Hi, ok well my names mandy and i'm 19 i'm currently a student at uni studying medicine. I logged onto this website because i saw how much help lots of you need i am here to support you and give some great advice so i'm there to answer yours or even you can ask me a personal question too!!!
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my vagina smells bad. its not like a fish smell but its bad & not normal. i do clean with antibacterial soap but its not working. what should i do ? (link)
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Hi sweety,
As you grow older and puberty kicks in there is the common sign of 'smelly vaginas.' TRhis is absolutely normal. Yes i sgree you should not use soap, but what you need to do is whenever you have a bath or shower everyday, clean your vagina properly, and there are special soaps for genital use. Make sure you wash your hands thoroughly afterwards as you don't want to infect yourself, and it's unhygienic.
Mandy
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I would like to hear some opinions on 14, 15 and 16 year olds having sex. I personally find it heartbreaking when I read these questions from these young people asking about sex and if they are doing it right. They don't even know about the other consquences BESIDES pregnancy and HPV, STDs such as STIs and emoional consequences.
I am only 20, so it wasn't long ago I was this age, and I find this to be ridiculous! What happened to true love? Or waiting until marrige? It seems to me these girls just want to be popular with the boys and the guys want to be popular among boys. Is it just me? Am I crazy? (link)
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Hi,
I absolutely agree sex at such a young age is not such a good idea, you should wait until you are in a stable relationship and ready, and possibly married. And i absolutely agree on your idea of pregnancy at such a young age when you have your whole life ahead of you, and plenty of time, and the STI's.
Mandy
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17/m
Ive tried to date girls but i always get hurt, Ive been told im a very sweet guy and the last relationship i was in the girl wanted to be friends with benefits. I was ready to do it ut then i realized what id be throwing away, ive been told she is known for getting around and now i believe that. Now she hates me because i didnt. I want to have sex now but i have no one to do it with, what should i do?
I really want to do it and am alone. (link)
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hi,
OK well the only thing you should do is wait because there is no point in doing it with a random girl just for sex and not for love. Many boys have an urge to have sex and have no one to have it with but if you really want sexual pleasure wait until the right time comes when your in a relationship with someone you genuinelly love. Having sex for the first time is one of the best times and the most intense in your life so wait until the moment is right. Don't lose your virginity to a slut who sleeps around but to a girl you really love.
Mandy
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what according to you are the best things girls look out in guys? (link)
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Hi sweety,
Well for me there is the funny side i want to be with a guy who is funny and makes me laugh but also i want someone who doesn't acts like different when he is around his mates and just acts sort of horrible to you i want someone who is nice to me and isn't ashamed of me. Maybe intelligent i don't mean academically clever (well its good if they are) but clever in a different way. And lastly looks i admit i would want a good looking, hot guy!!!
Mandy
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do size matters for girls? i have heard ppl saying they have seen 10" etc what do you say? don you think its exagurated ones? i guess nobody would have seen such a long ones (link)
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Hi Sweety,
Well, to normal girls who aren't sluts it doesn't matter it certainly doesn't matter to me and i'm a girl. 10" is very rare unless they have enlarged it by surgery so i think it is exaggerated. But generally size doesn't matter unless they are sluts and that is true personally i don't care how big guys penis is as there is much more to guys then penis size.
Mandy
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dat sounds gud am excited to ask dat question what if she declines or starts hating me because of masturb.. questions? how would you react if somebody asks you? (link)
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Hi Darl,
Well if its someone close i may answer as long as it's someone i trust so if she declines don't get embarassed just say before "you dont have to answer and i wont tell anyone" and make sure she knows you can trust her, so if she declines say its ok and act cool.
Mandy
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i will surely approach with much confidence...i thought masturbation is by n large guys thing as i hav never seen girls discussing? would it be right if i ask about this when i meet her next time? (link)
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Hi Darl,
It depends on what sort of person she is. Do you think she will be able to answer personal answers? I don't think she should mind as discusssing it like an adult is great so i think you should go for it.
