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Kyle, I really need your help, I'm going crazy here! The guy I like (alot, for a couple years now, pretty much since I met him) lives in New Mexico, and I live in the same city as you, so its like 12 hours away adn so we never get to see each other. We're both Seniors, and we're not going to the same college. Do we have a chance? What am I supposed to do? (link)
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well...yes and no...in college is when most people meet their significant other, and being 12 hours away...lol that makes things REALLY difficult...just let him know how u feel, and keep in touch and what happens happens and what doesn't...doesn't...:(
sorry...but good luck
-Kyle
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My first day of school is soon and I'm going to be a sophmore in HS. Some freshman boys, that I know are coming to my school, are very mean to me and start rumors. One of them is my ex boyfriend and he always says spreads mean things about me. I don't know what to do, because the things they say about me are embarrasing and horrible. I'm so scared that the whole school is going to be making fun of me when they come. How do I stay calm and make sure they don't start on me this year? (link)
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:( i go through the same thing...everyone thinks i'm gay or something because i'm so nice...like seriously they think i like boys...and one of my best friends from like last year...we don't see each other anymore, he turned on me and he got new friends or w/e and they all started calling me GK...for Gay Kyle, it was pathetic but still, stuff like that hurts, so i know where ur coming from, but i just ignored it, and if they said it to my face i'd let them know it was a mistake, people who cut others down r usually extremely insecure about themselves, so by dissing what other people have that they wish they had, it makes them feel better about the void in their life, u won't see hardly any of them after high school is over, 2 more years and those meanies will be gone for good, and none of them have futures acting the way they do, just be urself and if they don't like it that's tuff stuff cuz u seem really nice and deserving of much better than the bs those guys r handing u, good luck -Kyle :D
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ok, so, I like this boy, and hes completely gorgeous and sweet and everything, but he graduated last year and I never see him. What am I supposed to do? (link)
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:) i know who wrote this...because u told me lol...so since i know ur a senior...i'd suggest moving on unless ur both going to a local college...like grayson for example...because then u'd actually be able to see each other, but if that's not the case...then i'd suggest keeping in contact...but moving on to see other people...until college is out or summer comes around or something...then see what's going on in each others' lives and see what all's possible and logical and what all is out of the question...lol i hope u understand this...it sounded good in my head before i typed it out...but good luck :-D
-Kyle
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K Here's the deal. I recently went to tx to see my dad's side of the family 4 the first time. When i got there my 17 y\o female cousin gave me a tour of the yard as per my uncles request. A wasp flew down her shirt and a so as not to get stung on her boobs she lifted her shirt briefly exposed herself to me. I turned around out of respect but i still saw. And i liked it :(
my question is, that wrong. i mean shes very attractive and a total stranger to me.
