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is there anyways i can get myself to fall asleep? i am up sometimes like 2 hours after i lay down and its like 3 am! no naps...
please help me :D thanksthanksthanks (link)
i asked the same exact question yesterday! even staying up till 3 am lol. heres the link to my question so you can see the answers people gave me..http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=502205


since ive had limewire ive been burning music ointo cd from windows madia player. i would prefer to burn music onto cd from real player,how do i do this? (link)
i dont have an answer to your question, but if you arent already, highlight all of your music, right click, and click on stop sharing files. all of the text for the songs shuld turn red. if you dont do this, the makers of limewire can find out your using limewire and sue you. my friend got sued a couple thousand dollars for using limewire because he shared his files. so do that, and you should be fine=] sorry i dont have an answer to your actual question though


Alright, so I'm 15 and I've never had sex or anything. When me and my boyfriend are together sometimes he fingers me.. and every single time he does, I bleed. I was just wondering if this was normal or if there is something wrong with me.. I know its probably normal to bleed the first time, but what about every time? I really need help.. please answer with your best knowlegde.. I'll rate high I promissse (link)
this shouldnt be happening everytime he fingers you. the only two things i could think of are that he is either doing it to hard or fast, and needs to go softer or slower, or his nails are too long. maybe tell him to be a little softer and to cut his nails, and see if that works. if it doesnt, you may want to look into seeing a gyno to check out the problem. take a break form being fingered for a week or two so if there is any cuts inside from his nails or something, they can heal, becuase if there are cuts and he keeps fingering you without giving you a chance to heal, he will just re-open them again, and that could be why you bleed everytime.

good luck and be safe!


there is a family i want to baby sit for so i put a flyer in their mailbox but they never responded so should i put a flyer in their mailbox for a mommy's helper. (link)
are you sure they need a baby sitter? the reason why they didnt respond could have been that they didnt need a babysitter. also, do you personally know the family? because some families dont like having people they dont know or people they dont know too well watching their kids. put a flyer up on a telephone pole around your neighborhood and see if anyone responds, becuase that family may not need a baby sitter, but other families near you may need one.

good luck!


im 16 years old and am having a major problem..my hair is falling out like crazy and idk why!!..like i just run my fingers through my hair,look,then have a hand full of hair..im really bothered by this. what could be the problem?! (link)
a lot of people that answered this said it could be an eating disorder, which it could be, but if you dont have an eating disorder, then it could be that your eating, just not eating enough grams of fat a day. try to up your fat grams some, and see if that helps. if not, you may be in need of a trip to the doctors?

good luck!


this is real embarassing to write, but in my va jay jay there is like some piece of wrinkled skin sticking out. its like a little less than an inch long, and it looks like its dried up, or maybe its just cause im black. and im wondering... what is this? is that the clit? or do i have a female and male pody part? o_o ew but i dont think i pee from there since its before the part i pee. HELP (link)
if its kind of like a flap of skin on one side, then no, its not your clit and no you dont have both female and male parts lol. if thats what it is, then i cant really help you will what it is or why its there, but i can tell you its normal, because i have the same thing lol. your clit is the little bump like thing before the actual hole of your vagina. its at the top of your vagina.

i hope this helps a litte!


