about

hey everyone!
im belle.
i absolutely LOVE giving advice, it has to be one of my favorite things to do. feel free to ask me anything. i will try my best, and i wont judge anyone. i know that everyone has rough times and things that they go through in their lives, as i do also. everyone is important. and i will try my best to treat you that way through my advice. if i say something that you don't agree with, then im very sorry. but remember that you are asking for advice... there isn't a right or wrong answer. it goes by opinion. and i'll try my best to make you love mine. thanks!
**BeLLe**

advice

how do i work out my calves(?) and legs at home? i want to make my thighs muscular, but bigger and i don't have the time to go to the gym to lift any wieghts.

thanks!!!

Well running can help a lot....that is what I do to work out all of my leg muscles. Here are some web sites you can look up for calve workouts...

http://www.betterbodz.com/calves/seated_calf_raises.html

http://en.mimi.hu/fitness/calves.html

http://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/calvwork.htm

I hope these websites help you out!

**BeLLe**



[view]


I'm 15/f

I have a relatively small room. How can I make it seem bigger [i.e. mirrors]? I want to make the most out of it too. Thank you

Well, here are some tips that will *hopefully!!* help...

*If you have a rectangular room, put your bed against one of the shorter sides of the room.
*Paint with bright colors
*Keep the clutter away...DoNt MaKe MeSsEs!! (thats probably the hardest part...for me too)
*Use mirrors...the really tall mirrors help a lot.
*Try eliminating some of the stuff from your room, such as Dressers, or stuff that you dont use anymore.

I hope i helped you out!

**BeLLe**

[view]


ok so my best friend in the whole world (we'll call him N) tried to kill himself..like his dad beats him and his mom and his little sister and he thinks its his fault (EVEN THO ITS NOT!!) and he was found this morning in his bed with a bottle of pain killers and they found razor cuts on his hands..and like me and him are really close, like weve been threw A LOT together and i usually know how to comfort him but..not this time because really..thats how i feel..so how can i comfort my best friendd??!!

O my gosh! That is sooo sad! This can be really hard to go through... but just make sure that you dont ever stop being his friend... he needs you right now. It might be hard, but you need to let him know that it isn't his fault, don't let him believe that. If it is really that serious then I think that you should confront him and tell him that he needs to tell someone, maybe even just a school counselor or someone. He really needs to let it out, instead of keeping all of the pain to himself. He shouldn't have to live in an invironment like that, so if he won't let you tell anyone, then you probably should be a good friend and tell someone for him. It's for the best. Have you told your parents about it? Maybe they can help you out a bit. I hope I helped!

**BeLLe**

[view]


14/f
i have never been in a play. i've been cast in 2 though. but i REALLY want to act. every time i watch a show on disney i wish i was on the t.v. i would like to LOOK INTO(not making a commitment) becoming an actress. i know it sounds dumb. and i will tell my parents me dream eventully but i want to see what it will take. any ideas how to start.-dont tell me to ask my parents or wait till i'm older please, thank you in advance.

OMG! I love acting! I know you said not to ask your parents, but I think they would really help. It can be pretty hard to start up in this stuff all by yourself. If not your parents, then find someone else that can help you out. But what you need to do is find an agent. It costs money *one of the reasons you need your parents* and you need to make a profile of yourself, and whenever they need someone that is 14, or has the same color hair as you, or someone as tall/short as you, they will call you to come try out for the part. I know several people that have signed up for agents and they have been in commercials and T.V. shows and all that fun stuff. But to find an agent, like I said, you probably need someone older to help you. But you can start into acting now! You totally don't need to wait until you're older. I know someone that was in a commercial and they were only two years old! Well, I hope this helps you out a little!

**BeLLe**

[view]


who sings that song that goes "Sara beth is scared to death" i dont know the rest...
thanks

Rascal Flatts sings it. The song is called "Skin" OMG! I love that song! It's sooooo sad!!

http://mp.aol.com/video.index.adp?pmmsid=1427325&referer=http%3A//music.aol.com/artist/main.adp%3Fartistid%3D429157&mode=1

Copy and paste that website in to see the music video!

**BeLLe**

[view]


i usually either straighten, scrunch, where up, where down, do a half ponytail, with my hair.

i think it's getting boring :[ lol. any how-to styles or sites that have some new stuff for hair? mine is about one inch past my shoulders. thx for any help

Well, I feel the same way... I either have it straight, put it in a ponytail, wave my hair, or occasionally curl it. But you could always get a 3-barrel roller...*a thing that makes your hair wavy* I think its adorable when people do their hair like that. You could always curl your hair. On days that you dont feel like taking much time on your hair, just pull it into a ponytail and then put it in a messy bun. I love it when people have their hair like that. Or you could just add on to how you already do your hair.....scrunch it and then put it into a ponytail...or pigtails...that would be so cute! I'm sure it would look gorgeous any way that you decide to do it!! Hope I helped!

