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14/f
For so long I've been wanting a boyfriend. One of my friends always gets a boyfriend when she wants one. She is pretty and nice, she is smart. I'm different from other people in my group of friends. All of us are different. I'm kinda shy but I can be outgoing if I actually talk to a person more. But I've had 3 boyfriends which was like 2 years ago. Now I don't even think boys like me. Some have called me hot and all that but seriously. I think I will never get a boyfriend. Is is like weird to be thinking this? I know what most people will say. The right guy will come. But I want to at least know what its like to have a boyfriend since it was when I was in 7th grade I hardly remember anything. I don't think I'm really ugly and I'm not really skinny either. Is the reason my friend gets a boyfriend is because of the way she looks at acts? She is more of "emo" type girl but really pretty. I dress in brighter colors and I don't know. I just want to know if there is any chance or if I'm too weird or something thats making this hard for me. Maybe I'm just losing it or something. But this has been on my mind for a very long time. (link)
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i actually know exactly what you mean and have the same issue.
good luck!
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What are some songs about doing what you know is best for you even though it hurts like hell? (link)
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i hate this part ---- pcd
walk away---- gabriella hsm2
me against the world--- simple plan
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i lied to my boyfriend '
about getting him a dog'
im post to have one buy tommrow'
what do i do' (link)
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first of all why would you lie about getting hima dog?
ummm say you bot one but found out it was sick and had to give it back.
or that it was highly alergic
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Basically, a friend and I became really close to eachother. We'd been friends for a few months, but that was it. And then the new semester started and we just started talking a lot more, calling each other at night, and texting, too. (this occured around the beginning of January). So every weekend, we would go out with each other. Basically just the two of us. I started to crush on him, and I thought possibly that he was crushing on me. However, the first weekend in February he said he didn't want a relationship right now. I knew this already (even though I hoped he'd change his mind) because of a phone conversation we had late one night in January. Well, I accepted us just being friends and we continued with our friendship as if everything were normal. The next weekend was Valentine's Day and we rented a movie and watched it at his house. At first, it started as the two of us next to eachother on the couch, then he grabbed my hand and we were holdiing hands. Soon, I was laying against him (trying to not fall asleep). I really liked it, it was romantic and he was so sweet and caressing my fingers. But a week ago he'd said he didn't want a relationship. So of course I was a bit confused, yet I let it slide. The next week went by and he'd told his friends we were BF/GF and he was going to "officially" ask me out.We went out again that Friday night. Eventually, it came to the point where we were making out in the backseat, something I swore I'd never do. I'd also made a promise to remain virtuous until marriage so that was avoided that night. But what makes me mad, is at the end of that night, he said "I just want to be friends, I don't want a relationship. I'm sorry for leading you on for so long." It made me wonder if all he wanted was sex even though at the start of our friendship, our friendship, we'd both talked about how we believed in no sex until marriage. We agreed to still be friends after that night, but I was so angry at him that I told him I'd need time. The next week was a little awkward and we didn't talk much. But that Friday he wanted to hang out, and I said I was busy. I guess I kept a grudge because it seems I was always the one to start getting angry. And after that, anytime we talked we always ended up arguing. It finally got to the point where, he said "I don't know why I ever kissed you" and I replied with "I'm sorry I somehow screwed everything up and for everything I ever did to you. I'm sorry I thought we could still be friends. I don't know what I did. before I make things worse, happy early birthday." We had made plans a long time ago to go out for his birthday. Obviously that never happened. And we'd also made plans to go to his prom, which is in one week (4/25). And that's not happening either. Recently, it's been somewhat easier to talk to him (if you can call it a conversation if it's simple questions with simple answers) because we're working on an assignment as a group for banquet. He still says we're friends. He says he likes to tease me. I'm no longer mad at him, angry at him, or hate him. I want to be friends, he was my best guy friend! I guess I'm trying to figure out if it's time for me to let him go and stop crushing on him (because I've still got unreceding feelings for him, no matter what I do) or if we can at least be friens, if there's something still there. I just don't know anymore. I really don't know what's the best thing to do in a situation like this. (link)
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wow that really sucks im sorry.
something similar happened to me and its hard to know when they actually mean what they say.
but you have to realize that its beena while since that insedent and he was probably confused about his feelings for u and didnt mean to hurt you. i hope u can forgive but also make it clear that what he did was not okay.
good luck!
