hey i am a 13 year old oriental chick named emily anne. i come in a full package, a crazy personality, totally lovable, fun, perky, and last of all gorgeous. ;D I know more than the average 13 year old girl should know and for sure i kno how to have some fun. i'm 100% Philippino. i can be a bit blonde sometimes but thats what makes meh so lovable :D i love giving advice nad helping people with there problems. so i can't wait to help you guyz out!
E-mail: asiazFLYangel@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: manila,philippines
Occupation: student
AIM: asaizFLYangel
Member Since: December 22, 2004
Answers: 111
Last Update: March 31, 2005
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Okay this may sound really dumb or something but it really needs to be answerd cause i really need the help.My friend had wanted to kill herself and then her mom had put her into a center to get the help that she needs(good for her!!).But the problem is that she is on drugs and she drinks a lot and she is only 12 or 13 years old.Well i tries to kill myself a few weeks ago and now i'm fine but my question is that should i be her friend still and hang out with her even though that she wanted to do something that i tried?Cause my fear is that she will want me to think of doing that again?Plzz help.
Thanks again
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was she the reason why you wanted to kil yourself? think about that. you prolly know her better than anyone else and she may need someone. she prolly is tryign to stop but can't nad needs a friend to help her out. but if she was the cause for your attempt of killing yourself then i say stay away from her for a while.
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I have always been the good girl and not really come out and share that i like someone because i have just always been like that and it feels like i can't break this stage. If there is any advice out there please respond or email me at dance4ever@charter.net
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well if you really wanta change that be more open about things. if you really wnata change then you can do it. express yourself.
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i have been best friends with Alex for 4 years. This year, i found out that he likes me. And i like him. He has attempted to ask me out but i am always busy with something else. I feel very bad because he doesnt understand how much i really care about him. He is also known as the school hottie and he flirts with all the girls at out school. I dont want to go out with someone who flirts with everyone right in front of me; what do i do?? (link)
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well if your busy then make time for just you two and give him a chance to ask you out. and besides the only reason why he's prolly flirting alot is becuase he doesn't have a girlfriend.
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Is is normal for the average teenager (only child) to cry at least once a day when she's by herself in her room. And being an only child has a big issue. I came to realize that I cry everyday. Sometimes more than once. I do it in private though because I don't want people to see me. I guess my biggest reason is my parents, and the fact that I'm sick of being the center of their lives...I've gotten to the point where I feel a lot of pain in me, but I can't take it out on anyone but myself. It all seems really stupid, because it all comes from my parents. They don't beat me, and they're not necessarily "overprotective" or anything, I just hate being the only one they have to worry about... I've gotten to the point where I don't know what to do. I can't even tell them I want to seek professional help, which is what I really want--thats how distant I feel. I don't know what to do.... (link)
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your the only thing your parents have i am an only child too. so i kno it feels pretty lonely. but i mean what's the problem.
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well the thing is, my ex and i broke up about a month ago after being together for almost 2 yrs. He lives in pa and i live in md. we are trying to get back together because we still love each other and i'm going to visit my dad so we figured it would be an easy way for us to see each other. lately he has not called me on the nights that we have been talking since the day i moved to md. some of his friends from his school i talk to, and one of them told me a few weeks ago that he had a gf. so i called him and asked him about it. he said that he didnt have a gf but he did like this girl. so of course i was angry and upset cause we have been talking about getting back together and having sex. so he said that he wasnt sure if he'd go out with her or not and if so that it wouldnt be a serious relationship because nobody in the world could replace me. i'm to the point now where i have no idea what to do. i still love him very much and i know he loves me as well. i still want to be with him but it feels like he is keeping things from me. and also cause he doesnt call anymore. what should i do? thanks so much for your help! (link)
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long distance relationships are tough. like you could never see him to see what he is really up to. well i would say ask one of his closest friends who is with him most of the time and ask him to keep on eye out and if anything happens to tell you. i kno it may sound kinda bad but it would get the job done. or you guyz could just end it or try to tough it out. it's your choice. good luck
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hey i'm the person that was asking about always thinkin about my exbf. you said i should talk to him. i want to but i dont know what to say...can you help me please? thanks in advance! (link)
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okay first your gonna have to relax and breath before you talk to him, because you don't want to be all nervous and words just start coming out of your mouth and it makes no sense. so once your relaxed and calm ask if you could talk to him in private. maybe you could apologize for your friend about how he/she wasn't giving you guyz space and ask if maybe you guyz could start all over. and if he still has feelings for you he'll understand and just start new and fresh. but don't forget to talk to your friend about giving you and your boyfriend some space. well i hope i helped you out! good luck and if you need any more help just ask :)
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Hi okay i just want some advice to know if my feels for this is normal because it's been like 6 weeks and i still cant get over it. alright i started a new school for my freshman year and back in october i got asked out by this guy that was in my class with me. we never really talked but we did talk and joke around and things...so finally out of the blue he asked me out and at the time i didnt really like him because i didnt know him but i thought to give it a try because you never know. so i did and i found out that i do like him alot. then there was problem because my friend is just always around me and he feels like the third wheel all the time and to make things short he broke up with me. it didnt really hit me at the point because i was just speechless but ever since then he's still always on my mind. we dont talk anymore either because i just feel really shy. but is it normal that he's still on my mind. i mean i try to forget about it and everything and move on but it seems like it's just haunting me...maybe is it because i didnt say anything to stop the break up? i'm really confused and i hope somebody can help. please and thank you. (link)
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awwww yeah its very normal for you to still have feelings for him. he didnt break up becuase of you he broke up with you because your friend wasn't giving you your space. and he felt left out you kno. start talking to him again and maybe you can start all over again and talk to your friend to and tell her or him that you need your space and to be with your boyfriend alone once in a while. and if you guyz are really good friends i kno they'll understand.