**BeLLe**

[view]


To make a long story short, I hate my dad. He is horrible. He does not let me go out with my friends and he has sudden outburts with me. He calls me a fucking bitch and constanly curses at me. He is extremely over pretocetive and we do not talk very much. I cannot talk to him or tell him how I feel because he will automatically not want to talk with me because no matter what, he thinks he is right.

Well, I dont think that you should hate him. Your dad is probably just really stressed out and under a lot of pressure. That is why he is always cursing at you and everything. I don't want to sound like your parent when they say "he just isn't letting you do much stuff because he loves you..." but i really do think that that is what it is. If he is overprotective of you, then he is just worried that something might happen to his child. The best advice I can give you is just... don't yell back at him or anything like that (if you are), and try not to let it get to you, because, like i said, he's probably under a lot of stress. I hope i helped!

**BeLLe**

[view]


I just got my hair cut. It looks like this, but layered, and a little shorter:
http://msnbcmedia.msn.com/j/msnbc/Components/Photos/050531/050531_simpson_bcol.small.jpg

Any ideas on WHAT I can go with it? (I have no idea what I was thinking when I got it cut)
Thanks in advance.

Oh My gosh!! I think you were super smart when you thought of that! That haircut is gorgeous!! I think you could totally just leave it down and it would totally look adorable! Or you could do like sort of tight curls, and OMG....i think it would be sooooo cute! I am so jealous! Well, ya... i think you should leave it down. Trust me, everyone will love it!

**BeLLe*

[view]


What is the average amount of days to have your period?

It actually depends on who you are. Everyone is different. The average time is anywhere from 4-10 days. If you are just starting, then it is going to be a different amount of days every time for about the first year. It could be 2 days the first month and 12 days the second month. It is just because your body isn't used to it yet, so don't be worried about it. Hope i helped!!

**BeLLe**

[view]


In literacy we are doing a descriptive essay in which we are describing our room. My first paragraph needs some help and i've got nobody home to help.
heres the paragraph

My Room
The typical teenage bedroom can be quite horific. The smell that hits your nostrils from the sweaty track clothes and smelly socks. The crumbs from several week old poptarts swim between your toes, and you'll most likely trip over the blankets which are scattered about from last nights slumber party and the tubes of lip stick along with nail polish bottles. Like i said that can be the typical teenage bedroom, and so from that, I can say i don't fit into that cateogory. I'm actually quite different than explained.

please fix the like 2,3,4 senteences. they are like run-ons and i can't fix them. please help!

My Room
The typical teenage bedroom can be quite horrific. There is a smell that hits your nostrils from the sweaty track clothes and smelly socks. There are crumbs from several week-old Pop-tarts swimming between your toes. You'll most likely trip over the blankets which are scattered about from last week's slumber party, along with the tubes of lipstick and nail polish bottles. Like I said, that can be the typical teenage bedroom, and from that I can say say I don't fit into that category. I am actually quite different than explained!

I hope that helped you! It sounds really good, I hope you get a good grade!
**BeLLe**

[view]


what can i do to make my stomach flat and get rid of panhandels/love handels. and how can i make my thighs smaller. thanks

Well, what I do to keep fit is run almost every day. It makes you thinner and, if you do it enough, you can get a toned stomach. When you run, you are excercising your leg muscles too, so that should help your thighs. If you run, it gives you more energy and relieves stress too... which totally helps throughout the day. I do situps, too. If you do it enough, it should make you skinnier. I try to do 50 normal situps, and then 25 to the side. It really helps a lot. Oh, and remember, when you have sore muscles, it means that you are using muscles that you don't normally use, so that's a good thing. But always remember to stretch before you run...trust me! Hope I Helped!

**BeLLe**

[view]


Okay so I'm wanting to get something new. I was thinking about getting some side sweep bangs and having my hair cut into layers.

I've been cursed with very fine hair and I'm looking for something that would make my hair appear fuller and thicker and something that is easy to maintain as I don't have alot of time in the mornings.

If you have any suggestions PLEASE post some pictures that I can bring in to my stylist.

Thanks!

That is a really good idea. I think that you should go with the layers, and if you want to, get bangs. I just barely got my hair cut the same way. My hair always looked really thin, but when i got layers in my hair, it made it look fuller. It should be easier to maintain, since you are getting it cut shorter, and shorter hair is usually easier to maintain. I'm really sorry, because I don't have any pictures to show you, but I think that you have a good idea in mind... and I'm sure that however you do it, it won't look totally horrible. I hope I could help!

**BeLLe**

[view]



<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>

eXTReMe Tracker