything like that it can pop on its own an you wouldnt be able to feel it an it would not of bled.Thats prolly what happened for you. Or Maybe he didnt pop it because he wasnt all the way inside you or something. It all depends on how it was done an if he was big enough to do it.Hope i helped get back at me at.

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