Mandy
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I had forgot to close my room door while masturbating my friend who happens to be girls saw it...am embarrsed to speak to her..how do i approach her. i guess u have not come across such type of situations but thought of taking your advice (link)
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hi darling,
Don't worry this has happened to many girls. Firstly i bet she masturebates too you can either act normally when you approach her, or tell her that she wasn't meant to see that and you want to just put it in the past and sort it out. I'm sure she will understand becasue masturebation is normal and there is nothing wrong with it. Don't be embarassed just act calm and put it behind you and don't let it affect you from masturebating just make sure you close the door and do it when your alone. Don't worry sweety.
Mandy
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I'm pretty sure what I experienced was a wet dream. I mean, I did have a rather "interesting" dream and I woke up from having orgasm. I'm 16 though and a female. I thought males could only have these.. ? (link)
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Hi SWweety,
Yes, only boys get wet dreams what you probably got is an orgasm and discharge must of filtered out.
Mandy
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thanks for the answer mandy, so far my looks goes am bald and black textured guy (link)
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Hi,
Thats ok i just hope it helps you.
Mandy
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15/f
this so gonna sound really weird but how do girls orgasm? or like how do u know if youve gotten an orgasm? help? (link)
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Hi,
Darl well you can either get orgasms while you are having sex, or when you masturebate like rubbing your vagina in a circular motion, or fingering, or some even get it by playing with their breasts or nipples or using dildos or vibrators. If you've gotten an orgasm its just you making sexual noises and having a great feeling and letting out little noises.
Mandy
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I have small breasts, and when I wear bras with no padding, I like to touch my breasts. Never with no bra, and never with heavily-padded bras. I don't know why this is. It really bothers me, too, since I get this craving to touch and grasp my breasts during class, and around people. Does this qualify as masturbation? And why do I have this craving? I never get the urge to touch my genital area, just my breasts. Can someone tell me why or help me with an explanation at all? Any help is greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance! : ) (link)
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Hi,
Sweety i agree with the others comments. I think it could be because they have grown more it isn't entirely a form of masturebating but it is completely natural. Lots of girls like playing with boobs so i suppose it is sort of a form of masturebating. Its just a stage in teenage life its normal and its fine.
Mandy
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I am 27 M old guy wanting to improve my appearance please help me out?
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Hi,
Well this is quite hard as i dont know how you look but here are some general tips:
1. Firstly i'll start with the hair, go to the hairdressers and get it cut and use gel let them experiment with it you know spiky this that and let them decide what is the new look.
2.General hygiene- if you are someone with bad hygiene problems (you may not but if you are..) make sure your teeth are proper cleaned sort out dentistry etc. Make sure your not scruffy or have grubby nails.
3. Clothes- ok seeing as you are in your late 20's you don't want to go for clothes which are for teens or young males but the more mature male. If you want to look casual buy yourself a decent shirt and jeans and some smart shoes or trainers to help you out ask for a personal shopper and just explain you are going for something new.
I'm sorry but this is extremely hard as i have no idea how you look but try going into certian shops such as topman, gap etc. or any other shops which are great with stylish ideas for males.
Good luck hope it turns out well!
Mandy
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i might be worrying too much or this might be a bit lame but i hear and see on the web that girls say that size doesnt matter not sure if some just say that but what if its really small does it matter much then my penis is very small just 2.5 inches long fully erect ive never been with a girl
but im embarrassed that girls wont want to be with me or they might laugh so am i too small?
and what can i do to make it bigger? (link)
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Hi,
Sweety girls really don't care about penis size and they will be with you unless they are absolute sluts so you won't want them there really isnt anything you can do to make it bigger but how old are you? because if you are still below the age of at least 18 it still has time to grow. Trust me and don't worry darl.
Mandy
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Theres this boy named kyle =) .. he is amazing i love him soo much he means the world 2 me (L) ..
But he doesnt love me =( .. He has blocked me on msn he says i annoy him :^)(U) .. but the grls sed b4 tha he sed he lyked me but i think they were lying (N) ..