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Hey, i was the girl that asked this question - http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=561649
Well, now ryan is complaining that i have been hooking up with half of the guys in my school, which isnt true at all. i have only hooked up with about 8 guys since he has broken up with me. and most of them out of depression.. he starts SCREAMING at me, that im a slut.
i didnt state this in my last question but i am 16 and i am a sophmore, and he is 18 and is a senior.
Ryan-
lol ur rediculous....go ahead hook up with every1 and be slut
he imed that to me this morning on ichat. i got a text from him at 1 am last night
"Ryan- soo.. you hook up with jake 45 minutes after i broke up with you. coool."
like, mature much?
heres another one-- ryan: "you say you wanna get back together. you say your waiting. but all i see is you hooking up with one guy after the other. i dont like being lied to. ontop of that, you get mad and upset whenever you hear im getting with someone else.. when your getting with like half the school."
me: "im not getting with half the school. i cant talk now im out with people"
ryan: "laura, dont even try to deny anything. just stop lying its pathetic. have fun mackin it with whoever you are with."
me: "erite,, maybe i will"
ryan: "goodbye"
me: "oh, im pretty sure i never said i was waiting, i said the opposite. and then im pretty sure you were never going to ask for me backkk sooo... whatever"
ryan: "maybe i was... ever think of that?"
me: "HAHAHA nope"
he texts me later that night
ryan: "im gunna ask you something right now, and if you dont answer it truthfully ill know. dont bother trying to cover your ass so im not mad.. because if you lie i promise you its over for good and ill never talk to you ever again. just tell me the truth and maybe ill still talk to you. how many people have you hooked up with since we broke up?"
me: i told you.. im over my texting. call me if you care that much.
ryan: for 50 cents i think this is worth it.
me: alright.. 5 or 6... maybe 8 guys..
ryan: why do you find it necessiary to lie to me?
me: im not....
ryan: cuz i remember asking you 10 mins ago and you said HAAHA no. this right here laura.. is why we cant get back together anytime soon. all i keep hearing is im sorry. and you lying constantly.
me: well, sory is all i can say at this point. you have NO buisness in who im with and shit now, you broke up with me.
ryan: you act like i dumped you for no reason. i was always willing to work things out. and one thing led to another and you hook up with all of these people and tell me all these lies. blah blah blah. apparently you had other plans.."
today. my friend katie calls me up and says "ryan had sex with the girl he cheated on you with"
i go.. really? tahts cool. i dont care. i dont have the tears for it anymore. i dont know how. i just dont... it doesnt hurt me anymore. he is yelling at ME for hooking up with guys.. HOOKING UP? i should punch him in the face for having sex with that girl!
he texts my firend christie saying "BEING SINGLE IS AMAZING I CAN FUCK WHOEVER I WANT! i had no idea what i was missing. im sooo glad i broke up with her." ...immature much? he knew i was with her, thankfully i just droppd her off at her house 10 mins before he texted her....
i dont know what to say to him. but i want to make a closure... a nice, straight forward, a little bit bitchy closure. i deleted him off of facebook already... so, thats a start. i think im just gunna make a huge closure. but i need your help...telling him that i am done.
thank you in advance! :) (link)
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well first of all your boyfriends seems like an asshole.
good for u to be mad at him!
you should say something like " well maybe i hooked up witha few people AFTER we broke up but at least i didnt have sex WHILE we were going out so screw u. "
HAHAHAHAA
goood luck!
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