My name is Sara. I live in California. Im a happy person. I dont put up with drama and I enjoy trying to make life as simple as possible.
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I had sex for the first time yesterday. And now I'm really happy. And yesterday night I was with my boyfriend afterwords and I didn't want to let go and I kept telling him I love him.
1. Do you think thats a result of having sex with him? 2. Do you think he hates it and thinks its annoying?
Totally off topic but..
3. Does sex stop hurting after awhile?
4. How protective are condoms?(from pregnency)
5. Where would I get birth control from?
6. And can I get it without my parents? (link)
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1.Love is not a result of having sex. It may bring you closer together but you can be in love without having sex.
2.I do not know him personally, so I cannot answer that.
3.Usually, sex does stop hurting after awhile.You are not as "tight" as before.
4.Condoms are pretty affective from pregnancy, and reduce the chances a great deal. Also,Condoms with spermicide are even more effective.
5.You can get birth control from your doctor. Tell your mom your peroids are irregular and you have very bad cramps. They will give you birth control.Also you can get it from planned parenthood.
6.Yes
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so i was told its not a good idea to PLAN to get/use the morning after pill. why is this? my boyfriend and i are both virgins and it was a mutual decision that we wanted 2 forms of protection.. a condom and a pill.. or else no sex would be performed. however i have no way of getting birth control [my mom wont let me be put on it bc she thinks when i do ill jus be havin sex all the time ((talking to her does nothing trust me ive tried)), and wont take me to a gyno ((honestly im not too fond of the idea of going either lol!))] so the morning after pill would be my only other option. what would it hurt to use it? and do you really have to be 18 to get it at like walmart or wherever? i looked it up but got different confusing answers.
also if i were to get birth control from like a planned parenthood or whatever.. say if i used it for a month, had sex, then didnt use it again, would i still be protected? cuz they only give you enough for one month right?
sry i know its alot. 16 female. (link)
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Well if you use a condom, the morning after pill is not nessecary unless the condom breaks. It is dangerous to use as normal birth control. You cannot get it at walmart unless you are 18 or have a perscription from your doctor (what I did). You can say to your mother your periods are heavy and irregular and to take you to the doctor. The doctor will most likely say you need birth control. Also, the morning after pill is not fun to take. You can feel nauous or have vomitting from the hormones.
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so i'm a fifteen year old girl.
i've had sex before with my boyfriend with condoms and it's been all good.
until today, we had it with the "mint tingle" from trogen.
we went all the way
and it broke.
we didnt notice it broke until he cumed.
so my questions are
what should i do? i've cleaned my self out a lot. we got it (or most of it) before it got in, i cleaned it with water and i'm about to go shower.
and what are the chances of me getting preg?
and has this happened to some one else, what happened, and what condom did you use?
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No matter how much you cleaned yourself out, there is still probabily sperm inside you since sperm is mircoscopic and it only takes 1 to fertilze an egg. I suggest the morning after pill if it has been less than 3 days since this incident.
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I was having sex last month and he promised he would use a condom. I was in the bathroom putting my new outfit on from Victoria Secret: sparkly, short skirt with a lacy see through corsette. He wanted me to make it sexy, so i did. So i went in the room and he said he had put the condom on so we had sex. He entered me and it felt weird. Then he cummed. It felt so good. But then he pulled it out after we were done, it lasted two hours by the way! But, there was no condom! He lied and never put a condom on! He said it feels better without one on.I was supposed ot get my period last week. I havent gotten it at all. My breats are tender and i havent had much of an appitite. PLEASE HELP ME! I'm 18/F
1)Does it feel better without a condom on?
2)Am i pregnant?
3)What should i do?
4)SHould i stay with this guy?
HELP ME I NEED ALL THE ADIVCE POSSIBLE! I WANT ALOT OF ADVICE! (link)
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1. Yes it probabily does feel better for a guy without a condom.
2.There is a good chance you are pregnant. There was no form of birthcontrol. You have not had your period and you are experiencening signs of pregnancy.
