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Hey my name's Hayley, I'm 15 years old and i love to give advice and help! :) Don't be afraid to ask me anything ;) Thank you and I hope you enjoy everything.

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me and my bf have been together for a long time now..the only stuff weve done is i gave him a handjob ONCE and that was it. im not a virgin and neither is he. i dont want to have sex with him though because i am so scared to get pregnant its too risky. lately hes been kinda like feeling up my shirt and trying to put his hand in my pants. i always stop him by making an excuse. i dont want to seem like a sissy though. hes done EVERYthing...n ive only done it once...i get nervous now i know he wont do nething till im not ready but i dont know how to tell him. i just get a weird feeling when he wants to do stuff im not ready yet...how do i tell him...=\

Hey sweetie! I know exactly how you feel... and you shouldn't be presured so much.. Even though i do understand its expected. Maybe you should become more close to your boyfriend and then it would be easier to talk to him about it. Just don't be worried because he should understand. Make Sure your ready too.. because that last thing you want to do is somthing sexual you would regret or feel uncomfortable doing, SO don't do it just because you want to make him happy or think your cool and not a sissy. It should be a good moment for the both of you when you are ready, so be open with him and have fun when you think its time !:D hope i helped, good luck =D

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I have two questions. It might get a little confusing because I myself am confused. I was at my boyfriends house yesterday and we started doing sexual things and we had sex. The thing is, I'm not sure if you'd consider it to be having sex. We only were doing it for five minutes tops and neither of us "finished" (I didn't have an orgasm and he didn't cum) So my first question was if you would consider that to be sex. The second part of my question is that the first minute or so, he did not have a condom on but I do know that you can get pregnant off of precum. I know there is a certain time where you are least fertile around the time of your period. I had my period the week BEFORE we did that. Someone had told me that you are most fertile the week after you have your period and then another person said that it was the week before. Could someone clear that up for me? I really need some answers. Thank you SO much if you can help! And please, do not say that you "think" that this is when you are least fertile, I need a straight answer. Thank you again.

Hey! Yes it is sex.... and to answer your second question- Yes you can get pregnant, so be careful ! Be sure to use protection next time... and good luck! :D

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ok, theres this guy, mmk? and i know he likes me, cuz he told me like a bajillion times. but i dont like him AT ALL..and he keeps like hangin all over me and stuff. he calls me, i dont answer, he writes me notes, i throw them away and dont answer them, he emails me, i delete them, and i have him blocked on AOL..why wont he take the hint???? am i being too subtle? do i just need to like go up to him and make a huge scene or sumthin? please help, cuz he's really startin to bug me!!! thanks!

~*wants nothing to do with him*~

Hey babe... well this can be annoying haha! I would say Go up to him (if you've had really Enough_) and say "please stop trying to be with me. :)" and then if he still is bugging you, then go up to him again and say "okay buddy maybe you don't get it- i want nothing to do with you" lol, and he sould get it that time ;) but don't break his heartat fist, give him a chance to stop, but if he doesnt- then tell him whose boss lol ! oxo

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Christmas! Omg... Its just around the corner. Its coming faster, then light. I have this boifriend. I LOVE HIM TOO DEATH!!! But i mean this is our first Christmas together. What should i get him for christmas? I need help. I Love him sooo much. I want it to be something special. Truly special. Please help!! ME!! Ill rate you VERY HIGH 5 Whole BIG POINTS! Avice Columnists help me!! Im just lost!!! ASAP! Quick help me... I have only a week to get his present cause im busy with other stuff til x-mas!! Thankss!!!! soo much...

Don't worry honey- stop stressing out ! talk to his friends about what they think he might want, or if your close to him then you should know what he likes :) im sure that if you love him so much, and he does too- then he will love anything you get him. But i understand that you want to give him somthing special .. but don't worry you definitly will, just get some ideas of what he likes and talk to his friends about it ;) hope i helped

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ok im 13/f and lik everone i no has a boyfriend, and like im ok with that cept lik i need a boy in my life, and so where do i start? ive never had a bf before. i mean all the boys r cute and jerky or just not my type

both of my bestfriends havent had boyfriends for like a year and a half... so i know what your going through cuz i always talk to them about it too. Okay well what you should do is talk to them !!find interests that you like in guys, and search a little... and just go step by step. Its probably hard to just read this and be like 'um.. its not that easy' , but they say that things come when you least expect it. Maybe a guy likes you that you don't know of.. I would just be a little more agresive if you really want a boyfriend and be a little more flirty and just have fun.. some1 will come soon ;) :D

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How would be the best way to get trust as a Guy? Girls think all we want is ya know!!!! 17 male

Well, from expierence i would say that the best way to get trust from a guy is let the girl know that you love her a lot and make sure she know's your in the only one in your eyes, and you would never want to hurt her. Don't talk about other girls a lot because then she could start to think your interested in other people. Let her know where you are or what your up to and just be calm about it, if you beleive she should trust you, then im sure she will.

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Hi, I'm 13 and 4 months and I havent ever gotten my period... :(. Anyway the last week-ish i've been noticing stuff and I think it may be coming soon. I am eating A LOT, like the equivilant of about 5 full meals a day. My skin is going from oily to dry to oily to dry and back to oily again, and I have more pimples than I've ever had before. My boobs are extremely tender too. Discharge isnt an issue, I've been having that all the time for like a year and a half, and it's the same as always.... what do you think? Might it be my time??
Ps- today i'm also a lil sick, like congested, but I think thats an outside issue, i dunno if it matters, oh well.
Help, i rate.

Hey sweetie, DO NOT WORRY at all! My bestfriend is 14 and a half and she hasn't gotten her's yet either. I bet it will be coming soon because of all those symptons and stuff... but you should be almost happy you havnet gotten it yet lol, don't worry at all, it will be there soon enough ,and it seems like in the next week or so or somthing like that, but goodluck- hope i helped :)

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I am a very flirtacious person. I flirt and mess around with all my friends who are guys. My boyfriend tends to get slightly jealous when I flirt with the guys we hang around with and even though he knows it doesn't mean anything, he still gets annoyed. I understand this and we talked about it but I can't help my personality. How can I be less flirtacious?

Well i know exactly what you mean. I tend to love to get flirty with the guys, but when you have a boyfriend that you love very much, you should really try to think about what he wants. What if you were in his position? It hurts when your dating somone and that person is around the opposite sex all the time.. it makes you unsicure. So just try to think about what your cutie wants becuase you have to show love to him too! Hope I helped! =D

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