ok......... i am 13 years old and i am in the 8th grade i like this 12 year old boy in the seventh i was going to 6th period and i seen him and i dont know what was wrong with me but somthing came over me and i grabbed his butt he started looking around and was saying all kinds of stuff i hurried to class but he figured out it was me and after the 7th period bell rung i got on the bus and i sat in the back he was in the last seat and he started to say i was a rapist and i had an std and all kinds of stuff he even got up and sat in the front and was going crazy and when the bus came to his stop he ran out of the door and down the street!!!! wow i really need him to trust me again plez help me i seriously dont kow what to do
This boy is oviously to umature for you.Saying your a rapistt is a little over the top.
I would move on
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how do you hook up?
generally means making out
and stuff like tht
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Okay. so i have this friend and i really like him and i try everyway to show it but i just don't think hes getting it. and i also think that he likes one of my friends. How do i get him to notice me?
You gotta wait.
If you bug him, and show him your intrest and hes not intrested then he'll get annoyed.
Unless you know for a fact hes gonna be intrested, dont flirt to much.
Guys like a girl whos hard to get, and When you Over talk to him or annoy him , he'll be turned off completely, depending on the guy.
As for him liking your friend, think of it like its a game of monopoly.
Theres 3 players you her and him.
Hes winning, and its her turn to have him.
But he turn cant last forever, and then you'll get yours and you'll be in first place with him , as long as you make the right moves.
And if its still not working out, find another guy to keep you busy until he comes around.
It might take minutes , it might take monthes,but it could happen.
Hope I helped!
--Kendra
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i am flat chested.
shuld i stuff my bra?
uh no go buy a paded bra
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do u havea ny hair styiling tips? i feel like my hair is the same. i eather scrunch it, or staighten it.
do u have any hair ideas?
plz && thnx
Hmm i have your same problem.
Try putting it up in a bun or pony tail, or side pony tail.
Or put a hair bow in it or even a clip.
Also, if you have grown out bangs you can try putting them back with a barrette.
You can scrunch it and put it up.
You can do it half and half.
You can part your bangs to the side.
You can wear a headband.
You can scrunch all your hair and leave your bangs straight.
You can braid your hair and put it in pigtails.
Or a french braid.
You could curl it with a curling iron.
Ive done all of them and they all look pretty good :]
Hope I helped!
--Kendra
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the convo between me and my friend in IM
friend: does it matter if i look at his myspace?
friend: NO.
me:iono its your choice
friend: yeah i know
friend: but yer like so surprised
me: wtf im not
friend: yer like REALLY?
friend: WTF?
me: (laughing out loud)
friend: and stop saying WTF
me: noooooooo
friend: say WtH or something
me: wht
me: why*
friend: cuz its not a good habit
me: i like wtf better
friend: just dont use it when yer talking to me
friend: you give me the wrong idea
friend: lke your mad
friend: haha
friend: iono
me: why do you think im mad
friend: cause you say
friend: WTF
me: so?
friend: nvm
what is she trying to say? whats wrong with saying wtf? i mean why does she cares if i say wtf? but is she trying to be a good friend for saying this?
WTF=what the f*ck
ahh i think shes trying to saying like
what do you mean.
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i have these 2 friends, one is a bff, and one is just a friend. and both of them hate eachother, my other bff are stuck right in the middle of "what is she saying behind my back" thing. and my friend is willing to say shes sorry, but my bff wont and shes acting immature about the whole thing.
how do i just get them to stop acting immautre and get on with life?
Flat out tell them.
Make them feel awkward and dumb.
Say " Look guys, look at this and tell me you dont think this is stupid!"
Or you could not talk to them for a few days, until they get it all straigtned out.
Or even put them in a situation where they would almost want to be friends again.
Im not too familar with this kind of sitaution, but im pretty sure those things will work.
You could also say sorry to both of them, and then maybe they will realize that its their fault not yours, and hopefully they will realize what they are doing.
I hope everything works out!
--Kendra
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im going on a diet. can i have sum of ur tips on exersising and eating healthy?
Yes, I will give you many.
You've come to the right person.
To start off, dont starve yourself.
You dont want to ruin your metabolism, and if you do ruin it , it will be difficult to loose weight.
Eating healthy is actually not that bad at all, and it makes you feel better too.
Stay away from large portions and fried foods, such as going out to eat.
Try making things that are low in fat and calories.
You must start reading nutrition labels now.
Now by eating low fat foods, doesnt mean dont eat fat.
You need about anywhere from 65-73 grams everyday.
Things that are good fat are proteins such as peanut butter, lean meat, etc.
Stay away from saturated fats like butters and cheeses, those are high in cholestrol and load up in fat and calories.
Instead , try eliminating cheeses and using cooking spray instead of butter.
You need 2-3 servings of vegatables a day.
Dont fry them in grease.
Try a can or even fresh stuff.
Depending on what you like.
Fruits you need too, Canned fruits are good but have alot of perservatives so try fresh fruit from produce.
Carbohydrates, such as bread you need too.
But those you have to watch , they will make you gain fat.
Try to aim for only about 300-375 carbs a day.
In each meal , try and watch out for the carbs and if it exceeds 30-45, dont eat a full amount of it.
As for snacks there are many choices.
Pretzels, yogurt, dry cereal[not sugar filled], low fat chips, low fat popcorn,apples with reduced fat peanut butter, bananas with reduced fat peanut butter, granola bars, fruits, etc are all good too.
As for drinks and exercise, personally I only drink water.
Drinking real fruit drinks is good once in a while but they are loaded with sugar.
If you want a different taste of water , i suggest Crystal Light, they have it in MANYYYYY flavors.
Now for exercise, its fun and boring, depending on what you like.