please help me AIM: MicroSurjj88 email: loser1588@hotmail.com
THNX, Microsurjj 16 Y\O (link)
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well...i think it's perfectly normal for u to enjoy seein some teets =P any guy would...but the fact that it was ur cousin...lol that's a lil odd but u never have met her before so that kinda nullifies anything incestial...but since u recognized the situation and r grossed out by the way u feel i dont really think there's anything wrong with enjoying seeing hey breasts...her chesticles...the jubblies, the jibblets, the...yeah...hahaha it's cool man just...don't think about it in the shower...and if u do DON'T tell me about it =P
good question,
-Kyle
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hey kyle, u probably dont know who this is so im gunna keepo this anonomous.. ok i have been goign out wiht this guy all summer and he lives in allen... now that school has started, he has stopped calling me and i htink he is flirting with all the gurls at his school.. what should i do????+ (link)
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my new aim is xxxKyleStylexxx so tell me on there who this is =P, but long distance is soooo hard when ur young because u can't keep an eye on the one u care about...u shouldn't have to but when u dont see someone for a while u get lonely...and everyone else starts lookin REALLLLLLY good all of a sudden lol...so just be honest with him about the way u feel and if he's an ass about it then there's not much u can do but break it off before he hurts u even more :(
good luck,
-Kyle
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ok so i like this guy.. and he likes me.. but he just wants to be like fwb..but i kinda wanna be more.. what should i do.. if theres anything i could do at all? i mean like i dont mind just being fwb.. but i do wish he'd like date or somethin.. :-/
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well...kinda hard to say...i mean if u like each other enough then yes it should lead to more than just fwb, but then again if he's only in it for the goods then maybe be careful...i do the fwb thing because it's easier than dating...because with dating comes breakup, and i don't like that...it usually messes things up or puts both of u in an awkward position, instead of the great friends u were before...so just...do what feels right, and talk to him about it, good luck
-Kyle
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Ok, there is this guy that I met at camp 2 weeks ago. We fell madly in love with each other over the course of the 3 weeks that we were there. He is absolutely perfect for me, but he lives in Dallas. And I live here in Sherman. He so sweet to me, and he really knows who I am, no one else really does. And he still loves me even though he knows all this stuff about me. I love him too.I know that if I found someone here it just wouldn't be the same because it wouldn't be Kent. what should I do? Let it go, or try to make it work. (link)
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i know exactly who posted this...and since i know ur age and grade...i know y u feel the way u do...try not to call it love...and try not to think ur madly in love or w/e cuz guys come and go throughout gradeschool...not being extremely serious about stuff during gradeschool pays off big time in the end...but anyways...just think of the pros and cons of seeing or not seeing that person...and then decide...but i wouldn't if i were u...i've tried the distance thing...and the distance was 30 min not an hour and a half like what ur talkin...:-/ sorry i dont think my advice is very helpful but i'm only being honest...and so far i've been right so...maybe i'm right here 2 ;)
good luck,
-Kyle
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There is this one guy i really like alot. He is almost 18 and therefore almost 3 years older. But heres the problem...He lives about 6 states away...Do you have any advice? Should i cling to this "relationship" or "want-to-be-relationship?"Or should i let it go and fine someone in my city?--LongDistanceDramaQueen.
Advice would be lovely! (link)
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same advice as the other question u asked lol ;)
thx for asking,
-kyle
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I like this guy alot..And he supposly says he likes me too.But he lives about 6 states away which really bites. Anyways Hes nearly 18 and i really wish he would come see me and he says he will...But he parents probally wont let him.Should i just mvoe on and forget about this long distance guy or see what happends in the end?--DramaqueenExtreme (link)
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long distance is for people who can do something about the way they feel...like...drive or fly to see each other...and 6 states...dannnnnnnnnnnng lol...i'd either keep in contact and wait til u were old enough to move out on ur own and meet up and go from there...or...move on and find someone within reasonable distance and age...3 years isn't anything i know but right now it is...because ur only 15 (i think...) and he's almost 18 and...well...that never works truuuust me...so i'd try and just move on to someone close in age and distance...
good luck, -Kyle
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ok..this is the thing..i really like this guy but he has problems with keeping a relationship...but i really like him for him and he is just one of those bad boy types and ALL of my friends think i can get WAY better! but what am i supposed to do when my heart says i like him? But when i know i would be better of knowing he was with some other chick? ---THE WRONG GIRL (link)
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hmmm...if i were u i'd follow my heart...love or not if he makes u happy...go after him, but if ur friends see how he treats u the wrong way or somethin...then u should step back and look at it from a totally different angle, and THEN decide, patience will help u here i think...
good luck -Kyle
(hey if this is who i think it is U KNOW BETTER! haha)
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hey......but would you ever date someone younger than you?-someone (link)
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usually the only people i do date r younger than i am...not terribly younger...i think the lowest is like 2 grades difference...but then again i should be a grade lower than i am so...it evens out :-P
i like younger girls...they're not as corrupted as the older ones and r more innocent...and a lot nicer :) so...yes i would date someone younger than i was...the deal is...i dont really..."date" or w/e...i dont see the point in commitment if i can't do anything about the way i feel, i'm going into my 3rd year of highschool and i stillll don't drive...so...it's not like if i fell in love (which i doubt will happen soon) that i could make something out of it...it would just kinda be there and be unused...not sure if any of this makes sense but i'm tryin!
