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Location: Leesburg, Florida
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I'm 15 right now and I'll be 16 this September. I am fixing to start high school 9th or 10th not sure since I was getting homeschooled. I want to go back to normal school though. Ok so I know I'm like all pretty and I have no problems with the way I look. So see the problem is girls have a problem with me. They are all like wanting to kick my but and crap for no reason and saying crap like "oh get a tan" and blah. What should I do? I think girls are totally jealous of me. I am afraid of going back to school because I wanna stay out og trouble now. Basically I'm wanting to go back to school to get friends and stuff. Since I'm getting homeschooled I lost all of mine. I am thinking about getting a job this year maybe I'll meet people then. What would u do?

I think going back to public school would be a great opportunity for you. You have the chance to make new friends, meet the new ones again, and learn more about people. Don't worry about the girls who want to "kick your butt" because they're probably all talk. If it does happen to get serious, however, you can tell your councelor or principle and they should take action. Good luck; make lots of friends :)

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what does the song Back at one-brian Mcknight or have you ever by brandy or I swear by all for one ...talking about it whats the story behind it? Whats a good love song...

"Back at one" is a love song. It's about how he feels.

"Have you ever" is a "sad" love song. It's talking about how it hurts because he isn't with her or doesn't notice her or something like that.

"I swear" is another love song about how 'they' would always be there for each other. good song.

And a great love song is "The Color Of Love" by Boyz II Men. Perfect. Hope i helped.

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I have this friend, hes like the coolest guy ever, and like we get along really well, and he said the loved me, and i love him too, so he askd me out and we got together and like, he said he felt awkward cuz he kissedme and i didn do anything, and i was nervous, i didnt kno what to do.. so he told me he didnt feel right , but he still liked me alot and stuff, but im confused, like i dont know what to do know, cuz after that , our communicating got kind of bad, like we bearly talk now and we get in stupid arguments and stuff, and i really hate it. i dont know...is it my fault? , my friends say i should kiss him when we go out again, so that maybe it could help us get back on track, should i? and how can i make our talking get better and more fun?

please help me. thanks

Tell him how you felt when he tried to kiss you. Tell him you were nervous, tell him you didn't know what to do. He should understand if he loves you and you love him in return. Give it another shot. The communication probably died because he thinks you don't like him as much anymore, or he thinks he was a bad kisser and is embarrassed. Ask.

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this isnt really sex but my boyfriend hasnt asked me for head but i know that he has gotten it before im not scared to do it im just unsure of wut to do .. somebody help me FASSTTT

If you're 'unsure' then you're not ready. Yes, it's natural to be a little nervous, but if you're too nervous then that's your mind telling you not to do it. Don't do it if you're not ready. AND... if you ARE ready, then you should ask HIM what he likes, what he wants, and how he wants it done so that you make him happy and don't do anything he doesn't like. that's the best way to find out how to do it. don't feel stupid about asking either; the only stupid questions are those which go unasked.

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Should I have sex with my boyfriend even though he's 20 and I'm 16?

That depends. Are you ready? Both mentally and emotionally you have to be ready to have sex, otherwise it can tear you apart. Don't be scared to tell him no if you're not ready, because if he truely cares about you then he'll understand. best of luck.

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My husband beats me, I'm scared I might die. I need advice! Call the cops or not? He has $, he could just bail himself out!...

I rate!


Did I say I rate?!?!

I know that makes you wanna answer my question even more b/c I RATE!!

Just because he's your husband doesn't make it okay. You need to get out, go live with a friend, and get some help. Yes, call the cops. It doesn't matter if he has money. That's not the issue. LET him bail himself out of jail, that's fine. You just need to get out of there and get a restraining order. Good luck.

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Okai will my friend she asked me about her clothes like she can NEVER find any store that has clothes that will fit her n shes skinney and around the world we have the same kinda stores so shes about 5'1 and she wears like size 0 in pants n like xs in shirts so if you can help me with that like if you knwo where she can get clothes that fit her! The other thing is her hair she has black hair n red streaks which are fading away now n her hairs medium length n if you know how she can cut her hair so it looks cute on her lol n plus she has a babi face n I was thinking like layer but would that look good?

Ok, well let me tell you, my best friend is only about 5 feet tall, 97 pounds, and wear a size 0 also. there are ALL kinds of places you can go to find clothes that fit, you just have to shop around. there are stores such as "5,7,9" "The Body Shop" "Rave" & "JCPenney" that have clothes to fit small girls. And about her hair; you can go to the store and get a magazine that's all about hair styles, and they should have some good ideas for her. good luck.

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me and my boyfriend are 13, he has these 2 friends who i am also friends with and i get on with them really well and i am good friends with them. is it ok to be close friends with my bf's mates? i don't fancy them or anything so is it ok?

In my opinion, it's fine. But, in your boyfriend's opinion, it might not be. If you and your boyfriend are serious, then you should take time out and ASK HIM if he thinks it's alright that you're close with his friends. If it's just a fling, then i wouldn't worry about it too much, and i'd hang around with them. your choice, you decide.

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Do you know of any sites where I can post my pictures for free?

www.hotornot.com
be careful and don't give out too much information though, it can be very dangerous.

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how can u tell if a guy likes you or not?

If a guy likes you, he'll give you definite signs. When he sits near you he'll face your direction, when he talks to you he'll look you in your eyes, when you two are together he'll try his best to make conversation. If you can't recognize any of these signs or just aren't sure about them, then the next best thing is to ask! don't be shy, just ask him.

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