Try to aim for anywhere between 20-45 minutes a day.(or 4-5 times a week)
30 minutes is when your body starts burning fat :]
Exercise you can do in many varities, such as a walk , a jog, a bike ride.
or even sports.
But if you dont like the outdoors, you can try a gym or just walking with your friends at the mall.
You can also do crunches, jumping jacks, and try lifting some heavier things for arm muscle etc.
Dont over tire yourself though, you have to be able to have energy.
Hope I helped. and if you need more information,ask!
I could give you more!
--Kendra
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i am 15 and for the past 3 weeks i've been straightening my hair and i've got mixed responses
to it and i just wanted to know should i keep straightening my hair?
I think its okay.
Some people think its for gay guys, But I dont becuase its hair and its called a hair straightner.
Not a girls hair straightner.
Not only that but it looks alot better too , depending on your style.
But if people say stuff then only do it on occasions, or straightnen some of it and leave some of it natural.
Hope I helped!
-kendra
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i have this friend and me and her wuld be like best friends in the morning, and fighting about sumthing stupid by the afternoon. and we fight about the stupidest things, and they go off & on. why do u think we fight so much?
do u know how to stop it?
You guys might just be alot different and disagreeable.
If you guys fight so much, I wouldnt consider you guys BEST friends.
But if you think its just over dumb little things, then both of you sign a paper saying you guys arent gonna fight.
Then whenever a fight starts to spark pull out the paper and laugh about it.
As childish as it sounds, it would work.
But also consider friends fight,but not on a daily basis.
So maybe she isnt a BEST friend.
Me and my best friend have never got into a fight , but thats just us.
So get a good laugh about it.
--Kendra
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Hey i heard that if you wear boy shorts with pants it makes your butt look bigger then it would with regular underware or a thong. is it true?
Hmm, well it depends.
It gives your butt more of a shape, but it also leaves a little underwear line.
If you have the tight ones then it doesnt leave the line.
I wear the tight ones on occasion and it work.
Id give it a try ;]
_kendra
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what do u mean by "surround yourself by him"?
like always sit next to him?
cuz that sounds kinda stalk-ishh
????
I mean more like be around his friends more and Like in the same places as him by coincidence.
It will all work out, just dont follow him lol
--Kendra
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ok, u see i like this boy, and i really dont know how 2 talk 2 him, i like make small talk, but thats pretty much about it. how do i start a conversation.
i need help
please!
What I think you should do is surround yourself by him.
For example, hang around the same people as him.
Or make him want to talk to you.
Or ask him a simple question about like what hes wearing or how hardwas the math test.
Simple stuff like that and I promise it works.
Good luck with him!
But dont make yourself to obvious!
--Kendra
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well not to be forward but
me and my guy friend
has been friends since
the 3rd grade
then out of nowhere this year the tells me
that he has always liked me ever since
we were younger
even my mom figured it out before i did
now that i have hung out with him more
joke aournd
and talk to him everyother night
and now im starting to like him
i dont know if he likes me anymore
but i really do now
how can i tell him that
and when is the prefect time?
but i dont want anything to change either
i like him tooo much for that
also im 13 and ima gurl
Ah!
at your young age and mine too.
Friends is the best way to keep it unless you dont want to like him longterm.
The best thing to do is not to tell him, let him figure it out on his own.
Becuase if you tell him , then he might feel as though there is no longer a challenge and he might stop liking you.
Play a little hard to get, and hint him a bit.
But dont act as though you like him, becuase he will get bored with the situation.
Just act as friends and if you want to know if he still likes you, then predict them from his reactions.
For example , on the phone is he fun and intresting to talk to ?
Or does he seem completly unintrested and acts as if he doesnt care what your saying?
Little hints like that trigger alot.
Also, look at how much he remembers of you.
Tell him something and then maybe a week later ask him again and if he remembers he might like you or he could just have a good memory ;]
Good luck!!
--Kendra
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okay,i like this guy and hes only like me as a friend&he can only see me as a friend.is there any way i can make him be able to see me "in that way"??
Hm, i hate that spot.
Its happened to me sooo many times.
Well, as guys and girls grow older they realize friends as more than friends.
My best advice is dont tell him you like him, that WILL ruin the friendship.
Keep it at the friends level for now until he gets older.
Better as friends then having you guys break up and hate eachother right?
But if you want him to see you " in that way"
then play a little hard to get.
Flirt with a bunch of other guys and stuff and make him want you.
Or flirt with him even , just a tad.
Good luck!
--Kendra
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Well I like this guy and he said he liked me but he hasn't called me lately and I think he likes this other girl. But I really like him. but I don't know what to do. I keep on thinking about him
You'll never know anything with guys.
They are confusing, two faced.
The list goes on and on, but what you can do is just treat him as a friend until you know for sure he likes you.
If hes got his eye on another girl, the dont get involved until they are over.
Remember they cant last forever, and as i always say TIME IS EVERYTHING , you might have to wait for him.
And thinking about him all the time , is completely normal,since hes on your mind, maybe hes supposed to be there?
It all takes time.
So wait it out and maybe find another guy to play with until him and the girl are done.
Good luck!
-Kendra
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so its not healthy for a girl to masterbate?
No it is, but its more healthy for a guy Than a girl
:]
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can you lose weight from masterbating?
Sorry but you cant :[
Its healthy if your a guy.
But it doesnt make you loose weight.
--Kendra
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female.
any good ways to masterbate?
We will look it up,
Check back in a day or two
Sorry for the inconvience.
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when i get into high school i wanna try out for cheerleading for my 2 year of high school.
is there anything partical i should know that i have to do?
Hey, well Im noT a cheerleader.
But I am friends with many of them
one of them [carly michaels] said you might want to have your back handspring.
If you want more information , ask back later when alex is avaible, shes a cheerleader :]
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