haha :-D
-Kyle
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Hey Kyle! I have this friend that tends to tell my best friend stuff that I dont want her to know about and all. I try to tell him but everytime I try to, I just choke up. What should I do? P.S. I just wish that everything wasn't related on sex these days. :'( (link)
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just be honest with him about how u feel and if he can't respect that then he's not really that great of a friend is he?...because friendship is based on trust and loyalty. hope that helps...
-kyle
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I have a boyfriend who always says i love you to me! I love hearing it. But I wander if he really knows what love is. Why do guys do this?
Ashley
12-female
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ok ashlee, u sound like a lovely young lady, but trust me when i say it's bs lol...he's a young lil guy he doesn't know real love from "ooo i wanna do that one!" guys usually feel pressured into saying the 3 special words and they think they're supposed to say it...
so just believe me when i say it's not love...
:-/ sorry :-/
good luck sweetie :D,
-Kyle
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Hey Kyle! I have a friend that loves heavey metal rock shit like static-x and slipknot and all but I like Blink-182 and New Found Glory and Simple Plan and all, Which ''they'' don't like. Know matter how hard I try to like them, I don't. How cna I try to like them and me cool like ''they'' are?
Sincerly,
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...lol my admirer? my aim is MoonLigh7 Shadow...lemme know who u r i hate guessing games :(:(:( :) :) :)
but...hmm...if ur "coolness" or w/e is judged upon what music u listen to, then those people r sooooooooooo superficial they rn't even worth knowing...i mean damnnnnnnn should it really matter???? nooooooooo it shouldn't...hell i listen to dance music...like...the techno type stuff on 106.7 fm :-D and people call me faggot, fagboy, queer, queer bait, loser, alllllll that bs and it doesn't bother me a bit...us being ourselves is what makes the human race so interesting :-D
be urself...
-kyle
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Ok my boyfriend and I just started going out. But the other day i was out with him at a club and this girl came to us and told us that she's pregnant and he might be the father of her baby. Im really confused i dunno if i should stick with him or lose him. bcuz he told me he wuz a virgin. HELP (link)
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*sigh* if he's a virgin...then how could he "maybe" be the father? the only chance of that happening without him losing his virginity is testtube babies...which costs like hundreds of thousands, and i dont think they could afford that being young people...and they wouldn't do it just for fun...so...yeah he lost his virginity and he lied to u about it so u wouldn't be grossed out about it, cuz it is kinda a turn off when u know they're not innocent, if i were u i'd break it off and keep him as a friend, a distant friend, or not one at all...
good luck :D
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hey i am going to be 13 in about a month and i havnt got my period yet and most of my friends have and there all younger then me... (link)
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:( it's ok darlin my cousin is almost 16...like...he'll be 16 in 3 weeks, and he's 17 days younger than i am and he hasn't got a hair on his body...not one, and his voice is higher than a lil girls voice on helium lol...and mine's deeper than hell :-/
everyones different, but it will come sooner or later, but ur lucky it's later, i hear periods SUCK BIGGUN haha
good luck :)
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i have a boyfriend who i love with all my heart and he always says he loves me and all this and i say i love him back and hes like yeah yeah i know and all this but then when we talk online he like starts all this stuff like u dont love me and i know your gonna breakup with me and all kinds of things like that. how do i make him believe that i really do love him and im not gonna break up with him? please help me! (link)
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my dad once told me..."kyle if u ever have to ask anyone what they think about who u love, then it's not love, and it wont work, doubt always comes out negative in the end." see what i mean...?
good luck :-/
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