Hey Guys, I'm Jasmine, I'm sixteen years old,a junior in high school,on student council, a cheerleader, an ambassador, and a very nice person! I hope you guys ask me whatever is on your mind!!!!I hope you have a wonderful day!~~~~Jazz
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Location: Fayetteville, Georgia, EXITING hehe
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do guys ( in general ) prefer small thin and petite girls or tall model type girls ? (link)
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All guys are different. It's not an "in general" thing, but if they are just going to like you because you are small or tall I don't think they are worth it.. be yourself, because you can't really change your appearance much
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this kid i like b4 i met him seemed like this reeally nice kid really umm perfect...he still seems that way he just swears alot...dont get me wrong im notlik goodie tooshoes...but i didnt think he would so im kinda shaky about everything else unless hes changing to sound tough to impress me..idk..? help please (link)
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ooo, let him know how you feel, tell him that it's not really needed, make sure you show that you aren't trying to control him but that it makes you uncomfortable. If he gets mad he's not worth it
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okay here is what is going on..me and this guy ben have been going out for about 2 weeks or so and i really like the kid and he says that he likes me to, but it really dont show..we have only hung out once and the first time i tryed to kiss him he gave me a hug so i was waiting for him to kiss me n he hasent..we go to the same school and everything, we dont talk at school n when i call him not all the time he calls me back..i understand he has football everyday but i mean on the weekends he says he has to do something n then he goes n hangs out wit his boys..but yah i seem like im sounding like a 10 year old about this but we dont ever talk or hang out and your suppose to be wit your special someone alot and everything...what should i do?? please help.thanks (link)
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umm it would really help if I knew how old you were, umm first of all if he's not willing to make a little time for you and he doesn't talk to you something is up. I would tell him how you feel, and if he doesn't change dump him. Everything happens for a reason. Maybe there is another guy who would probably treat you better than this one.
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my cousin is in my school, he made it so easy for me to fit in there and im soo happy for it..he has so much going for him and now he smokes pot like alotttt he didnt as much before..but i really want him to stop b.c my mom and sister are messed up like that and i dont want it to happen to him, hes an amazing soccer player and everything...how can i talk to him or get him to stop w.o sounding like a health freak? (link)
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Well, since you can't go to your Mom or your sister, you need to go to a school counselor or something, someone you trust, try going where he goes, or getting him to hang out with you more so that you can keep an eye on him. You HAVE TO take it to a trustworthy adult who will help you, you can't handle things like this yourself. AND you shouldn't have to. Make sure you tell your cousin that you love him before you do any of this, but don't tell him you are going to do it. Good luck
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i really need help see i can't get in front of people to present a project in front of my class i start sweating and feel like throwing up and i can't breath and everytime i go up to present a project everybody could see that i am nervous because the way my voice sounds if anybody could give me good advice i really really need it or i will be stuck like this forever. i rate high help a person that is in need PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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OK sweets here is what you need to do, first you need to practice in a mirror, then practice in front of your parents, letting them critisize you on what you did wrong, what could be better etc. then make sure you do it in front of your friends. The bigger the crowd the better. You see I act so when i'm on stage there are like hundreds of people and I just always think to myself "you can't see thier faces it's cool" then while you are speaking find a spot behind your audience on the wall and focus on that spot. It even sometimes helps to tell them you are nervous, it helps everyone to kind of loosen up! Don't be scared they are just a sack of skin, blood, and bones :)
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I like this guy and were friends. but hes flirting alot with like the most popular girl(we'll call her Caroline) in school and she is like a serious tease. He seems to like me but like they get kind of touchy feely if ya know what i mean. can anyone give me advice to shift his attention on me and less on her?
Thanx~ (link)
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Hmm, guys get really bored with the girls who are constantly throwing themselves at them. Here is what you need to do. Talk to him, flirt with him, be nice to him, but DON'T TELL HIM YOU LIKE HIM, then all of a sudden one day just stop. Don't flirt, don't talk, don't acknowledge that he exsists. If hey says hey to you say hey back but don't seem interested. It will drive him absolutely crazy because guys LOVE hard to get, then when you get him see where that goes. Good luck!!
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17-F Ok there are these to boys Rob and Dan. Dan is my type and we get along really well, the thing is we don't wanna screw up what we have and it seems whenever we hang out I wanna do naughty things to him. But Rob he's more sweet and nice to me and I've known him for a while and I can see us having a long relationship. But Dan is more exciting and Rob is more loyal and faithful. I'm a senior in HS and I haven't had a BF in over a year so I dunno who to pick please help (link)
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OK, what you need to do is figure out what both of them want, if Dan doesn't want a long term relationship, and that's what you want then drop him. But you have to do the same thing with Rob, being boys they may not be looking for a long term thing. You have to make what you want known. Make sure that you aren't doing anything that puts you in an uncomfortable position or makes you do what you don't want to do. And having a boyfriend isn't the most important thing ESPECIALLY when you are a senior because you are going to be going away really soon and you will have the opportunity to meet many new people chica!
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My boyfriend I think is cheating on me, I'm not sure what to do, we have been together for about 2 years,and my parents love him, but my friends have been seeing him with other girls, and he has been canceling dates on me. What should I do?
~~~~~Faithful, but scared (link)
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Well, what a great first question lol, umm first of all you should make sure that your sources are reliable because if they aren't you may sabatoge something worth saving, second you should ask him specific questions,and if he can't answer them sufficiently or if you know him well enough to tell when he is lying then take a break or kick him to the curb, it's always good to follow your first instinct.
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