I love him soo much not having him in my life makes me feel lyk sum1 is pushing a knife through my heart :^)(U) ..
He has got a girlfriend i hate her :@ ..
i jus want him in my life .. my lifes not living without him :^)(U)
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Hi,
This has probably happened to at least everyone at some stage of their life, if he has blocked you on msn that is his problem and he must be silly for not realising what a lovely person you are.
Maybe the girls were telling you the truth and yes they could be lieing too. Sweetheart i know how it feels and when you like a boy this much it does stab you in the heart because of the intense feelings you have for them.
I understand why you hate his girlfriend so much. If you want a proper answer from him you may as well just ask him how he feels about you and how you feel about him. If he doesn't appreciate you for who you are and what a lovely girl you are he is just a fool and you will meet someone who appreciates you more.
Darling i'm sorry as i can't say much but don't worry this will pass and who knows he could have a softspot for you but just isn't showing it trust me guys have a funny way of showing their feelings.
All the best and good luck please let me know how you get on.
Mandy
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im 15 and ive started to masturbate a lot every chance i get sometimes 6 or 7 times a day its not weird is it? does size matter much to girls?
penis is quite small im really worried (link)
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Hi Darl,
No size does not matter to girls, if it does matter to them they must be sluts. Its not weird to masturebate, it is a natural stage in teenage life as well as adolescence sexual pleasure is and it's a great thing so carry on masturebating it is fine!!
Mandy
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Sorry I have absolutley no idea what subject to put this under...
I'm 16/f. One of our family friends comes over a lot to our place. He's about 50 and smokes pot and drinks from very early in the morning to when he goes to bed. He's not drunk often because he's used to it. He always looks like he's gonna kiss me and always give me hugs. He grabs my ass and rubs my legs and stuff. I'm not scared of him or what he'll do because I can stand up for myself. Yesterday he was pretty drunk when he came over, I've never seen him like that and when he kept hugging me it felt like he had an erection. He kept showing me dirty stuff on his cell phone infront of my parents who are pretty protective of me and I was so embarrassed. We both have camera phones and he was taking a photo of me and when he took it I saw it slip down a bit so he took a photo of my breasts and saved it. He always makes comments like "that's a nice necklace" or "I like that shirt on you" so he can stare at my breasts. Whenever I say something like about my appearance he grabs me around the waste and whispers that im "f***ing gorgeous". What do you think I should do? I don't want to tell anyone because I think he's harmless and he's a family friend.
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Hi Sweety,
OK, who cares if hes a family friend he is certainly dodgy. He is 50 and your 16!!!
I know you wrote that you can stick up for yourself but he will reel you in and it won't matter how much you refuse. Rubbing legs, grabbing your ass and staring at your boobs??? This is certainly disgusting i know you would of heard of peoadophiles perving on young girls he is one!!!
Before you know it he will be abusing you and raping you and forcing you for sex! Tell someone for sure, preferably your parents- mum, sister, aunty etc. Females may be more comfortable and less awkward, don't ever tell the man to lay off because he will just go for it and to something nasty.
Hope it helps please tell someone.
Mandy
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do your breast get bigger if you rub them? (link)
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Hiya Darl,
I know the answer is short but no there is no way.
Mandy
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my boobs are getting bigger and bigger ... and i want them to be smaller! ...is there any way to get them to lose a cupsize without surgery? (link)
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Hi sweety,
I can't believe you want them smaller that's usually the opposite to other girls. Don't surgically remove them that's you. Big boobs be proud girl!
Mandy
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14/f I know that somebady just asked this, but I have a question too. I got my period when I was ten and have had fairly big boobs since then. I am currently wearing a size 40C bra. I'm about 5'2 in height and I could still possibly grow a little bit. Lately, my aureoles have gotten bigger and bigger. I know this is a sign my boobs could grow more. My question is, how much bigger do you think they can grow? (link)
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Sweetheart,
40C is large it can grow quite a lot aerolas largening means more growth, but it won't grow much bigger as you started your period at 10 which is early so your body has made a lot of changes already.
Mandy
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