o.k thers this guy that goes to my school and i kinda jus met him last year!well he works at the school durin summer with the janitors and i tink he lkes me! i meen ive been workin on the lokers at school for lke the past two weeks and hes been kinda flirty! well 2day he was really flirty! i meen evry tme he passed me he would cme up 2me and lke mess with me! he would lke pull my chair(it was on wheels!) and then he cme ova 2me and pretended 2 put soda on me and the he fliked water at me then when i was sittin down and he thought i didnt see him he threw a sock at me!it missed though!o yeah and monday i was nocken on the middle school door cus i couldnt get in and he cme to let me in and right before he opened the door he 'checked me out'. i meen he lke looked at me lke guys would look at grls if they thought there were sexy or sumtin!i think he mouthed god d@#$ but im not sure. i was wearin a t-shirt that hugged my curves with a jean skirt.it was a really cute outfit! i looked really 'grly'.but i was lke o my jeeze did he jus giv me 'the look'!well i think he lkes me but im still not sure. i meen alot of the signs r there but i cud b wrong!i lke him and hes beyond cool but then again hes a up cumin senior and i have a bf(its nothin serious+im not gonna cheat on him) and hes 18 and im an up cumin 9th grader!i tink if he does lke me i kinda wanna go wit him wen school starts! do u tink that would b bad!?!is it legal? i dont know wut 2do ir say!!!!HELP (link)
i would have to say besides "am i pregnant" this is the most overasked question on advicenators. i didnt even have to read your question, i can tell just by the subject. noone can tell you if a boy likes you or not. we dont know you and we dont know the boy. theres no way of telling. in some cases, yes, the guy may like the girl. but other times, it could be just a really friendly guy. noone knows for sure. you have to wait and see for yourself. no one on advicenators is a phsycic so no one can tell you. i dont care if you give me a 1 because im not giving you the " omg he totally likes you!" answer that your looking for. im telling you the truth. im not on here to get a rating of a 5, becuase i dont care. im trying to help people by telling them the truth, not what they want to hear. so obviously, if your asking this question, you have some reason to think this kid likes you. so if you think he likes you and you like him, go for it. but noone can tell you if he likes you or not. you have to figure that out for yourself.

good luck.


how many pictures can a 16mb camera hold?
thanks. (link)
some low resolution camera can hold 5 pictures. and some high resolution cameras can hold about 16. it really depends on the camera, as the last person said. if you want your camera to hold more pictures, you can always buy a new, higher capacity memory card at like radio shack or a similar store.



so... i just recently got a dig.cam..and how do i put my pics on myspace with the pics in the camera??? (link)
your camera should have came with an installation cd and a usb cord. instal the software with the cd onto your computer, plug the usb cord into the usb port on the back of your computer and into your camera, and save them to a file like your documents or something. then go to the upload button on myspace and find the picture file on your computer. and whala! you have pictures on myspace!=] its pretty easy. your camera instructions booklet should have more detailed instructions if you need them also. or if you have any other questions, feel free to ask me. im pretty computer and camera savy=]

good luck!


hello, i went to find out my color shceme at my local suit place, and they looked at me like i had three heads. how do i find out what colors suit me, ? ill try to add some pictures...hope itll helps













1i think the first time i posted this, i messed up, so mods please forgive me. (link)
lol those links dont work either. are you copying the images url on photobucket? if not, try that. just add info to this question instead of making a new one, its a lot easier to do. so, try that, and maybe i could help you=]


hello, i dont know what colors to wear, and i tried to go to a suit place and ask them whats my color shceme, but they looked at me like i had 3 heads. i think i can add pics..hope it helps..

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[IMG]http://i210.photobucket.com/albums/bb264/clownloach2007/P5070069.jpg[/IMG] (link)
the links dont seem to be working, for me anyways. on photobucket, did you copy the images URL?, becuase thats what you should have pasted there. if not, try adding info to the question and put the image urls. then maybe i could help you lol=]


Ok so my boyfriend and I have been together for just over 2 years.

When we first got together I gave him headjobs without condoms on. Stupid I know but it's all good.

Anyway, the main reasons for that is because I was too scared to ask him to put one on. Then one night I bought a packet of condoms and he suggested to put one on the stop his cum from going everywhere.

I've never given him a headjob without a condom since. The thing is he's been asking if I would give him one without a condom on..

I am more then happy to do it in the shower lol but I don't like the taste or smell (after a long day) of his penis. Not to mention the taste and smell of cum is horrible!!

I'd like to give him a headjob without a condom but I can't bear the taste or smell.. how do you girls put up with it?