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I think I might have paranoia. I have a wonderful gf. I love her todeath, but she talks to the one guy, who constantly flirts with her and it pisses me off. She says dont worry about it and that she loves me, but I still get worried. What if she will start to like him? I know nothing will happen. Were perfect for each other but I feel like bad things will always happen. Can anyone give me sties to read up on it or tell me what I can do to not be paranoid? I dont want to lose her over my problems. I want to be normal. (link)
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dear paranoid:
if you say your guyz are the perfect couple then why are you doubting her. the main thing of having a great relationship is trust. if she says she's not messing around with any other guy and only loves you and you trust her beleive her. she's a girl. i kno i have a boyfriend and i flirt sometimes i cna't help it. i'm a big flirt. but i still stay loya lto my boyfriend. if you keep asking her do you like him and blah blah it may offend her and lead her away from you. and if you really tihnk your seeing her too much let her hang out with her girlfriends give her some space but if she asks to hang out with you say yes. but remember let her breath once in a while. good luck!
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okay there is this guy i meet at the end of last school year we dated half of summer broke up and went out again we once again broke up about 2 weeks once school started because i guess things weren't working it was a pretty neutral thing he has said a few times after we broke up that he still likes me and he said "i know you still like me" i was all caught up in this other guy to relize that i really did still like him i told him this but i told him i dont know if i would ever go back out with him because things in the past didn't work one min. he is the sweetest guy the next hes trying to embares me and other times hes just mean but yet lately i have been haveing feelings for him again but i dont think he likes me anymore i think hes to caught up in this other girl that dosen't even like him. i dont know what to do. i rate well please take the time to read and answer this honestly (link)
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okay heres my thought. if it doesn't work out after the third time i would say just be friends. maybe the reason why it doesn't work out is becuase its becoming to complicated. but if you still have feelings for him just tihnk if you went out with him again its just end i mean look at the past relationships. he may just be fooling around with you you kno like thinking its funny but it really ticks you off tell him that. and don't make your relationship more complicated. well good luck and tihnk it through first.
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Well see heres the deal. I met this girl online and we really hit it off. I had always been against liking people long distance but that seems to have been blinded by the presence of this girl. Now I dont want to use the L word because i mean techincally we havent met but i get a certain feeling everytime i talk to her and im like always waiting for her to get online. We do talk on the phone and stuff too. Should i pursue this at all or just accept that no matter how hard i try to make this work it never will, despite the fact i want it to with all my heart. 16/m (link)
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okay i have been through this too. and well if you really do like her like she's on your mind all the time and you literally wait at the computer or phone waiting for her i don't see why you shouldn't go for it. but if it doesnt work out you have to be prepared for it. talk it over with her ask her if she wants to commit or not. its up to you and her but thats just my advice think about it. it may turn out good.
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I have long dark brown hair (like almost down to the middle of my back) and it's kind of tapered.. and it's KIND OF got long layers (the lady was supposed to give me long layers but she did a bad job so it doesn't really look like I have any layers). It's straight (I blow dry it straight) but can get a LITTLE frizzy/wavy (on the ends) when it rains. What are some cute haircuts I could get (keeping my hair long) that wouldn't require much maintanance (blow dry, no straightening) (link)
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okay i have hair just like yours its straight long and frzzy during rainy days. just wondering is your hair like naturally wavey? or just a bit wavey but more straight cuase what i what say ish get your long layers done again by a different stylist and color your hair like give it high lights but first ask your stylist the best color for you and if you want something easy to do with your hair just split your hair to the side but your hair in a pony tail with the split in and just pull the pony tail a little so it has bumps and looks kinda messy but still attractive i do it and it looks hott but if you want something more complicated just e-mail meh
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