Member Since: April 12, 2007 Answers: 145 Last Update: November 27, 2007 Visitors: 7324
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how do i become happy? it seems like everything sucks,my friends dont care (well...i never tell them stuff..but only because i dont want to feel like im complaining) and my family sucks,this town is horrible,and to top it all off im supposed to be going on a feild trip to new york tomarrow,they assigned groups and NONE of my friends are in the group,they're all jerks and annoying =//. i know i sound like i'm complaining,sorry. but how can i over come all this and look on the bright side? how can i become,well..happy? (link)
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ok i can really relate to your situation. because i used to feel the samee exact way i would always say i want new friedns i ahte the ones i had and i hated my whole school/town and all that bull. but like honestly take a step back look at everythign you have. you probley do have the greatest friends imaginable bc i no i do not that i look at them and tell them stuff. and your family just be lucky you have them look at all the kids that dont. like ppl used to always tell me that but then i was thinking about what if my mom died or my dad did think about how you'd feel. and its just one field trip. its not your assigned group for the rest of your life. take the time to be away from your friends bc trust me when your away from them and your with other ppl you dont like you appresiate your friends a hell off alot more. and honestly your friends probley do care. reguardless what they say. and everyones town sucks. mine does its just a little gossip spreading drama town. so i no it looks like you got shit in live but really take a step back and look at what you doooo have instead of what you dont
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I have to make a cd for a class where each song represents something important to me.
I really need help finding good songs.
1. My three best friends, who are like sisters to me. We barely fight, argue a lot, but we all know we'll always be there for eachother when we need. They really have my whole heart and I'd be lost without them.
2. My boyfriend, we've been through a lot of rough times, and a lot of good times. He's basically the only thing that keeps me from breaking down at times. I have a lot of trouble expressing myself to him so i'd like something with a lot of emotion.
thanks! (link)
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ah i wish i had a project like this haha
ok for your boyfriend:
all at once by the fray
our song by taylor swift
tim mcGraw by taylor swift
Stolen by dashboard confessional
hero by Enrique Ignlesias
For your friends:
Time of your life by green day
graduation song by vitam C
thats what friends are for, i forget who sings it
hope i helped
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hey im a guy, 13. If you go onto this website theres a pic of me. Tell me if you like what i look like... www.advicepic1.piczo.com (link)
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your pretty hott. but yeah just curious whyd you ask me
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Well a month or so ago, me and my friend opened some kind of tumes in this small like 8 people cemetary down my road. We didnt see anything
I have no idea why we opened it, just for fun.
Well my mom, aunt, and my friends mom got us for like 2 hours. My aunt called from her house, and pretended she was the mother ( who died and is in the cemetary) and pretended her husband (a captain) and her were coming to kill us. We were so scared, her voice was perfect. My mom knew it was her and went along with it , same with my friends mom.
My friend and i got so scared, she came over and we heard the calls together. It was so scary, when we found out we were cracking up and everything
But in a few weeks ( June 23) Im going to a graduation party( at my aunts house for her daughter) and Its the aunt who waas in on the joke. Im bringing that same friend.
What is some good ideas to prank her back and maybe my mom too.
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ahh pranks = my life. takee shaving cream and put it under the door handle of the car so when then open it it will get all over, also putttiing vasoline on the windowsss
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Hey i'm in 8th grade and i'm graduate this month! I was wondering what are some things i could give my friends for graduation. Something that i could give them as a remembrance you know? Thanks! (link)
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im graduating 8th grade this month to and im just getting my friends a picture frame with a picture of all of us in it
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alright im going to sum up my night and my gf's night, tell me if i did the right thing.
my night:
got stoned with 3 guy friends of mine, had a complete and utter blast, made cupcakes, brownies, played games, watched movies. harmless fun.
my gf's night:
got completely shitfaced with some 3 of her girlfriends, 1 of my other guy friends, and another guy who i dont like. they went skinny dipping, she claims to have covered up and stayed at the opposite end of the pool as the other girls.
how it went down, she called me today told me about her night after i told her about mine, she threw in skinny dipping as if it were no big deal, i then proceeded to tell her that if she did that, then she wouldnt mind if i went skinny dipping with a bunch of girls while she wasn't there. she then said oh but it was only two guys, i then told her that i still dont like the one guy (he grabs her and touches her and is a complete ass to me, so we're in a conflict right now) and that she went skinny dipping with him while they were completely shitfaced, she then tried to blame the alcohol, i asked her who consumed it, and she said that she did (duh), and i asked her whose fault it was.
i hung up and told her i'd talk to her later, due to the fact i dont know what to say.
help me out with what to say when i call her back.
thanks. (link)
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ok if she threw that into the mix she obviously doesnt have anything to hide about it so nothing probley happend w/ them and you say to her. I am not madd at you i am just hurt at the fact that you did that with two other guys, if it was just you and your girlfriends it wouldnt bother me, but the fact that there were guys there bothers me and i would just like you to no how i feel about it.