3.You should get a pregnancy test as soon as possible, none of that cheap stuff. Get EPT. If the test is positive, you want to consider your options. There is keeping the baby, abortion and adoption, choose which one is best for you, keeping the babys future in mind.
4.You shouldnt stay with this guy. Any guy that would lie to you for his own pleasure at the risk of you getting pregnant or an STD is lower than dirt.
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If you have sex the last day of your period and the day after you get off what are the chances of pregnancy? We didn't use any protection and I am not on birth control. Also, he didnt pull out. Please answer soon. (link)
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Yes there is a chance of pregnancy. The chances are slimer than usual because you were on your period, but there is still a much greater chance than if you used a condom or were on birthcontrol. My suggestion to you is to find a planned parenthood and take the morning after pill if it has been less than 3 days of unprotected sex. They may work up to 5 days. If it has been more than 5, you should start knowing the signs of pregnancy and wait for your period to come. Some signs are breast tenderness and spotting. If your period does not come on the expected day, take a pregnancy test. Oh and next time, you might want to at least use a condom or have him pull out, even though it is still not as effective as a condom
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what do ladies think semen taste like and if you are experenced in the field do you spit or swallow? (link)
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I think semen tastes kind of salty. It is your personal choice to spit or swallow. Some perfer to spit while others perfer to swallow. I personally perfer to swallow. And no, It is not "nasty" and it doesnt make you sick or pregnant.
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I am going on birth control (i'm not sure what brand yet...i just got a blood test done...i am seeing the doctor for persciption and stuff next week)
while on the pill (or patch or w/e i get) can you have sex w/o a condom and still be safe?
Yes; i know that having both is ideal. and yes i know that BC doesnt stop STD's or anything; im just curious...
and also; do you still have your period while taking birth control? or is it stopped? (link)
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Yes, you can have sex without a condom and not get prego. Although, I see alot of people on here say that you have to wait 1 month on birth control before it works. This may be true for some types of birth control, but mine was effective after one week (told by doctor). You would want to ask your doctor when the birth control takes effect. Some birth controls you completely stop your period, and others you have it once a month. It all depends, and there are many types of birth control out there such as the regualar pill or a shot. You would want to consult your doctor and pick the best one for you.
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right i get parranoid pretty easily but anyway this is sort of hard to explain but some one please give me the odds. basically yesterday me and my girl freind were goin to have sex we put the condom on and so on about 5 mins later i cheked to see if the condom was on it wasnt so i stopped immediatly NO CHANCES right anyway today my girl freind starts sayin she isnt feeling very well and her stomach hurts. so when i got home i had a search on the internet and things like that they said that precum can mae a girl pregnant. can some one please just give me a hand and tell me the odds if shes pregnan or not and what do i do if she is becuase i cannot let my parents or hers find out because my mum and dad would disown me. by the way im not a man whore or anything like that i had sex with my girl freind becuase we have had an amazing relationship and i love her . if any one could give me a hand on this i would be truly grateful (link)
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The first thing you need to do is consider the morning after pill. if it was within 5 days of sex, this will prevent a fertilized egg from reaching the unterin lining. Second, your girlfriend was probabily feeling "sick" because she was nervous or scared based on the situation. If she was pregnant, she wouldnt be getting sick that close after concreception. If it has been more than 5 days after, get a pregnancy test. there IS a chance she is pregnant because of pre cum.
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okay ive recently gone vegetarian.
i used to masturbate maybe once every one to two weeks. now, i cant seem to go 2 days without masturbating.
i know masturbation is healthy but im still very scared about it being a sin and if my friends do because if they dont i feel like im messed up or something.
what should i do? (link)
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Im not here to tell you to not worry about what your friends think or anything. Personally, I think masterbation is not morally wrong at all. But if you would like to stop or slow down on it, try just to go a few days with out it. I know it will be kind of frustrating, but just wait because the less a girl masterbates, the less you want it. Weird huh? I thought it was just me but Ive heard from many other girls the same thing. So if you want to cut down, the first few days of not doing it will be hard but just remember it will only get easier from there.
oh yeah and your diet probabily has no effect on your sex drive so dont worry about that.
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