Thanks! (link)
if you guys have been together for just of 2 years, im sure your quite comfortable with eachother. so if you are, just flat out tell him. dont be mean or anything, just be like you know, at the end of the day, giving head isnt the tastiest or best smelling thing. we should do it after we take showers. or something along those lines to get the point across, but to not be mean about it. or next time he askes or you get ready to give him head, like start to unzip his pants, then stop, and then walk towards the bathroom and be all sexy about it. then stand in the doorway and start to take your shirt off. i can almost guarentee he'll follow you, and then just do it in the shower like you said you dont mind doing.

good luck!


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how did she get her hair like that?& is there anyway I can do that without a krimper& how much is a good krimper& from wear, not over 30$ please. (link)
she most likely didnt use a crimper. she probably used a waver. you can get them for pretty chea at walmart, or just search google for hair wavers. folica.com has some pretty cheat ones also.


my teeth are like yellow, & I brush them 4 times a day& floss& use whiting mouth wash, how can I make them white? (link)
you should try whitening strips. theres all different brands, so just go to your local walmart or something like that and look at the different kinds. one of the drawbacks of whitening strips though, is that they make your teeth sensitive. but if you want whiter teeth, then its worth it=]



how do you get parakeets to make some eggs? there are two couples in my big cage but nothing ever happened. its been years. (link)
do you have a nesting box for them? if you want anything to happen, you need to have a nesting box for each of the pairs. you also shouldnt keep the pairs in the same cage together, seperate them into two cages. are you sure there is two males and two females? there are tons of factors to look at when breeding birds. you should take them to a vet and see if they are breedable, health, and all that. this website, http://www.budgieplace.com/breeding.html, is very helpful.

good luck!


does anyone know any good books or websites that list active verbs? im looking for cool verbs like scuttling or oozing because sometimes i cant think of a good one to use for the story that im writing. (ive looked but not found good ones) i appreciate all help!
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http://www.cvisual.com/film-techniques/writer-action-verb-list.asp has some great ones=]


I have been looking for some books for summer reading and have yet to find one that sounds interesting. I was wondering if anyone had some suggestions or recommendations. :] (link)
i dont know if your a girl or guy, what age you are, or what kinds of books intrest you lol, becuase you didnt really add any detail about yourself. but if your a girl, i can give you some ideas=]. Speak is a reaaaalllyyy good book. i saw the movie a while ago, and then my english class started reading it towards the end of the year. the ending is a bigggg surprise. its a really good book=] the authors style of writing is a little wierd and takes a little getting used to, but its a great book. but, im going to shut up before i give away the ending lol, but its a great book. i realllly reccommend you read it=]


i just turned 21 and i have never drank before. im 5'4 and 120 pounds. how many beers would it take to get me drunk? how many shots of vodka? how many glassses of wine? i want to go out adn drink but not get completely wasted so i want to know an average amount of each that would get you drunk (link)
there really isnt a way to tell how many drinks will get you drunk. different people have different alcohol tolerance levels, so for some people, a few beers will get them drunk, but for others it will take many beers to get them drunk. if its your first time drinking and you dont want to get trashed, only drink a little. have like one or two beers, a few shots, ect. dont go too heavy, becuase its your first time drinking, so you'll probably get drunk pretty fast.


have fun!=]


i read somewhere that its not good to ride a horse when you have your period? (link)
hmm..i dont know where you heard that lol, but its deffinetly not true. riding horses can pop your hymen from bouncing up and down, but nothing will happen if you ride during your period


i masturbate alot for a girl. im 15/f and i do it like twice a week. is this bad for my health in any way? thanks for answering. (link)
hun, twice a week is not a lot at all. masturbating isnt bad for your health in any way, no matter how much you do it. some people say it is even healthy for you. so masturate all you want!=] of course, just make sure your hands or anything you use is clean, which im sure you know




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