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every i look theres peple saying oh limewires illegal bla dee bla but i was thinkin the other day if its so illegal why is it still on the internet to be downloaded? surely the gov't would have taken it off by now. also its not illegal to send songs through msn and isnt limewire just like msn but on a much larger scale its all file sharing (you can chat with people on limewire btw if ya didnt know :P) so whats exaclty classed as illegal from limewire because the only decent excuse i can think of is its ok to download as long as you dont broadcast it on like public TV (link)
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yeah limewire is illegal , why im not 100% sure but one of my friends got caught with it and she had like a $2,000 fine. most people use it still though , my aunt whos a lawyer and her husband have it and her husbands a state troopper. so its not a super huge deal if you have it
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I just want to get big i am a running back for my football team. I lift all the time everyday in school but nothing seames to work what should i do? (link)
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eat protien barrsss exspecially before you work out
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riiight i need a bit of advice, girls your the only people who can help. i love my gf to bits but she keeps like having loads of mood swing i know the period n all that but its not that:S she keeps having loads of mood swings and everything is ok with her family and all that i dunno what it is. so girls do you get like this at times?? and if so why:S its personal yeh but i could realy do with the help. thanks very uch:) (link)
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oh god story of my life. i alwaysss get like that. not having enough sleep, someone like a friend saying somethinng can make me bitchy an entire night. most girlsss are like that though they can go from like 0 to 100 in like 10 seconds but dont work its not you. its just a girl thing.
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I am 15/f, 5'3", 120 pounds. I'm not looking to lose weight or anything. However, I do have a problem with my biceps- I'm right handed, so I mainly lift stuff with my right arm. Both of my biceps are already really big (embarassingly big, but I can't help it), but my right bicep is noticeably bigger than my left. This looks kind of weird whenever I wear tank tops. Is there anything I can do to even them out? Should I lift weights with my left arm? I don't really want my biceps to get bigger than they already are, but I have to do a lot of heavy lifting at work. Also, I have to buy a bigger size in long sleeved shirts because my arms don't fit, and it sucks! Is there anything I can do to even out my arms, and is there any clothing style I can wear that will kind of downplay my biceps? Thank you all so much! (link)
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when you go to lift heavy stuff lift it with your left arm instead of your right, so your right arm might get a tad weaker bc its not doing to work and your left might get a little stronger.
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everbody(even guys) keeps asking me who i like,but i actully dont like anyone....
how do i get them to stop asking without me having to find someone? (link)
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i have that same situation , like i dont like anyone and everyone asks me and there like ohh you have to like someone and i just say like noo i dont like no joke guys are gay. and that usally works haha
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So.. tomorrow im going to my boyfreinds hockey game.. it's indoor (well, duh) and so.. i don't know what to wear..
something cute..but something i wont die in outside (keep in mind, todays high is 89 [i live in PA, west side]), but iw ant something that.. if he indroduces me to his hockey friends i wont look like a whore.
:]tahnks. (link)
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ok well im a girl and i play hockey, so im kindof used to the whole rink thing but yeah deppending on just how cold the rink is bc some or colder then others you can wear jeans, a long sleeve shirt and probley just bring a sweatshirt bc if it is really cold in there you can put that on.
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this might not be the best place for this question and im sorry. but im 5'5" and i hate it! my dad is really tall and my mom is 5'8". how do i keep myself from growing. people say vegies help you grow so do i not eat vegies (bc i do eat alot of vegetables) so could someone help me. (link)
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i went through the sammeee exact thing you are. i am curently 5'7 im fourteen , ive been pretty much this tall for the past 2 years ive grown a couple inches at most. and i no right now you feel so akward bc your taller then EVERYONE. but trust me everyone catchs up to you girl always hit puperty before guys and thats why most girls are taller then boys until there around 14,15,16 soo basically just wait it out ppl will catch up.
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Basically I just need a quick confidence boost from any girls out there that read this. I just want your opinion of me based on my description and tell me if your a girl would you like me or not. I am 5'10" and 150 pounds. The weight is solid muscle not that much body fat. I enjoy playing sports. I am a quarterback in football and play tennis pretty well. I drive a mustang and dress casually yet I guess what you could call preppy. I have black hair, brown eyes, and perfect white teeth. Please I just need a quick confidence boost for when I flirt with girls please send me your comments. Thanks. (link)
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haha. im wondering why you need a confidence boost, bc quite honestly you sound pretttty friggen hott and you dont have anything to worry about hahahha , ps i am a girl.
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Does anybody know of any good songs that have to do with saying goodbye to somebody who has made a difference in your life. Not necessarily a lover, but more like a role model... I know it's hard, but if anyone can think of anything that might go, please list! Thank you! (link)
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um wind beneath my wings by bette midler
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What traits do girls look for in guys? What would your ideal guy be like? (link)
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every girl is different but personally i look for guys that are
nice
sweet
not afraid of showing there true feelings
not embarrsed
will make the first move
funny
and that would be my ideal guy.
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I got rubber bands for an overbite on my braces 2-3 days ago..and got my braces tightened. How long will it take to get used to the rubber bands? They still hurt. (link)
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i got rubber bands for my underbite a week and a half a go and got my braces tighted and im just starting to get used to it.
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This will be long and I apologize, but it's a long story. I have good grammar, I promise. :] (and yes, this is about a guy)
Me = 18/f
Him = 17/m
Ok, we'll start 2 years ago where it all began. His name is Drew and I forget how I met him hahah. But we had lunch together and we slowly started liking each other. We would feed each other french fries and flirt a lot and everyone kept saying "Why don't you guys just go out?" and we'd just look at each other and laugh. We had an AIM conversation in which we basically told each other we liked each other and he asked me to the Snowball. As it turned out, they cancelled it. :[ And nothing else really happened that year, except the same old flirting. At this point, he usually wore a black t-shirt and jeans and had a longer haircut. Not a lot-long, it was above his shoulders and kinda wavy.
Now we get into last year. I hadn't talked to him all summer and when I came back to school, I was surprised to find that he cut his hair short and kinda spiky and dressed completely preppy. I didn't talk to him much during the first couple of months. Then Homecoming was coming around and I know guys are supposed to ask girls, but I ended up asking him, because we sort of starting talking again (as in saying "hey" in the hallway and stuff). But he already had a date. Obviously, I was a bit crushed and ended up just going w/ 4 of my friends. I got to talk to him once during the dance and got a cute pic of him, but then I left to go hang out w/ my friends. We went out in the courtyard to hang out and eat popcorn and I started crying and saying how much I wanted him. Pathetic, I know, but it was how I honestly felt. After that, we hardly talked much the rest of the year. He was hanging out w/ a different group of friends, but we still had the occasional "hey" in the hallway.
Now the most recent and confusing paragraph hahah. This is this school year. Again, we didn't talk much during the first few months. At the time, I had a boyfriend of 4 months, but we broke up because he told me he was bi, and I wasn't comfy w/ that, if you know what I mean. I'm not a homophobe if that's what you're thinking, it was just weird dating him after that. So almost as soon as I broke up w/ him, I went out w/ another guy, but it didn't last long. I also requested to be Drew's friend on myspace, but we never commented on each other's profiles or anything. Then, out of the blue, he sent me a comment saying "This might sound weird, but I actually kind of miss you". Cute, rite? So we started commenting back and forth and he gave me his number and told me to call him. I did, and for not talking in practically forever, it wasn't awkward at all. He even started talking about the past and how he wondered if we would have dated, had the dance not been cancelled. He got kind of excited and was like, "You wanna go out now?" And we started laughing and then we're like, "Wait, we just started talking hahah". So after that, we texted nonstop for 3 days straight and it was really nice. He told me he had a number of crushes, but that the biggest one was me. I thought maybe we had a chance to go out. Then we started talking about going out and he said that there was only one thing holding him back. And it was because of my friends. A couple of them are gay (a guy and girl) and some are kind of annoying (I'm not the most popular person, but I do love my friends hahah) And he said that his friends made fun of my friends sometimes and he was afraid of what they would say if he went out w/ me. Kind of egotistical rite? Like I said, he had a different group of friends now who were more popular and I guess it got to his head. It pretty much pissed me off, but I didn't say anything, just that I understood. But after that, we stopped talking again. Except when he saw me in the hallway, he would always smile and say "hey". And we gave each other the occassional pic comment on myspace (He always said I was cute and all). That was around December. So from December until the end of April, we would sometimes say "hey" in the hallway and have the occassional nice times when we got to talk for a little bit, like at the school musical (He was in it, and I was an usher w/ some of my friends). Then prom came around (May 4). Near the end of the night, he asked me to dance (I was ecstatic hahah but didn't let it show). It was really nice, but then he had to go, so he gave me a hug said good-bye and smiled. A couple weeks went by, in which not much happened.
Now the final phase of this question. A little less than a week ago, I had a dream about him. To keep it short, at one point, he asked for a hug, so I hugged him and he gave me a kiss on the cheek (a very nice one, I might add ;]). I flipped out, once I woke up and discovered it was only a dream. And now, ever since then, I've been going crazy. It's like my feelings for him exploded, like an exponential growth, if that makes sense. I've been going crazy this past week, crying when I think about him. It's so bad. I have no idea what to do, and even prayed to God about it (although I've got no answer yet). Saturday night, though, we had another "moment" if you want to call it that. I went to the chorus concert, because a lot of my friends are in it. I came in really late, because of work, so I ended up setting against the wall in the back. I watched him and I almost started crying and I couldn't stop shaking. Once it was over, I went backstage to find my friends. I saw the usual, gave them hugs, and told them good job and all. Then Drew saw me and gave me kind of a half-hug and said hi. I went to talk to my friend Sam after that. He came back and hugged me again. And then he said it wasn't long enough and that we would have to do it again hahah. So we hugged a third time and started talking again (needless to say, I can't remember a THING we talked about). So then he left for a bit and came back wearing a viking hat w/ blonde pigtail braids on it. Being weird I guess. So I was like, "Wow.. that's attractive." So we laughed for a bit, but I had to go, so he hugged me again (:D). Today, I had finals, so our schedules were all screwed up, and I never got a chance to see him.
I casually commented him today about the viking hat, and he was online at the time, but never commented me back. :[
So of course, I'm very sad right now. My mom and friends think I might be in love, but I think that's a strong word. All I know is, I REALLY like this boy. It's killing me knowing I'm not w/ him right now. I'm freaking out. I graduate next Thursday. Tomorrow is my last day of finals and Wednesday is the senior's last day of school. I'm afraid if I don't do something now, nothing will ever happen. I'm afraid of not seeing him ever again. I feel like I can't live w/o him. I don't know what to do. I'm afraid if I tell him how I feel, he'll either not say anything back, or reject me, which I know I can't handle. I can't tell if he likes me or not. I'm pretty sure he does, from the way we texted back in December and some of the things that he said. But he's sending me mixed signals and I have no idea what to think or what to do. Please help me, I don't know what to say to him or what to do. And he's REALLY FREAKING CUTE!! HELPPP!!!
Thanks in advance, sorry this was so long, but I feel like I needed to tell you everything in order for you to understand more. :/ I know I've left things out, but it's long enough already. If you need more info, let me know.
Signed,
Lost and Confused. :/ (link)
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ok i think tell him how you feel no matter how hard you might think that is because your a senior your graduating this year so its basically no or never. you dont want to leave this year with any regrets bc if you dont say anything no you dont want to look back 5 years from now and say what if i just asked him if he felt the same. and about his whole friend situation you guys are graduating its not gonna be the same whole high school situation where different 'cliques' arent supposed to 'mix' so to wrap it up dont hold back tell him how you feel. hope i helped =]
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I'm getting obsessed with pretzels. I have about 1/4 to 1/3 of a bag a day. Are pretzels a healthy snack choice or are they not? What if you like to dip them lightly in mustard?
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depends the ones with salt are sorta healthy not the bestttt thing for you but the ones with out salt deffentaly are a better choice exspecisally if you gonna dip them in mustard
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what if i was kidding around with my friend but they are one of the sensative types that don't always take the joke in the right way and i got yelled at by her first so today i said this word that they always say a lot over and over again, and now they're mad at me and won't let me appologize what should i do? (link)
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then your friends a bitch who needs to grow up and get over herself hahahaha. if she wont let you appologize then shes being immature about it, like really. so just tell her that being like your being immature im trying to say im sorry but you wont listen so fuck you hahah jk dont say the last part. but like if she wont listen to you just write her a note explaining how you feel.
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